Prose on life perception (1);
Why do you look down on everything? Just understand it yourself.
Why do you look down on everything? Just understand it yourself. What determines our life is our choice. We have been losing. We are all trying to have more beautiful things, but unfortunately we only have two hands, so we should learn to choose and give up. We should know what we don't need. If our hearts are too eager to catch everything, we may eventually catch nothing. Only by learning to give up can we grasp it better. Don't force it, perfect things will always appear inadvertently. Every day is an opportunity to change your life. Work hard and move forward in the direction of life you want. Work hard for what you believe; Be ambitious and despise worry. Do what you can and don't overload; As long as you make progress every day. Also, decide whether to do it before you do it, instead of making excuses, learn new knowledge and get closer to your goals. See what kind of world, there is what kind of heart. Time makes people. When you are young, there are some things that you can't understand. When you know it, youth is gone forever.
If yesterday is over, there will be nothing to live tomorrow. Some people say that life is a kind of enjoyment; Some people say that life is a kind of helplessness. In fact, life has both enjoyment and helplessness, as well as gratification and confusion. Life is like a green fruit. If you taste it slowly in your mouth and chew it carefully, many flavors will spread on the tip of your tongue, including sweet, sour, bitter and astringent. There are two realms in life, one is silent pain and the other is silent smile. When we are used to silence, it was originally to avoid disappointment. Giving up can be said to be a painful thing, because there are too many desires for life and long-term dreams for the future, and many things cannot be given up. However, life is sometimes a trough, an abyss, and too much load may accelerate the fall. Some lives and selves can be used not only to overcome, but also to get along. The wonderful fate is not only between prosperity and depression, but also between dullness and tranquility, which is another strength of the mind. This life is not long. Only by cherishing it can we not miss those beautiful and lovely things, so that the less regrets, the better.
Youth is doomed to be bumpy, with tears and sweat, grievances, unwillingness and failure. I feel wronged for myself, but look around and think, maybe this is the most correct life, so that I can be practical. Whether a chicken flies a dog to jump, or restless, youth does not belong to comfort, comfort is a stagnant pool, you can't get out if you jump in. Whether you like it or not, something will happen. People are upset because they have a good memory. People suffer because they pursue too much. People are unhappy because they care too much. People are unhappy because they are not satisfied. People are tired of living because they think too much. People are always the subject of contradictions, often in the confusion of hesitation and longing, caught in a secular one-way street, unable to go far and go back. Deal with fear, dry your tears and wake up stronger every day than yesterday. Some things are really impossible, forget it, don't embarrass yourself. Hold your horses and take a step back.
People will be happy if they want to be satisfied, and happy if they want to be simple. Life will sometimes be very difficult, but they should also hold their heads high to avoid dealing with what has to be the most sad, lonely and unhappy, getting what has to last and losing what has to be lost. The more people go up, the more their hearts will sink, and their hearts will be practical and the road under their feet will be stable. Give yourself an expectation every day, try not to worry about tomorrow, don't sigh for yesterday, just to make this day more perfect. Happiness is not for others, and it has nothing to do with what others say. The important thing is that your heart is full of happy sunshine, and happiness is in your own hands, not in the eyes of others. Happiness is a feeling, which should be pleasant, comfortable and sweet. Forgive your shortcomings, forgive your mistakes and start over. It is not only time that advances, but also ourselves. No one is perfect, happiness is not 100%, you can't have so much, then why do you ask for so much?
Time goes by, life is long, and the world of mortals is faint for another year. In fact, people don't need too much in their lives. Stable peace of mind, stable happiness, is satisfaction. Life in this world is not easy. You know how to cherish everything. If you give up everything, you know what to give up. If you grasp everything, you know what to grasp and what to enjoy. Let yourself live a full, happy and healthy life. Cherish everything around you! Life is only a few decades, and time passes quickly. Don't miss it and regret it. Don't lose it before you understand that you should cherish it; Don't let your life be full of regrets! People will inevitably have regrets in their lives. In fact, life without regrets is not life. As long as your feet are still standing on the ground, don't take yourself too lightly; As long as you live, don't take yourself too seriously. Only by letting go can we afford it. Be more tolerant, be more generous, wave your hand and smile, and all unhappiness will become a thing of the past. Happiness lies in simplicity, and life will be self-sufficient.
