2. Find a good job yourself, and don't wait for the pie to fall from the sky.

3. You should finish college by working and accumulate work experience. This is very important. Most China students can't do it, and even think that it is unnecessary to work. In fact, those who have worked will really cherish life.

4. Don't pursue perfection excessively, and don't give yourself unnecessary pressure. Life is not just work and study, it has many, many things.

5. Do something new that you are not good at. You may not know yourself, this is Socrates' teaching to mankind. So, please give yourself a chance.

6. Don't go to law school. Lawyers are always fighting for profits on behalf of others, which is extremely stressful. Suicide is the number one cause of abnormal death among lawyers.

7. You should be calm after being rejected. Define yourself, don't define yourself by external indicators.

8. When you have time in high school, you should walk into the library. There is no better place for you to absorb knowledge. After four years of college, you have to walk out of the library. University is four years of life experience, not high credits. In American universities, extracurricular activities are often as important as homework.

9. Be proud of prestigious schools, and don't think it's great to go to Harvard.

1. Take psychological courses about "happiness". At Harvard, this course is one of the most popular courses.

11. define success by taking yourself as the center, and don't define success by external things (such as money).

12. Make a list of your goals, because you can't succeed without a plan. Don't idle away all day thinking, only real actions can save you!

13. Don't live according to your parents' expectations, but do what you like. Former HP CEO said, "Never sell your soul!"

14. Take an acting class. American society as a whole is a stage. From professors, politicians and business presidents to lawyers, generals and journalists, it is difficult to get ahead without performing.

15. Take part in sports. According to the survey, people who engage in sports in universities earn significantly more after graduation than those who don't touch sports. Americans engage in sports not only to exercise, but also to cultivate competitive talents and leadership qualities. The captain of a college sports team has an advantage in finding a job on Wall Street.

16. Don't get into debt. Between ordinary state universities and famous but expensive private universities, it is best to choose the former. From the perspective of personal future, it is much more beneficial to be light without debt than to spend money on a famous brand.

17. Learn to praise others. In life, you should be both a good actor and an audience. Many times I always feel distant from others, in fact, I just lack those simple greetings and a hug.

18. Start a business in your dormitory. Yahoo and Google will be scrambling to buy your website. Google itself can be attributed to the business that was born in the university dormitory.

19. Use career counseling service institutions. An important department of American universities is the employment consulting agency. Professionals help you analyze your own strengths and the job market, help you prepare for the interview and modify the application letter.

2. Take an active part in campus activities. Through this activity, you can learn how to understand and help others, meet their needs and communicate with others. This is the basis of the so-called "leader quality" in American culture. When looking for a job, others will look at you differently. Never think that your life is just a campus.