"A kind word warms a person for three winters, but a bad word hurts a person for six months." This wise saying is enough to show that words can cause great harm to people. Every time we quarrel, the husband says hurtful words, which makes people want to divorce. If it is unbearable, divorce is indeed possible.
When there is no softening of words between husband and wife, it is indeed very detrimental to the emotional communication between husband and wife. If the husband says hurtful words every time we quarrel, in the long run, it will only bury a root in the wife's heart. The fourth is difficult to remove. Even after it is removed, it will leave an unhealable wound. One day in the future, the wife may break out. Divorce may seem like a distant thing, but for a marriage, It is also fragile in itself. Therefore, when facing a quarrel, the husband should restrain himself a little.
After all, anyone can say hurtful words, it’s just a matter of whether you can’t bear to say it or whether you want to say it. I believe that when every couple quarrels, they will want to say something hurtful to the other party in order to protect themselves and put themselves in your position. But not all couples are like this when they quarrel. Many people will hesitate to speak. The reason why they hesitate to speak is because he thinks that the other party will still be hurt by saying this, even if it is a quarrel. I can’t bear to let the other person get hurt, but I also feel that I will be hurt if I speak out. The love between husband and wife. If the husband hurts others every time he speaks, it means that he does not care about the relationship between the two people. He just wants to talk about it for a while. Hey, it is very unfair to the woman to let her heart be greatly released and satisfied.
So, if things continue like this, if he always maliciously hurts others and is never able to reflect on himself, his behavior is like domestic violence. He will repent after saying hurtful words, but after repenting, next time It will still be the case. This is a great torture for a person, then you can choose to divorce. After all, such an unhappy marriage makes people feel that it is meaningless to continue.