Life is about dealing with reality, and life is about crossing obstacles. I have scales to measure good and evil. Life is about having a sense of justice, truth, reason, being honest all the time, and being as pure as one's own heart. The road is your own, there is no reason to regret it. Everyone will be hurt a lot in the process of growing up, crying, feeling sad and suffering. And after the pain, you are a brand-new self. If you have been injured, you will understand; When you cross it, you are mature; Always lose something before you learn to cherish it; Will learn what to change and what to give up. Life is full of joys and sorrows. There is no need to envy others and give yourself trouble. It's not that you don't pursue it, just don't force it. Live your life calmly, don't be vigorous, just seek peace of mind. More happiness, less trouble. No matter how much money you have, as long as you are happy every day, life is delicious and everything is true. Why do you look down on everything? Just be happy.
Prose on life perception (2);
Face life with a smile
Smile is the most precious intangible asset of human beings. It can be said that success begins with a smile. If you can use this kind of smile with your heart, you can smooth the pessimism and psychological tension caused by failure, and even throw it away, thus giving you more courage and strength. In life, we should learn to smile to summon up courage. Smiling is the best treatment for "lack of confidence". But many people are still skeptical. They never try to smile when they are afraid. It's hard to imagine a person who can't laugh.
Smiling will overcome fear, drive away anxiety and crush your dependence. Smiling with emotion will make you feel that "the happy days are back". But you must laugh fully and naturally. You can't show your kindness by half-smiling. Laugh to the teeth, this full natural smile, this full smile can achieve the best effect.
A smile is an absolute sincere smile from the heart. The manager of a big company once said: "A primary school graduate with a pure smile is more useful than a doctor of philosophy with a cold face, because smile is the basic requirement of employees and the most effective trademark of the company, which is more powerful than any advertisement, and only it is deeply rooted in people's hearts."
Many people go to amusement places to adjust their mood when they are unhappy. Similarly, if they are depressed, they will restore their sense of superiority or self-confidence by reading cartoons or humorous stories around them and laughing heartily.
Laughter is the performance of victory, or a player's sense of superiority, and at the same time restore his sense of superiority and self-confidence. The winner in the sports field often smiles, because he is intoxicated with superiority at the moment. When we watch funny stories or cross talks, we are all amused.
Remember, never give up the power of laughter easily. If you really can't create such an atmosphere, you can read more books and newspapers. Your unhappy mood will often be unconsciously lit up by reading humorous stories or cartoons, and your fighting spirit will be uplifted.
Spiritual perception: smile is the most precious intangible asset of human beings, and a real smiling face is far more useful than just treating one's own bad emotions. A real smile can dissolve others' antipathy to you.
Prose on life perception (3);
I am getting older and older.
Time is a wheel, cold comes and summer goes, turning around, but inadvertently smoothing people's edges and corners. Suddenly, I was surprised that I had reached middle age, and all my frivolous youth turned into a glass of wine, condensed into the past. Teenagers listen to rain songs upstairs, rain passengers on ships in their prime, and rain monks in their twilight years.
When I was young, I didn't understand the way of the world, squandered my youth, lusted after the world of mortals, and harmed others and myself; When I was in my prime, I went out to travel and was busy with my life. I learned to cherish and be strong in stumbling; When you get old, you will gradually understand life and learn compassion. A misty rain is also life, and the ultimate simplicity is beauty. The older you get, the more you understand. The straighter, the more painful it is. The more you lose your temper, the more you hurt yourself. People are impetuous, too many people live in their own world and can't listen to others. If you are angry with your husband, you will be caught by others. People are vain and can't listen to bad comments. If you don't know how to decorate and euphemistically, you will judge others at will and eventually lead to unhappiness.
People live in the world, don't be anxious, don't work too hard, learn to be soft and learn to be quiet. Only in silence can they show their noble character and enjoy the perfection of the world. Sometimes you think you have seen everything, but you have to understand that you will never know your heart. Society is cruel, things are complicated, and there are always things you can't imagine. Learn to be modest, never too old to learn. People can't finish reading and thinking all their lives, but they are indifferent. The sharp edge is too exposed, which is easy to be suppressed, and the ear of rice is too heavy, which is easy to bend over. Don't show the obvious so quickly. Think for ten seconds before you speak. Too smart, jealous, framed. Modesty is a virtue, and playing dumb is wisdom. Learn to let go and take a step back. It is comfortable to let go. Take a step back and broaden your horizons.
People worry too much because they are persistent and want too much. Desire will only destroy your steady pace and make you lose your original self. Time cannot be wasted. The most important thing is the process, not the result. A lot of things are lost when they are lost, as long as they have been owned before. If you are tired, stop and have a rest. If you can't go on, don't insist. You can make more money without money. As long as you live, you have a chance.
