How did you get through the hardest days of your life? People naturally don't like suffering, but suffering often comes to many people, and life can't always be smooth sailing. Let's take a look at how the most bitter days of our lives have come through.
How did you spend the worst days of your life? 1 How did you spend the worst days of your life?
1, I was born in 1995. I also experienced herding sheep and raising chickens to drive ducks. I have suffered a lot. In high school, I was admitted to Mianyang. Rural children really don't have much knowledge. They can't resist the temptation of big cities, fall in love with novels and games, and people are abandoned. Parents firmly believe that "reading is the only way out" and repeat reading for two years. These two years have been muddling along. When I went to college and had more time, I thought about "why study". Maybe I have a better life and finally fight for myself.
2. it's not difficult. I'm glad I met different good teachers at different learning stages. I'm also glad that my Chinese teacher spoke seriously about the article "Send Dongyang Ma Xusheng", which really inspired me for a long time! This feeling of gratitude is very similar to the preface to seeing Ma Sheng off to Yang!
I was born in 1998. My parents are farmers and they are old. My mother gave birth to me at the age of 40. In order to pay for my education, my parents went up the mountain to cut firewood and sell money, and my father fell down with a sore leg. I must study hard to repay my parents. 16 scored 600 points in the college entrance examination and went to Zhengzhou University. In 20 years, when the epidemic struck, I was admitted to the graduate school of South China University of Technology. Doctor, I don't want to study. I want to work quickly and earn money for my adoptive parents.
4. I sincerely thank the wonderful time I met, my grandparents who raised me, and all the people who helped me. At the worst time, I like to extract all kinds of inspirational quotations from my notebook, always thinking that reading is the only way to change the status quo. Seeing the popular paper "Thank you", seeing the hometown of Sichuan and the alma mater Southwest University in the paper, how kind, I couldn't help but make a long comment for the first time. Be grateful and continue to fight for a better life.
5, flowers will reopen one day, and people will no longer be young. You can anesthetize yourself like the "three gods", or you can spend your whole life in a "small loss", but the sea of stars you yearn for must climb over the hill to have a chance to reach it.
How to live a hard life?
I want to be clear about my beliefs first. Faith can be a bright light, and faith can be a compass to move on. The only way to persist is to walk alone, without company, and I don't expect anyone to accompany me in the most bitter days! I don't envy the brilliance of others, I just want to live every day in a down-to-earth way. From then on, helpless, at a loss! Sleeping only four hours a day is an effort, and a broken heart is helpless!
Although unwilling, I don't complain. Isn't it necessary to live like this even after complaining? Sunshine is always after the storm, and there may not be a corresponding reward for paying, but you can't see a glimmer of hope without paying. Don't have any distractions in your heart. Stick to it and be yourself, maybe inadvertently, you will have what you want!
How did you spend the worst days of your life? 2 1. Without life, it's easy.
I wonder if you think today's life is happy? Do you think today is a sweet day?
Do you find it difficult or not?
In fact, I believe many people will say that life is very difficult and living really brings many difficulties.
This is the case in real life. Each of us will encounter many difficulties in life, some at work, some in life, and some brought by family background.
In other words, no matter what it is, each of us will encounter all kinds of difficulties in life.
And only through this hard life will we become better.
However, when faced with difficulties, many people either feel sorry for themselves or give up on themselves and are overwhelmed by difficulties for a period of time.
In fact, everyone's life is very easy.
A good life comes from suffering.
Each of us will encounter all kinds of difficulties, the focus is on our mentality, that is, how we face it.
When we feel that we can't get through the difficulties, then we will be knocked down and stay in the same place forever.
But when we can face it bravely and actively find ways to solve it, we will overcome the difficulties step by step and finally move towards a better life.
Therefore, no matter what it is, we must understand that life is not easy, so that even if we encounter difficulties, we can face them bravely.
Each of us will go through all kinds of hardships.
In fact, no matter how happy we are today, we will experience all kinds of hardships.
Maybe this bitterness is lack of money, maybe this bitterness is a bad relationship between husband and wife, and maybe this bitterness comes from work.
Anyway, no matter what it comes from, each of us will go through some hardships.
There was a friend before, and we always thought that her marriage with her husband was very good and they were very happy.
Later, my friend shared her story with us.
She said that when she met her husband, he had a good job and good economic conditions, so they fell in love together, but talked for more than a year.
He met with problems at work and lost his job. During that time, he was very negative. The point is that he lost a lot of money because of a project.
He lost all his savings, even bought his own house and owed a lot of money.
In the face of such a husband, I didn't give up, but faced it with him.
A good life comes from suffering.
At first, I advised my husband, comforted him and let him out of the trough. Later, after more than half a year, her husband came out of the trough, so they began to make money together and pay off their debts together.
Later, when I got married, I still didn't pay off my debts, so when I got married, I had nothing but one heart together.
We got married in the rented house, and my husband said he was very grateful to me that day. If it weren't for me, he wouldn't know how he got here.
In this way, the husband spent three years in the doldrums.
Three years later, my husband was infected by himself and figured it out. He began to look for a better job and was ready to pay back the money.
So after a while, my husband found a better job with a good salary and went to work, so we persisted for more than two years, paid off all the debts and bought a house.
It is also because of this that my husband is very kind to me. My husband said he was very grateful to me. Without me, he might really not be able to live.
But isn't that life? In our life, each of us will face many difficulties, big or small.
3. A truly beautiful life comes from suffering.
But a really good life comes from suffering, just like the feelings between friends and husbands, because you have experienced a lot of suffering together, then stick to it and finally come out.
In fact, each of us is like this. When we encounter difficulties, we can create a better life by knowing how to endure them.
If we choose to give up, it will only make life more and more difficult and we will never get out of trouble.
In fact, if we look at the people around us, almost every life we envy comes from suffering.
I remember many friends said they admired my freelancing.
Said I don't have to care about the boss's glances, and I don't have to live a life of intrigue with my colleagues, not to mention working overtime every day without raising my salary.
In everyone's opinion, I am very happy with my career freedom now.
But in fact, the freedom I have now is all earned by my efforts.
A good life comes from suffering.
I remember when I first learned to write, because I had to go to work during the day and only had time at night, so I began to learn writing skills and some skills after I was busy at 10 every night.
I got up at 5 o'clock the next morning and began to practice writing. Sometimes I even go to bed very late in order to find time to read. More than half a year, almost a year, every day.
I was very tired during that time, but I had to do it for a living.
Later, I learned that I could support myself by writing, so I decided to resign.
Now many friends say that I am very happy and envious of my life, but in fact, behind this envy, I have experienced many hardships.
Therefore, no one's life is easy. Our life has gone through many hardships and now we have a better life.