1. Can't be long, can't follow one's wishes, can't be complacent and can't be happy. ("Book of Rites Quli Shang")

Pride should not grow, desire should not be indulged, ambition should not be complacent, and enjoyment should not go too far.

2. If you have money, you can have it, and if you are in trouble, you can avoid it. ("Book of Rites Quli Shang")

When you see property, don't be greedy; Don't run away when you are in danger.

3. Reciprocity. It is indecent not to come; It is also impolite to come and not go. ("Book of Rites Quli Shang")

Translation ceremony advocates giving and receiving. Only talking about giving, not talking about returning, does not meet the requirements of etiquette; On the contrary, it is not in line with the etiquette requirements to talk about newspapers without telling stories.

Life is good for people, and death is harmless to people. ("The Book of Rites on Bows")

A person should do something beneficial to others before his death, but not harm others after his death. This is what Cheng said, and then he said, after I die, find a piece of land that can't be cultivated and bury me. )

If you are rude, loyal and sincere, you can't understand. ("The Book of Rites under Tan Gong")

If you don't treat the people with courtesy, loyalty and sincerity, even if you barely combine, will the people be miserable?

6. Confucius said: "A trip to the Avenue is also a trip to the world. The world is for the public. Choose talents and talents, and talk about faith." (Book of Rites)

Confucius said: "In the era of implementing the Avenue (ideal society), the world belongs to everyone, talented people are selected to be in power, people pay attention to credit and advocate harmony."

7. The filial son's pension is also happy and does not go against his will; Enjoy your eyes and ears, sleep in your place, and be loyal to your diet. ("Book of Rites Internal Rules")

The dutiful son supports his parents and makes them happy, without going against their wishes; Prepare gifts and music to please their eyes and ears, make their sleeping place comfortable, and support them with their favorite food.

8. Although parents are not here, they must be good. If you think about your parents' names, you will gain something. It will be bad, and thinking about humiliating parents will be fruitless. ("Book of Rites Internal Rules")

After the death of their parents, when they are ready to do good deeds, if they think they will leave a good reputation for their parents, they will certainly make achievements; When you want to do something evil, if you think it will humiliate your parents' reputation, you must not do it.

9. jade is not cut, not a tool; People don't learn or know. (Book of Rites)

A piece of jade will not become a good object if it is not carved; If you don't study, you won't understand some truth.

10. Although there are exquisite dishes, Fu doesn't know the purpose. Although there is supreme Tao, Buddhism does not know its goodness. (Book of Rites Learning)

Although there are good cooked fish and cooked meat, you don't know its delicacy if you don't eat it; Although there is a clear truth, you won't know its correctness unless you learn it.

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1. Scholars have four mistakes that teachers must know: people learn too much, or lose too much, or lose too little, or lose too easily, or stop. These four hearts are different. Know his heart, and then you can recover his loss. Teachers should also learn to be good and save the lost. (Book of Rites Learning)

There are four kinds of shortcomings of translation learners. Teachers must know that in learning, some lose too much, some lose too little, some lose to make learning easier, and some lose to stop when encountering difficulties. These four shortcomings are all caused by learners' different psychology. Knowing their psychology can remedy their mistakes. The role of teachers is to give full play to their advantages and correct their mistakes.

It is ignorant to study alone without friends. (Book of Rites Learning)

If a person studies alone and has no friends to discuss with him, he will be short-sighted and not knowledgeable.

3. It is brave to be in trouble; It is also righteous to yield to interests. ("Rites and Music")

It is brave to be able to make decisive decisions in the face of difficulties; Seeing benefits and respecting them is a manifestation of heavy righteousness.

4. Bad words don't go from your mouth, and angry words don't go against the sky. ("Book of Rites, Sacrificing Righteousness")

Bitter words can't come out of your mouth, and others' resentful words can't come back to you.

5. Ziyun: "A gentleman speaks, a villain speaks first." (Book of Rites Ji Fang)

Confucius said: "A gentleman often does practical things first without saying anything; But little people talk big first, but not necessarily do practical things. "

6. Ziyun: "Hello, just call someone. Excellent, just call yourself. If you are resentful, you will die. " (Book of Rites Ji Fang)

Confucius said: "If you find a good thing, ask others to do it. If you make a mistake, you will bear it yourself." . In this way, others' resentment against you will disappear. "

7. A gentleman is expensive and humbles himself, and his ancestors were in their own last time, so the people gave in. (Book of Rites Ji Fang)

A gentleman often respects others and despises himself, putting his ancestors before himself. In this way, humility will rise among the people.

8. Confucius said, "A gentleman does not lose his foot, face or mouth." (Book of Rites)

Confucius said, "There is nothing wrong with what a gentleman does, what he shows and what he says."

9. lust letter, clever words. (Book of Rites)

Translation should be sincere and accurate, and words should be used appropriately.

10. Yan Zi said: "The benevolent is the greatest in the world, and the righteous is the greatest in the world." (Book of Rites)

Confucius said: "People who practice benevolence are the model of the world, and those who stress righteousness make rules for the world."