Nothing can buy health and happiness in this world. Look down on everything, look down on everything. It's better to be alone and have Zen mind. It's beautiful when it's light to the extreme, and it's light to a new world. Don't care about other people's opinions, just follow your own inner thoughts. Happy days pass day by day, and the ultimate destination of people is themselves, and more importantly, yourself, and you know it very well. Don't be sad because you are old, don't be disappointed because of gains and losses, eat when you are hungry, sleep when you are sleepy, read when you are confused, and do the simplest things, and you will learn real life.
Dear yourself, don't be afraid of hardship and loneliness. Life is all about self-cultivation. You will eventually meet the best yourself and get the best warmth and happiness. Only those who cherish happiness can be happy, and those who love in their hearts can be loved. Everyone who is kind will be treated gently by the world. Live seriously and bloom quietly. If time is like water, silence is great beauty. Days are like lotus, ordinary is elegant.
As we get older, we begin to be afraid, but we don't understand what we are afraid of. It seems that we have lost nothing, but there is nothing left like what we lost.
In fact, we can still be very good to ourselves who are getting old. Even if we are only one person, we can still insist on our own persistence, choose our own choices and do what we want. Watch our favorite movies, listen to our favorite songs, love our loved ones and pursue everything we want, but we should not give up easily, we can't give up.
I will start a long journey for myself who is getting old. I may have your company, but I may be the only one. I still have to go my own way. My dream still depends on myself, but I still look forward to your company.
For myself who is getting old, when I finally see my quiet side, maybe I am really old, maybe I just become mature, but I am one step closer to death, and the day when we are apart is getting closer and closer, but I still don't understand where you are at the moment. What you like doesn't have to be forever, what you want to cherish doesn't have to belong to you, and what you accompany you to the end is not necessarily what you really appreciate, but what you like won't disappear, and what you are afraid of is not. When we are old and want to own the whole world, do we become greedy?
Prose on life perception (4);
Live like a child.
Seeing the child running around, my thoughts followed him for a while. On second thought, I think adults should learn from their children.
Learn from children's strong curiosity.
Children are full of keen interest in this colorful world. They are always groping around there. The simplest thing in adults' eyes may take a long time to fiddle with, until they are tired of playing, before they continue to look for the next goal. At the end of the day, I am very busy and don't understand what fatigue is. Now I often hear adults say that boredom is boredom. So why can't we learn from our children? How about cultivating interest and increasing curiosity? If we have nothing to do, we can also find something for ourselves. For example, if you are hungry, try to go back to the kitchen by yourself, and don't wait for your family to cook it for you; If you are bored, go for a walk outside by bike. Don't keep your troubles to yourself. When you are tired, just lie in a comfortable bed and listen to music. Don't burden yourself physically and mentally.
Learn children's happy sports.
But children who exercise are happy, and exercise can really change a person's mood. You see, children run from here to there, and from there to here, watching simple sports, but children enjoy it! Because they feel happy. If you give him another ball or something, then he can play unlimited potential and play unlimited tricks. At this point, we adults should also exercise and be happy athletes. If you are happy, please run; If you are depressed, please move, and remember that there is a saying "Life lies in exercise".
Learn the true expression of children.
The child's face is like the weather in this spring. Change when you say it, sometimes sunny and sometimes rainy. No affectation, no affectation, it's true feelings. Laugh when you are happy and cry when you are wronged. Anyway, I laughed and cried. I will still laugh after that! This is a child. I envy such an age. However, I understand that I am an adult. Why can't adults learn from children? Don't give yourself reasons, don't give yourself excuses. Although our society is changing, our feelings cannot change. Take off the mask of vanity, show your true feelings and laugh when you cry.
Finally, I want to say, if you think you can't do anything I say, then find a child to run with him, laugh with him and explore things you don't understand!
Prose on life perception (5);
What is life like?
A drop of dew snorted from the lotus leaf and fell to the ground, then immediately got into the soil and disappeared. Where did she go? Is it gone forever? Or is it integrated with Mother Earth?
A drop of rain fell to the ground, flowed into the stream with the dripping rain, and finally merged into a river.
If life is just a drop of water, let's combine our little strength into a part of the ocean and make the world cool.
A grass grows green on the earth. In the spring season, she decorated the beautiful rivers and mountains of the motherland with many brothers and sisters.
