A video on Douyin made the editor very interested.

The content is probably that before a blind date, a girl used a certain software on her mobile phone to check the other party’s credit report.

When he learned that the other party’s credit report was not good, he immediately turned his back and left. And feel tactful about his actions.

Although this is a funny video, the editor feels that this issue is indeed worth thinking about.

At the same time, the same problem also appeared in Weibo hot searches. #Should I check my partner’s credit report before marriage#

Some netizens said that they were already engaged. But after checking the other party's credit report, it was discovered that the other party owed loan and credit card debt, and it was also overdue. So I decided to break up.

Some netizens also said that checking the other party’s credit report is an extremely distrustful act and hurts feelings. It is said that a prodigal son cannot be replaced by gold, and a person's past cannot represent his present.

It seems that the question of whether to check the other party’s credit before marriage is indeed worthy of people’s consideration.

"It is normal for women to think twice about getting married."

As the saying goes, men are afraid of getting into the wrong profession, and women are afraid of marrying the wrong man.

It is indeed a normal psychology for a woman to think twice before getting married.

Why do some people care so much about credit reporting?

We can find that major news platforms and social platforms rushed to report the news that Wang Sicong had restricted consumption.

This has once again pushed Wang Sicong, who was once so famous, into negative light.

Although, for Lao Wang's family, this little money may mean nothing. But it also reflects from the side a person's credit problem.

Credit reporting is also very important for families. If you have a bad credit record, the most direct impact is that you can no longer borrow money. At the same time, for families, buying a house or a car has become an obstacle.

At the same time, we all know that after marriage, the couple becomes a community of interests.

"If you don't have any benefits, don't start early." It is human nature to think more about oneself.

So after getting married, if a woman encounters a husband who is heavily in debt, has bad credit, and has a bad character, a woman may regret it for the rest of her life.

Nowadays, many people are past the age of puppy love, but they are not destined to have puppy love. More people are getting older but don’t have a suitable partner.

So through social platforms, blind dates, friend introductions, etc., there are more and more marriages without feelings and understanding.

The foundation of the original marriage was not solidly laid. Once the other party has some unknown problems, it will make the big building of marriage even more shaky or even collapse.

So, it is normal for a woman to consider the other party’s credit problem.

“Not everyone who makes mistakes is not worthy of forgiveness.”

Some netizens said: People with poor credit reports have problems with their character. What will happen after marriage? Can it be relied upon?

First of all, people with poor credit reports have indeed made mistakes. Breaking one's word does indeed belong to the category of character. It also reflects the other party’s asset report to a certain extent.

A friend of the editor is also such a "lao Lao". When his father was hospitalized, he sold his house and borrowed money from everywhere, but he couldn't get the money together at night. He had no choice but to take out a loan.

The expenses for his father’s surgery and medical treatment have almost completely wiped out his life. He really couldn't repay the loan and ended up overdue, which became a stain in his life.

But later, my father’s illness improved. His life has also improved a lot.

Now he has a wife and children, and a happy home of his own. Although he has many shortcomings, he has become such an old man.

But I think he is a good son, a good husband and a good father.

Although, for the vast majority of people, poor credit reporting means there is a problem with their character. However, there are still a small number of people who are forced to become laity out of helplessness in life.

The well-known saying "Everything has two sides" also tells us: when looking at people and things, we must also look at the surface to see the inside.

There is no absolute distinction between good and evil. We cannot overturn a whole boat of people with one stroke. Not all people who have made mistakes are unworthy of forgiveness.

You still need to understand before speaking.

"Marriage should be based on understanding and trust"

Tagore once said: "Marriage is the union of two hearts."

The editor thinks , "Love grows over time" is indeed easier to achieve happiness than a marriage of "love at first sight".

After the two got along with each other for a period of time and gained enough understanding and trust, they built a wall of trust in each other's hearts.

We understand each other as people, and we also understand each other’s character. I think at this time, whether or not to check the credit report issue should not affect our view of the other party too much.

Believe that time will not lie. Even if the other party has a bad record, it may be a helpless move, or it may have changed its mind.

As the editor has mentioned before, there are too many people getting married through "flash marriages" and "blind dates".

They don’t understand each other and don’t trust each other. This kind of marriage is still not strong enough.

At this time, checking the other party’s credit record can also help us understand the other party’s asset problems.

If we discover that the other party’s credit record is not good, we can also take the initiative to ask why and then consider whether to continue a marriage.

For people who do not have a strong emotional foundation or do not know everything about the situation, it is still very necessary to check the credit as a way to find out the other party.

At the same time, the editor believes that no matter who it is, since they have decided to work with each other for a lifetime. Just take the initiative to confess everything about yourself. Marriage requires sincerity.

Everything has two sides, and we cannot generalize.

Marriage should indeed be considered carefully, and it is even more important to have sufficient understanding and trust of the other party before making a lifelong decision.