Many people have written speeches related to parent-teacher conferences, so let's start writing them. Parents should pay more attention to encouraging their children at the parent-teacher meeting, so that they can have confidence and improve their learning enthusiasm. If you blame your child too much, it will only make your child's grades worse and worse. Did you find a junior high school that was going to write a speech for the parents' meeting during the epidemic? I have collected relevant information below for your reference!
During the epidemic, the parents' meeting of junior high school 1 spoke.
Dear parents, friends and classmates,
Hello everyone! I am very grateful for providing such an opportunity for our parents to communicate. Below I will share my little experience of taking care of children with my parents and friends. If there are any shortcomings, please criticize and correct them.
First, to learn, make up your mind first. Set goals and find motivation.
As far as children's learning is concerned, there are also internal and external causes. Internal factors play a leading role. What is this internal cause? In other words, why should our children study? I'm afraid many children think they are studying for their parents and teachers, but they don't think they are studying for themselves. How to turn what I want to learn into what I want to learn is the key to stimulate children's enthusiasm for learning. The key to the door of wisdom is to set a goal.
Parents and children sit down, analyze the child's qualifications and endowments, and find a goal that is suitable for the child's actual situation and can be achieved by jumping. There is a famous saying in the ancients: the law depends on the upper level and the law depends on the lower level. This means that if you work hard for a high goal, you are likely to achieve a medium goal. If you work hard for a moderate goal, the final result may be a lower goal. In other words, if you work hard in a national first-class key university, you will probably only be admitted to a second-rate key university. With lofty goals, the next step is to overcome the obstacles on the climbing road, starting from every day, one step at a time. Specifically, it is to find a suitable learning method, take every homework seriously, preview in advance, review after class, and form good study habits. My daughter and her father read a message in a book: Good habits can be formed in 2 1 day. We did experiments on two children, and both of them succeeded. Parents may wish to give it a try.
Now, most of our children are around thirteen years old, which psychologists call the second weaning period. There is an article in the Chinese newspaper called thirteen-year-old syndrome. What's wrong with being thirteen? It is not difficult to find that, on the one hand, children are at a loss because of the perfection of book knowledge structure and the increase of difficulty, thus feeling nervous and anxious; On the other hand, the child's physical and mental development has advanced by leaps and bounds and has reached adulthood. They want to be big everywhere, but they are stubborn and especially want to be understood and respected by others. If parents don't understand these characteristics, it is obviously inappropriate and can't solve the problem at all.
Second, parents should set an example and let their children grow up with encouragement.
Parents must do what their children are asked to do. This is not easy for parents to do, but it is an important principle. If parents ask their children to study hard while watching TV dramas and football matches with relish, the children may say the opposite: Why don't you study? My family usually doesn't watch TV during children's study time. After dinner, my daughter does her homework, her father and brother learn English, and I also read and write after cleaning up the housework. Create a learning atmosphere at home.
Relevant experts have the view that grade four or five in primary school, grade two in junior high school and grade two in senior high school are the three major slopes for students. Generally speaking, if they can rush up smoothly, the college entrance examination will not be a problem. Today, our children are on the second largest slope. In the second year of junior high school, geometry was added, and English texts and ancient prose became longer and longer. I analyzed the objective difficulty of the new problem with my children. I said to her: everyone has the same difficulty, it depends on who can rush in. If you bravely climb the slope that blocks you and go all out, your ideal will be one step closer to you. Children understand what I mean and consciously spend more time on geometry and ancient prose. Because she prepared herself psychologically in advance and noticed the place where she studied hard, she didn't feel hard on the slope.
On the eve of the final exam last year, the school was in the stage of comprehensive review, and it was inevitable to do a lot of papers and homework. When the children came home, they complained while doing their homework: Hey, being a student is really tiring! The first few days, I just listened. Later, she complained more and more and obviously had negative emotions. I realized there was a problem. I said to my daughter: there are two ways to solve this problem: one is to drop out of school immediately, do some coolies when you grow up, pick up garbage and make a living; The other is to advance despite difficulties, bravely stand on the tide and move forward to the other side of your ideal. You choose! Of course, my daughter chose the latter. She said, I'm just saying! I said: this kind of complaint is actually a psychological negative hint, and negative hints often work in secret. Why not say: Ah, our teacher is so responsible. I have mastered all the review questions given to us by the teacher today, and I have lived up to the teacher's hope! If you face the overwhelming test paper with this mentality every day, the effect will definitely be different.