If it is just a grass, we should also give the world a green expectation.
A flower blooms silently in a deep valley. No audience; No applause. However, she is still quietly in the garden of the motherland. In the spring of her life.
If it's just a flower, whether anyone appreciates it or not; At this time, no matter where you are, you should be brave in opening up and give passers-by a bright yearning.
A tree, growing slowly. Every day of my life. At sunrise and sunset. In the cycle of spring, summer, autumn and winter. In the great forest of the motherland.
If it's just a tree, we have to face the wind and rain, without sorrow or joy, without giving up. In the days when life exists, give travelers in the desert a permanent desire for life.
What is life like?
Friend, you asked me before: "What is life?"
A beautiful teacher who sacrificed herself to save others? Zhang Lili lost his legs permanently to save two students under the wheel; The most beautiful driver in Hangzhou? Wu Bin bravely sacrificed his precious life to save 24 passengers on the bus? They "they" use health; The benefits of life and the value of existence are well explained by life.
Teacher Zhang Lili and the driver from Wu Bin gave us a cool love and warm care in this world.
People nowadays often say that human nature is too evil. There is no basic trust and care between people. As the saying goes, "it's none of our business to hang high" and "everyone cleans the snow in front of the door, regardless of the frost on other people's tiles". There are many people who hold such a motto. Is it because these people are too cold? Or is it because this society lacks the minimum trust and mutual care between people?
We have no right to criticize anyone's thoughts and actions.
Just, in the wind and rain; When disaster strikes, we still see many good people like Zhang Lili and Wu Bin, which is touching and comforting.
Thank them for giving us the warmth and beauty of society. Let each of us see expectations; See the perfection of tomorrow.
Marx, the revolutionary teacher, said that "only love can be exchanged for love, and only trust can be exchanged for trust". Believe that love is the eternity of life; Love is the desire of each of us; I believe that in the world of love, we will be able to trust each other perfectly.
Summer night, the sky is starry, looking up at the room, as if seeing those relatives and friends who once gave us care, have left us forever!
Yes, my friend, what is life?
I believe you know this as well as I do.
Life is like dew hanging on green leaves, which comes gently and goes in a hurry!
What is life like?
Life is green hanging on the branches. In the cycle of spring, summer, autumn and winter, give everyone the expectation of life and the strength of survival; When we are confused and the sky is rainy, it brings us a passion and happiness of life; Give us spiritual guidance and comfort when our hearts lose the direction of life; When our hearts are tired, give us fresh love and warm company?
What is life like?
Life is dew on the green leaves. Come and go in a hurry Give the world a coolness with a short life. You see, my friend, a small drop of dew, how faint and crystal clear. Seemingly small power, but what a strong belief. You know, isn't the vast ocean and the stormy Wang Yang sea made up of these seemingly insignificant little dewdrops? "When sand accumulates into a tower, people gather firewood, and the flames are high" and "When high-rise buildings rise from the ground, Wan Li's oceans gather nectar". Everyone's weak life is an expected sowing; Every step is an ideal voyage!
What is life like?
Life is a flower that blooms all the year round. In the days when I went to Qiu Lai in spring, I used my youth to compose a cheerful movement of life; Interpret the glory of happiness in life with songs. "Flowers bloom all over the sky, and Jiang Feng sleeps on fire." Flowers are beautiful and have youthful love; Tell us with no regrets? Life is a colorful trip!
What is life like?
My friend, look at those lush forests and those thriving young trees?
She told us? Life is the growth of a tree, which brings a shade to the world at different stages of life; Leave a tree for the world?
What is life like?
My friend! Life is a green expectation; Is the dream of dew; It is the opening of flowers; It is the growth of small trees; Is it the fragrance of love?
What is life like? Life is a song, and you are frustrated in it; Your happiness; Your sky; Your dreams; Yours has drifted.
What is life like? Life is a pen, writing the beauty of spring, summer, autumn and winter and the ups and downs of life.
What is life like? Life is a painting. Spread it out slowly and daub it gently. There is your misty rain in the south of the Yangtze River in the painting; Have your little bridge flowing water; Have the water town of your dreams; Very poetic.
What is life like? Life is a book, and every page is a poem; Every day is a footnote; Every minute is a punctuation mark. A very short book may be closed in an instant. A book, which may be very long, may take our long life to write slowly; Read slowly; Take your time; Take your time.
Once in your life, once in your life, live well. Simple.
Relatives and friends can only be the fate of this life, and they may not meet again in the next life?