In fact, the family not only owes each other, but also helps each other. I love my house and my dog, because I love you, and I am also committed to your cherished family; Because you love me, you didn't hesitate, and you never wanted me to suffer. Only in such mutual satisfaction can a family flourish.
In real life, it is rare to meet such a husband and wife who fulfill each other. They are obviously married and have children, but the deep-rooted selfishness has never been eliminated because of marriage. Some time ago, I received a letter from a reader. After telling her own experience, reader Zhao Sheng sighed with emotion: "Ten years of marriage has not warmed her heart, and her brother and family will always be her first choice ..."
Zhao Sheng, 40, is a small boss in a third-tier city. In recent years, due to the hot real estate, his interior decoration business has done well. A few years later, the garage was built. In addition, his wife gave birth to a second child last year, and a pair of children got together a good word. Zhao Sheng can't say how happy he is.
Others only see Zhao Sheng's glamour at this time, but few people know that he started from a small job and achieved his present dignity step by step. It is said that men become bad when they have money, but Zhao Sheng is an exception. Although his wife's figure has long been out of shape, no matter how busy she is, Zhao Sheng will go home to have dinner with her every day.
Because his wife came all the way out of poverty, when her first venture failed, Zhao Chaoyue had only 6 yuan left in her pocket after the end of the year. She bought a freshly baked salted sesame seed cake in a roadside sesame seed cake shop and took her home to eat it with boiling water. Now life is getting better and better. She has been accompanying her wife without any regrets. She is already a full-time housewife, taking care of her husband and children wholeheartedly at home. Every time I think about this, Zhao Sheng can't say how grateful and warm he is.
"I like you, so I love me, love my dog, and I will take good care of your family." Zhao Sheng still remembers saying this sentence in front of his wife and family when he married his wife, but what Zhao Sheng didn't know was that this sentence would ruin his seemingly perfect marriage in the future.
In order to give his wife a sense of security, Zhao Sheng always gives her whatever money she earns, and he never asks about all the expenses at home. In fact, Zhao Sheng always knew that his wife was secretly giving money to his brother. Although the in the mind is not the taste, but finally earn enough in recent years, Zhao Sheng also turn a blind eye.
Speaking of Zhao Sheng's brother-in-law, he is a college student, but he hasn't worked hard since graduation, either because he is tired from work or because his salary is low. He wasted three or four years in the blink of an eye at home, playing games and sleeping all day, and even hitting people when he was said two words.
I hired a matchmaker at home last year. The last girl took a fancy to her unemployed brother-in-law After spending half a year with him, Zhao Sheng personally arranged their wedding, and even the bride price money was given by Zhao Sheng.
"As long as you live well, your sister will be happy; I am happy when your sister is happy. " Zhao Sheng paid all the expenses for the wedding. In order to make his wife happy, it is worthwhile for him to spend more money.
At the end of last year, because of the epidemic, all walks of life were dying. Zhao Sheng advanced the project payment and didn't recover any money. At the end of last year, the workers were waiting to pay their wages and go home for the New Year. Zhao Sheng, who hasn't tasted poverty for a long time, hurried back to get the money.
When he got home, he only saw his eldest daughter playing at home alone. He didn't know his wife was picked up by his brother until he asked. Without much thought, Zhao Sheng took a passbook from home and went to the bank to transfer money. Before he could catch his breath, he received a phone call from his wife.
"Why didn't the passbook at home? Did you take it? " His wife's anxious voice came from the other end of the phone.
"Yes, the workers will be paid at the end of the year. I haven't recovered any accounts at hand, so I can only take deposits first." Zhao Sheng's voice just fell and the voice of his wife and brother on the other end of the phone came. "Elder sister, what do you say? The house deposit has been given. It's a shame to say that there is no money to buy a house now! "
Hearing this, the Zhao Sheng hurriedly asked about the situation. Before he could speak, his wife, who has always been gentle, got angry with him: "Why didn't you tell me if you wanted to use the family money?" This money is the money I bought my brother a house! What the hell? How can he buy a house? The money is agreed! "
The sudden censure made Zhao Sheng angry, but thinking of his wife's usual hard work, he choked back his anger and hurried over.
Only when I arrived at the sales office did I know that my brother-in-law took a fancy to a house and pestered his wife to buy it. If Zhao Sheng didn't take the passbook for the time being, I'm afraid he didn't know the purchase money from beginning to end.
"Why didn't you discuss such a big thing as buying a house?" The pressure of the recent business downturn made Zhao Sheng angry with his wife for the first time. "I arranged for your brother to get married, and I arranged for the house decoration in your hometown. I also gave half the money to buy a car for your brother. You have given a lot of support over the years. I didn't say anything. Isn't it ridiculous to buy him a house now? Are you still going to keep it from me? Who am I? "
"You said you would love me, love me, love my dog. Why don't you keep your word now? " Regardless of the crowd, the wife replied angrily, "You are my husband, but he is my brother!"! Who will help him if I don't help him? "
The first time Zhao Sheng saw his wife so protective of his younger brother, she almost couldn't breathe: "Let's not quarrel. Things in the house are progressing slowly. Now the big hole in the company has not been filled. Can we wait until we have enough money? "
"Elder sister! If you don't buy this house, Xiaoli said that if you don't want children, our family will be finished! " After listening to her brother's words, the wife turned to Zhao Sheng with a smile and said, "Boss Zhao, even if I borrow it from you, if it is not enough for you to raise children for so many years, my brother will lend you money, and I will go out to work to pay it back!"
After a farce, the couple who hadn't blushed for ten years broke up for the first time. When Zhao Sheng came home, his wife had taken the children back to his parents' home, and the empty house was not as lively as before, but Zhao Sheng didn't regret quarreling at all.
For the first time, he even had doubts about the warm marriage life for so many years. In his wife's mind, where did he end up? Is he really the man in her heart? Looking back on the memories of these years, Zhao Sheng thinks that his wife loves himself, but how much can such love leave compared with his family and younger brother?
After ten years of marriage, the death of his wife also made Zhao Sheng understand his wife's sincerity. Marrying and having children with a woman who never knows where her life should focus is a gamble in itself, because when you treat her wholeheartedly, her heart will always be left to her family and her nursing brother.
This time, Zhao Sheng, unwilling to compromise, filed for divorce. Even though her panicked parents-in-law came to persuade her, Zhao Sheng didn't show any emotion.
"This child is mine. After all, you have a younger brother to raise. " After Zhao Shengfa finished this sentence, he never heard from his wife again. He knew that he should start a new life. ...
Many people say that Zhao Sheng need not be so rude. For the sake of the child, let his wife know that she is wrong. There are also many people who say that Zhao Sheng did the right thing, and such a deformed marriage should have ended long ago. what do you think? What do you think of your wife subsidizing your mother's family?