Isabella Chow's book Appreciate Your Children inspired me a lot. He said: children should grow up with encouragement, and parents should praise your children without stint. According to this theory, I can discover children's small progress in time, with oral praise as the main and material encouragement as the supplement. To this end, my family has established a scholarship system. For generous scholarships, children's enthusiasm for learning is greatly encouraged. The main purpose of my doing this is to let the children understand that if you want to get it, you must make your own efforts and harvest what you have earned. She uses scholarships to buy school supplies and other daily necessities she likes, and also exercises her children's financial and spending ability.
I usually take every opportunity to communicate with my children, understand their real thoughts and wishes, and sincerely ask them to give their parents advice and suggestions. Enjoy the joy of success with children, analyze the lessons of failure with children, and let children have a sense of equality and respect.
Praise is much, and children sometimes show signs of cocking their tails. In the mid-term exam last year, my daughter learned that she had surpassed her competitors and won the first place in her grade. After returning home, she was excited for a long time and didn't start her homework. I see it in my eyes and I am anxious in my heart. I'm wondering how to calm her down. I had a brainwave, picked up a piece of paper and wrote a poem on it: Outside the castle peak outside the mountain, heroes strive for the upper reaches, not proud of the upper reaches, and there are heroes behind them. The child looked at the note, turned to the study and put it on the base of the desk lamp.
Thirdly, I will focus on how parents guide their children and walk with them in Chinese and English.
According to our own experience, my husband and wife have reached such a * * understanding of children's learning: Chinese is the main stage in primary school, English is the main stage in junior high school, and mathematics and physics are strengthened in senior high school. Because there are a lot of extracurricular reading in primary schools, the understanding ability has been enhanced. In junior high school, the focus of Chinese is to improve the ability of appreciation and writing. My daughter and I both have library cards of the oilfield library, and we can borrow four books every month. Most of the books we borrow are literature books. When we read good books, we go to the bookstore to buy them back. So you can read a lot of books and spend less money. I also subscribe to many books, newspapers and magazines for my children every year. In the second day of junior high school, in addition to Chinese newspapers and English newspapers, I also specially added a magazine called Selected Works of Middle School Students (junior middle school edition). Once a month, children read many famous articles, Chinese and foreign American articles, comparative reading, expert comments and other articles in various styles, which improved their analytical ability and appreciation ability. I found that my daughter scored very high in the extracurricular reading part of every exam, which is inseparable from her extensive extracurricular reading.
Speech at the parents' meeting of the second grade in junior high school during the epidemic period
Dear teachers and parents,
I am _ _ _' s father. First of all, I am very grateful to all the teachers for their careful cultivation and care for all the children in this class. At the same time, I am very grateful to all parents for giving me such an opportunity to discuss the education of children with you there. As a young parent, I have no experience in educating children. The following are some suggestions and methods that I have accumulated in educating my children. I hope to encourage all parents and friends present here!
First, let children study happily. Learning is a lifelong course. Don't let children feel that learning is a burden and a kind of pressure, but let her understand in happiness and experience in a smile. This is what impressed me the most when I read the text. While reading the text, she does actions, which are vivid, sad or happy, crying or noisy, happy or sad, exaggerated. In this way, she can perform a text and a story very vividly, and sometimes she uses a picture to recite ancient poems. She said that learning is simple, happy and easy to remember information.
Second, give children more praise and encouragement. We understand that praise can make people work miracles, and too much criticism will lead to too much self-blame for children. Children have made progress, encourage and praise her at any time, make her feel a sense of accomplishment, and urge her to make persistent efforts; If your child goes backwards, don't be discouraged. Never scold her to her face, let alone compare your child with other children. This will hurt the child's intention and self-esteem. Once, I compared _ _ with other children, and she was unhappy. "You always compare my shortcomings with others' advantages. Why don't you compare my advantages with others'?" Yes, there are many bright spots in each of our children. If parents often praise and encourage their children, they will certainly perform better.
Third, cultivate children's hobbies and stimulate their interest in learning. As parents, we all expect our children to be proficient in everything. In my opinion, we must respect children's own choices. If the child likes it, she will be willing to learn and will learn well. _ _ _ Usually I like reading and painting. On weekends, I often take her to the library and bookstore to buy some extracurricular books that she likes. For example, I just bought her a set of "100,000 Why's", and she takes it out as a treasure every day. Sometimes I will watch it with her, so that in the long run, she will accumulate a lot of knowledge, broaden her horizons and stimulate her interest in learning, and her academic performance will naturally improve. In addition, I will draw with my children. Whenever she finishes a work, I will praise and encourage her. The happiness of children is self-evident. In this way, children's thinking will be extended and their self-confidence will be improved. With self-confidence, she will work harder to do everything well.
