Jack Hodge said: "Thoughts determine behavior, behavior determines habits, habits determine character, and character determines destiny."

In life, we often hear people say this, This person has a docile personality, that person has a very outgoing personality, etc. What exactly is personality? Many people are actually unable to give a clear explanation for this issue.

The personality traits possessed by each person are not formed in a short period of time, but are gradually formed in our experience of social life, and are also affected by our three views. After formation, there will be certain stability, but this does not mean that personality cannot change. Many unexpected events in life sometimes cause great changes in our personality.

Psychology divides personality into positive personality and negative personality.

We often get this understanding in reality. People who can persevere and endure hardships can achieve their life goals step by step. And those who are lazy and slack all day long, do not strive for progress, and complain about others will definitely achieve nothing.

People with rebellious personalities will not compromise or be tactful in their resistance to the external environment. People with this kind of character will either become a League of Legends and be swallowed up by the environment, staging a tragedy. If the soldiers are strong, they will be destroyed, and if the trees are strong, they will be destroyed.

People with overly upright personalities are not good at replying. They often run into obstacles and are prone to encounter difficult and tortuous fates. An indecisive person is always hesitant and hesitant when things happen. Such people are prone to miss opportunities again and again due to shortcomings in their character, leading to a life of failure.

In life, we can often see that under the same social background and the same IQ, some people can achieve great success while others fail everywhere. Why is there such a big gap? In fact, personality determines people's different destinies to a large extent.

Character determines destiny, and good character and quality are closely related to a successful life. This relationship is mainly reflected in the following aspects:

First, excellent character creates lofty ideals and noble morality.

Second, good character is the guarantee of career success. Only those who are strong, confident, optimistic, diligent, courageous and brave enough to forge ahead without fear of setbacks and sacrifices can hope to achieve success in career and even life.

Third, good character is the main condition for happiness in life. We live in a complex and ever-changing society, and everything is subject to change. It may go smoothly or not, it may succeed or it may fail, it may be encouraged or it may be hit. Only by correcting this good character can we get better. Maintain psychological balance, face life bravely, actively respond to all emergencies from the outside world, and create your own happiness.

If we have a comprehensive understanding of our own character and can face it correctly from a different height, we can clearly see the close relationship between character and destiny.