The greatest torture in the world is to love and despise.
It's no use crying over spilled milk, because all the forces in the universe are trying to spill milk.
There is such a thing in life: you meet someone every day for months, so your relationship with him becomes very close, and you even wonder how to live without this person. Later they separated, but everything went on as before. The partner you once thought you could not live without has now become dispensable. Day after day, over time, you don't even think about him.
He doesn't know that on the journey of life, he has to cross a large area of arid, barren and sinister wilderness to enter the living real world. The so-called "how happy youth is" is just an illusion, an illusion of people whose youth has passed away.
I know I will have to make myself feel sad and regret about the life I have spent so far, but I deny that this regret has anything to do with myself. Now, I am sickly, poor and sick, and my life is dying, but I still hold my soul tightly in my hand, and I have nothing to regret.
When you grow up, you will find that to make this world a tolerable place to live, you must first admit that human selfishness is inevitable.
"I really don't see the use of reading the same thing endlessly. It's just a seemingly industrious laziness. "
What will happen in the future, I dare not even think about it. What's the point of life if you think about today and worry about tomorrow all day? Even if things can't get any worse, I think there is always a way to go.
There are only two things in the world that make our life worth living, that is, love and art. I always feel that you and I should take life as an adventure and let a jewel-like flame burn in our chests. To be a man, you have to take risks and go through fire and water.
When people are young, they have to pay a painful price for their beautiful vision of the future.
He has always been full of love for life. In his eyes, the idealism he encountered was largely a timid retreat from life. Idealists automatically escape from life because they can't stand the competition of that kind of crowd; He has no strength to struggle, so he calls this kind of struggle vulgar; He loves vanity, and because his peers don't treat him with their own evaluation, he comforts himself with contempt for his peers.
He spent his whole life following others' ideals step by step, which they instilled in him with words and books, not what he wanted in his heart. What he thought he should have done in the past influenced his life path, not what he wholeheartedly hoped to do. Now he has abandoned all this impatiently. Perhaps the tendency of happiness is to admit defeat, but this failure is better than many victories.
To me, a person seems to be a tightly wrapped bud. In most cases, what a person reads or does has no influence on him. However, some things do have special significance for a person. These things with special significance make the bud blossom into a petal, which opens one by one and finally blooms into a flower.
He is impatient with life because he finds that he can't tell what the vague impulse in his heart implies. His intelligence is not suitable for expressing his spirit.
He felt unbearable loneliness. He almost regretted the poor life he had suffered in the past two years, because those desperate struggles only made him barely fill his stomach, and the pain of life made him insensitive. "You have to sweat to make a living" is not a curse to human beings, but an analgesic ointment that makes people live comfortably.
He is weak and vain, so vain that you should always be careful not to hurt his feelings. He confused his idleness with idealism, so that he couldn't tell them apart.
In this case, the key to the problem is to figure out what kind of person you are. When this is clear, your philosophical system will follow.
In fact, the beneficiary's gratitude and gratitude psychology is much weaker than that of the benefactor.
There are two treasures in life, one is freedom of thought and the other is freedom of action.
Only the affection of parents' calves is truly selfless. Surrounded by strangers, he finally grew up, but others often treated him with neither patience nor restraint. He is proud of his self-control. His self-control was weakened by the cynicism of his partners. Finally, they accused him of cynicism and disloyalty. In dealing with people, he learned to deal with it calmly. In most cases, he can keep a straight face. Over time, he can no longer express his feelings in words.
There is still a long way to go and plenty of time. As long as he is happy, he can spend a few years wandering in places with few people and many strangers, where people live in all kinds of strange ways. He doesn't know what he wants to pursue, and he doesn't know what travel will bring him, but he thinks that through travel, he will learn a lot of new things in life. He won't find any clues about the mystery that has just been uncovered, but it will make him feel that the mystery of life is even more incredible. Even if you get nothing, you can at least eliminate the anxiety that disturbs your mood.
The meaning of life lies in life itself, not in how you describe it.
Surrender to happiness may be an admission of failure, but this kind of failure is much more meaningful than thousands of victories.
As long as you accept this misfortune with a little resistance, it can only bring you shame. If you regard it as a sign of God's care and a cross given to you because your shoulders are strong enough to bear, then it will no longer be the source of your pain, but will become the source of your happiness.
Youth is the imagination to face reality, not to deceive yourself according to others' imagination.
People act according to their emotions. But their relationship may be good or bad. It seems that it is purely accidental that their emotions lead to success or destruction. Life is inevitable chaos. Driven by this invisible force, people run around, but they can't answer any questions about the purpose of doing so. It's like they're running around just to run around.
Through these conversations, he gradually realized that the poor and the upper class have nothing in common. The poor do not envy the rich, because the lifestyles of the two sides are very different, and there is a typical psychology of enjoying themselves. They always think that the life of the middle class is full of hypocrisy, which is extremely unnatural. Moreover, they also look down on the rich middle class and think that they are a group of idiots who never work with their own hands.
He was madly in love with her, and he couldn't help wondering why he was so cold to her now. This emotional change filled his heart with pain, as if all the pain he had suffered in the past had become worthless. Before, when I touched her hand, my heart aroused a burst of ecstasy; He is eager to enter her heart so that he can share her feelings with her. When they were silent, everything she said showed that their ideas were diametrically opposed.
Nothing in the world is more humiliating than worrying about your livelihood all the time. I despise those who treat money like dirt. They are either hypocrites or fools. Money is like a sixth sense. Without it, you can't give full play to the other five senses. Without enough income, the hope of life is cut by half. You must be careful, be careful, and never pay more than a shilling to earn a shilling. You often hear that poverty is the most powerful spur to artists. People who sing such high-profile songs have never tasted poverty themselves.
Elegant vows and strong adjectives are typical features of our language. Philip once cultivated this as a symbol of masculinity, but now he carefully avoids it.
Philip thinks that he abandoned the desire to pursue happiness, that is, abandoned his last unrealistic fantasy. Measured by happiness, his life is terrible; However, when he realized that there were other standards to measure life, he suddenly felt full of power. Happiness is as insignificant as pain, and their arrival is the same as other details in life, which only complicates the mode of life.
It is the strong desire for happiness that makes human behavior lose all happiness. A gust of wind drove them forward helplessly. They don't know why or where they are going. Fate seems to be above them. They danced and danced as if eternal darkness were under their feet. Their silence is a little scary, as if life frightened them, deprived them of their ability to speak, and made their groans disappear in their throats.
They will rent a small house with a view of the sea and watch the big ships pass by and watch them sail to places he will never reach.
He forgot everything about life around him and was even late for dinner. He unconsciously developed the happiest habit in the world-reading. He hasn't realized that this will provide a refuge for all the pains in life; He didn't realize that he was creating an illusory world and making the real world a source of pain and disappointment.
To realize the existence of self, you must experience the same pain. Here, the difference is that although everyone also realizes that his body is an independent and complete organism, not everyone equally realizes that he is a complete and independent person. This sense of loneliness is particularly evident in adolescence. However, this feeling has not developed to the point of being clear at a glance, and the difference between individuals and their peers. Only those who have almost no self-awareness like bees in a hive are the lucky ones in life, because they have the best chance of happiness. They act collectively and live in groups, and their happiness is only because everyone enjoys it.
There is a pattern, the most obvious, the most perfect and the most beautiful. This model is that a person comes into this world, grows up gradually, falls in love and marries, has children, strives to earn a piece of bread and finally dies. However, there are other patterns in life. Although these patterns are messy, they are wonderful. Happiness has never been involved in it. People do not pursue fame, but they can feel a more disturbing elegance.