Children are our expectation and the future of our motherland. We should trust our children. On this day, they are just a small bonsai at home. Tomorrow, in the vast world, they must grow into towering trees.
Thank you!
During the epidemic, parents will speak to junior high school 3
Dear parents:
(used when meeting in the afternoon) Good afternoon.
First of all, please allow me to extend a warm welcome to all the parents present today on behalf of all the teachers in the school and Grade Two. Thank you for taking time out of your busy schedule to attend this parent-teacher conference and for your strong support for our work. The main content of today's parents' meeting is to report the students' learning situation in the first half of the semester and the tasks they will face in the second half of the semester, and formulate corresponding measures and put forward corresponding requirements. I hope that through today's parents' meeting and the joint efforts of schools, families and students, we can do a good job in the education of students and make every student make greater progress this semester.
I believe that when parents are successful in their careers, they also want to see their children grow up healthily. Facing the children entering the second grade, they are more mature than before, and their physiology has also undergone great changes. Some parents are a little at a loss, hoping to communicate with teachers more and get their help.
In fact, the second day is indeed an extremely important year. Some students have entered a state of blind self-confidence, doing things and studying with interest and mood, and have a strong rebellious mentality, even aiming at parents and teachers to show their personality. Therefore, the second day of junior high school is a crucial year for students, a year of anxiety for parents and a year of anxiety for teachers. To this end, on behalf of the teachers in the second grade group of the school, I briefly report to the parents the general situation of this semester.
Judging from this mid-term exam, the differences among subjects are not great, the development between classes is relatively balanced, and the teachers in all subjects are quite responsible and enthusiastic. Therefore, this year, Grade Two of Senior High School achieved very good results in this mid-term exam, ranking 14 among 3/kloc-0 schools in rural middle schools, which is quite commendable for the low-cost period in recent two years and is soaked with a lot of sweat from teachers. From 28 or 20 students in Grade One to 16 students in the first half of Grade Two, to 14 students now. Faced with considerable pressure from school teachers, they will continue to strive for better results if they do not advance in the fierce competition.
From the student's point of view, excellent students are quite good. There are 15-20 students in previous exams, and there is hope of being admitted to provinces and cities. Compared with the three schools in Guli Town, the top students have a slight advantage. Other students with poor conditions are also promising to be admitted to key high schools and five-year junior colleges, so parents should pay special attention to their children's learning and growth. At present, there are many reasons for the polarization of students' high scores and low scores, and parents should understand them. Subjectively, students have poor foundation, poor study habits and incorrect learning attitude. Objectively speaking, there are many subjects and deep learning contents, and some students are not used to it, so there are some bad phenomena such as not finishing homework on time and copying homework. Some students only pay attention to the learning results, but not enough attention to the process they usually pay. If this goes on, it will inevitably affect their study in grade three.
According to the current situation, how to do a good job in the education of students at this stage can only be accomplished by the cooperation of schools and families to create a good educational environment.
Some parents are anxious when they see that their children are lax in their studies and their grades are not satisfactory for a while. Some people often complain, scold and even punish their children. It is very inappropriate for second-grade children to simply use these methods. It takes a process for students to form study habits. This kind of mood is understandable, but it is impossible to "turn iron into steel" by "hate" alone. To turn iron into steel, we must be patient, try various educational methods, pay attention to students' process management, and not kill the goose that lays the golden egg.
So, where should parents start to improve their children's academic performance? Simply put:
First, catch your homework. It must be stipulated that children must finish their homework after school and must check it. Don't rush your oral homework and review your homework.
Second, grasp the attitude. It is required to study attentively and seriously, to write neatly, cleanly and accurately, and not to be "anticlimactic".
Third, grasp skills. Ask questions, do homework, be accurate, be quick, be of high quality, and be clear in language expression.
In addition, parents' "grasping" should be mandatory, that is, specific requirements, specific supervision and specific inspection. Some parents ask a lot, but they don't carefully check and implement them. After a long time, the child understood his parents' temper, and the result was still an armchair strategist. Only by putting forward specific requirements for children and examining them directly can children feel the seriousness of their parents' requirements, and then restrain themselves from turning their requirements into actions. Practice has proved that these operations are simple but very practical. As long as children's learning requirements are correct, they will develop good study habits and their academic performance will improve rapidly.
I talked about study habits just now. I think good study habits are indispensable and crucial for an excellent student. Here, I emphasize the following points:
First of all, we should educate children to learn how to arrange their time reasonably. For children, it is abstract to cherish time and make rational use of it. Without the guidance of parents, it is difficult for children to do it themselves. Because children are energetic, curious and competitive, they often do their homework while playing. Many children even do their homework while watching TV. Of course, it is difficult to finish their homework with high quality and high efficiency. Parents should start with specific time arrangements, such as asking their children to go to bed early and get up early, exercise and read books after getting up in the morning, review their lessons and do homework and read books after school in the afternoon. They should set some specific tasks for children, so that these activities can be gradually accepted by children and become a habit.
