? And "listening to what he says and observing what he does" is the basic skill of reflection. As Mr. Guigu said, "When you talk or do things, you should read between the lines and observe the words." It means that the reaction can be heard or pushed by others. If you want to know what others think, you must first make them speak through some words or actions, and first use words to test and throw stones to ask for directions. However, if you understand the real meaning from the words, if you don't know it clearly, you should go back and explore it in depth, and lead the other party to your own speech purpose after repeated verification. I have to admire Mr. Guigu's wisdom, which can still play such an efficient guiding role in the future world and today's work.
? I have been engaged in education for fifteen years. Is the king of children, dealing with children more. The so-called beginning of life, whose nature is good, can make these people leave their closest and most trusted parents, come to my side to obey my orders, accept my ideas, teach them how to be human, and have great conviction and admiration for me. It's not easy. So what do you rely on most? Although children are weak, they should not be underestimated. Don't be disrespected because they are small. That's right.
? For a little nephew, in the words of Mr. Guigu, "Listen to what he says and watch what he does." Very suitable for daily teaching life, after asking children, listen to their words and know their psychological state. Look at their behavior, understand their psychological state, use their favorite ways and means, figure it out slowly, and follow suit, so as to arouse their voices and achieve the purpose of education. For individual children with different speech and behavior, teaching students in accordance with their aptitude, finding out their interests and giving theoretical help will definitely go deep into the hearts of young children and reach the power of example.
? Kindergarten work, in addition to children and parents and relatives, good and effective communication can make the extension of teaching work more smooth, so efficient communication is particularly important. Mr. Guigu's wisdom has been confirmed again. ?
"People speak, move also; Those who have been silent remain the same. Listen to his words because of his words. " When others are talking, they are dynamic; When we listen quietly, it is still; Others move, I am quiet; Others say, we listen. "When talking and doing things, listen to what you say and observe what you don't say." Find opportunities to communicate with parents, understand the real thoughts from their parents' words, pay attention to their visual parents, and observe their subtle body movements, body language and five senses to convey information. After the complaint is communicated, reiterate your theoretical point of view and the content to be expressed. If you are not sure, go back and explore deeply, and lead the other party to your own purpose after repeated verification. Communicate face to face as much as possible to grasp the information more clearly. If you want to contact by phone or WeChat, you need to understand your parents' meaning in context.
Know yourself from the beginning, know yourself from the beginning. If they know each other, they are like eyesores; In the meantime, the shape is also. "The best way to know others is to know yourself. People are human. Only by knowing yourself can you understand others. If you can do this, we can know other people, just like flounder. We master other people's words, just like sounds and echoes. If you explore others in this way, you will grasp the real meaning without losing a millimeter. As the saying goes, know yourself and know yourself. When talking to someone, you only need to simply say the same topic as the person you are talking to, and the other person can open a dialogue and speak freely.
Communicating with people is a way of thinking, that is, asking questions, making good use of reactions and adopting circular thinking. Only by listening to his words, observing his form and combining the context and body movements of the other party can we achieve efficient and fast communication faster.