Second, we should educate our children to form the habit of finishing their homework independently. Doing homework is the main way to deepen understanding and consolidate knowledge. Some children don't want to work hard to finish their homework on time, and even copy others' homework at school. Even if they hand in their homework every day, it is difficult for them to master new learning content. Therefore, parents must let their children develop the habit of completing homework independently. Here I can share with you three chapters on how parents do homework for their children: 1. Don't ask others what you can do through your own efforts in practice; 2. If you feel at a loss during the practice, review the concepts first, then look at the examples, and then think for yourself and strive to complete it independently; 3. seriously think about the topic that you really can't do independently. When you ask the teacher for help, you must first make clear your understanding of the topic and what you don't understand.
Parents' counseling mainly focuses on "guidance": through the "diagnosis" of difficult problems, starting from children's thinking obstacles, eliminate them one by one and inspire children to realize the truth. Parents can entrust teachers to choose some topics similar to children's problems for demonstration and analysis. (This requires parents to care about their children's lives. )
Third, we should help children overcome bad habits in their studies. In the process of learning, some children unconsciously develop some bad habits, such as playing after school, watching TV all day, sloppy homework, unwilling to check by themselves and so on. If these problems are not obvious at first, they will seriously affect children's future academic progress. Therefore, parents must cooperate with teachers and let their children develop a serious and responsible attitude. They should concentrate on their studies while studying and play properly while playing. Parents should help master proper limit. )
What I said above is mainly "how to cultivate children to form good study habits". In my daily work, I also find that many parents will almost say that our children listen to the teacher the most. In fact, have parents thought deeply about this question? Why do children listen to teachers instead of parents? Because our teacher has mastered the psychology of students and the methods of educating them. Educator Mr. Tao Xingzhi once said: "Learning to be excellent is an official." Life education is the core of family education. If a child wants to become a talent, he must first teach him to be a man. Our parents want their children to be "useful" people, and they have taken pains in knowledge and skills, neglecting the cultivation of their children's quality and character, resulting in lifelong regret. Sharpening a knife does not mistake a woodcutter, and students have a strong power of self-awakening. Therefore, I hope that parents can influence their children with their own personality, guide them to make a real demonstration. Only people with excellent quality and sound personality can be useful to the country, society and family. To this end, our parents should do the following three things:
First of all, pay attention to all-round quality training, so that children can develop physically and mentally healthily. Children, like small trees, need water, soil, sunshine and nourishment in their growth. Facing the challenge of knowledge economy, knowledge and skills are important, but a healthy mind and a strong body are also indispensable. Therefore, our parents should create some conditions for their children so that they can bear setbacks and develop physically and mentally.
Secondly, rough teaching is the easiest way to destroy children's minds.
Our parents all believe in the practice of "hitting the head with a stick to show filial piety". They don't persuade their children's mistakes, but rely on fists and feet. This will have two consequences, one is to make children form a cowardly psychology, and the other is to sow the seeds of cruelty in their hearts. No pains, no gains. This kind of seed erupts under certain circumstances, and the consequences are devastating and disastrous. Therefore, our parents must be rational, emotional and persistent with their children, and will certainly receive good results.
Third, love without education will eventually harm children. Educating children can't be without love, but we must love moderately and rationally. Spoiling is a very stupid love, which often destroys children in sweetness. As the saying goes, "spoil like killing a child." Nowadays, many parents treat their children as little emperors, and many children suffer from "April 21" syndrome. Grandma, grandfather, grandfather, grandmother, father and mother all revolve around children, which is very unfavorable to their growth. There are countless tragedies caused by doting. Our parents often say that "no matter how hard you suffer, you can't suffer your children", but people who are getting richer should also think deeply, "No matter how rich you are, you can't spoil your children." This sentence deserves our parents' deep thought.
Therefore, I still give parents a few suggestions:
1. Pay attention to children's learning and create a good learning environment for children;
2. Make friends with your children, and don't educate them as parents to exchange ideas, talk about themselves and be reasonable;
3. Investigate the development of successful children and find the gap between their own children through effective examples;
5. It is suggested that parents can always take the initiative to contact and communicate with the school, so that the family and the school can form a joint force;
Finally, on behalf of the school, I welcome all parents to put forward valuable opinions or suggestions on the education and teaching of our grade two group!
I firmly believe that with the joint efforts of teachers and students in our school and the support and cooperation of parents present, children will definitely become adults. Parents and friends, for the sake of children, let's join hands to create a better tomorrow for education.
Today, my speech ends here. Thank you!
During the epidemic, parents will speak, junior high school 4
Hello, teachers and parents!
I am _ _ _' s parents. Today, we sat with the teacher to discuss the education of children. The teacher asked me to introduce him. Actually, I have nothing to say, just say something from the heart.
_ _ _ This semester's mid-term exam results are good, ranking high, which is the result of the joint efforts of the teacher and herself. As a parent, I didn't play much role. Maybe I pay less attention to my children than ordinary parents.
In educating children, I think parents are their first teachers. Parents' words and deeds directly affect your children, so parents must play an exemplary role in dealing with people. At ordinary times, I am neither too strict nor too fond of _ _. Our relationship is like friends, so that I can learn more about her through conversation and help her correct her mistakes and give full play to her strengths. At home, try to let her do what she can and do her own thing without affecting her study. I think this is also a kind of exercise.
In learning, from primary school, we let her insist on previewing before class and reviewing after class, and asked her to listen carefully in class and finish her homework on time. When doing her homework, she should try to finish it independently. Don't depend on her parents. Make her happy when she should play, and let her concentrate on her study when she should study, so as to develop good study habits. Now we pay little attention to her study, and only occasionally give some suggestions, mainly relying on her consciousness. _ _ _ is practical in her study, which is her advantage, but she also has many shortcomings, such as speaking casually and being a little sloppy in her study, which needs to be corrected in her future study.
Finally, I hope children can get better grades under the education of teachers.
During the epidemic, parents will speak, junior high school 5
Dear teachers and parents, hello!
I am the parents of my classmates. First of all, I would like to thank the school teacher for giving me such a good opportunity to stand here and discuss the growth education of children with you. I feel very honored.
My child, who graduated from primary school, chose middle school. Facts have proved everything. We made the right choice. Over the past year or so, my children have become much more mature. His behavior is simple, diligent, unobtrusive and not seeking fame, which has been affirmed by people around him. I want to take this opportunity to thank all the teachers for their meticulous care for the children. In particular, Mr. Zhang's natural and graceful manners, extraordinary temperament, simple life style and studious spirit have been imperceptibly influencing my children, making him learn to read and be a man.
Family is the second class for children, and parents are teachers' assistants. Here, I will talk about my own experience on children's growth education.
First, pay attention to children's health.
Health here refers not only to physical health, but also to children's mental health. We should standardize our behavior and habits, enhance our patriotic feelings, and cultivate a national spirit of peace, diligence, courage and self-improvement. Improve children's ideological and moral quality, scientific and cultural quality and health quality.
Now is the information age, and it is not feasible to ban children from surfing the Internet. My family adopts the principle of combining blocking with dredging. Blocking refers to prohibiting him from surfing the Internet in Internet cafes. It is forbidden to browse unhealthy websites involving violence. After finishing his homework, he is allowed to surf the Internet when time permits, and help him choose some useful websites, such as k 12 and Li Zhenxi Education Online. This unconsciously expanded the child's knowledge. Of course, it is also allowed to play computer games and relax on weekends and winter and summer vacations.
Second, create a good family learning environment for children.
Our family gets up at 5: 50 every morning, which is also the time for parents to get up. The first thing we do after getting up is to turn on the repeater and play the children's English textbook tapes repeatedly. Let him brush his teeth, wash his face and have breakfast, and gradually improve his children's English listening level. In addition, at an appropriate time, you can talk with your children in English life language at home and read some English jokes to continuously improve their interest in learning English. And when children do their homework, we avoid watching TV and playing computer. We read some professional books. Or read some novels and magazines. The novels and magazines that our children read are all read by our parents, which will facilitate communication with our children.
Third, treat children as friends, understand more, praise more, encourage more, criticize less and blame less.
The distance between people is terrible, even between parents and children. I think: if we can find the right time to communicate with our children, get to know each other, put ourselves in their shoes and give them more care, then this kind of effort will definitely pay off. As a child, everyone wants to be the best, but it is impossible to be the first every time. I often tell my son that we don't want regrets, but we want a clear conscience. I don't ask my son to do great things, but I ask him to do every little thing in a down-to-earth manner. You don't care about the result, but you must pay attention to the process. When a child fails the exam, help him analyze the reasons, find the gap, and don't make similar mistakes in future exam assignments. My purpose has been achieved.
Being a man is the foundation of a child's life. To make children successful, we must first teach them to be human. This is the most important task of family education, as a summary of today.