Li Kaifu's letter to girls 1
You must find something besides love that can make you stand firmly on the earth with your feet. If you want to find a way to make a living, the most important thing is to make yourself happy. It's not too late to think.
You must gradually turn those floating ideas into clear ideas and simple words. Gorgeous and erratic are not easy to last. You know, even content, thought, realm, soul, spirit and wisdom are not enough to give people the pleasure of reading words. Don't read the words of women writers like you. Don't be petty and whiny. Don't write what comes to mind. Don't be sentimental, don't be moved.
I hope you believe the ancient words of warmth, beauty, trust, dignity and strength. I don't want you to be decadent, empty, confused, ruin yourself and hurt others. I don't want you to make a mess of yourself Not everyone can control their feelings. Experiencing life is another matter, and it doesn't mean degeneration and indulgence. Never agree with the indifference and otherness of camouflage. They are people who have nothing to do, making excuses to let themselves have nothing to do. The real cool is in my heart. You should have a strong heart. We must believe that time will pass, and we will not be worn and yielded. I say I love the world, not because I am in an ivory tower. It was only after knowing that it was dark, dirty and ugly outside that I had to say such a thing. Love life. Youth is so short, don't sigh old. You can stop to have a rest once in a while, but don't squat and look around. When you walk on the road, remember not to look back. When you are sad and wronged, you should wail, wash your face after crying, pat it and squeeze out a smile for yourself. Don't rub it, or your eyes will swell up the next morning. Give yourself a great future and goal. Remember to always look up at the sky, especially the clear starry sky at night.
Remember to look at your feet when you look up at the sky. Don't trust people who use means in love. Don't swear when you break up. Learn a lesson, but don't regret it. Regret is useless. Don't tear up photos, don't burn letters, don't tear up diaries, these are all found in third-rate love TV dramas. If you really want to forget something, let it go. If you don't care, you will forget. Believe in love, and believe that a good man will find you in the vast sea of people. Don't think about things that you can't find the answer to, and don't set a sad trap for yourself. You can't hate the world Because you love it too much, it won't let you down. Appropriate things that love material things. Always know that spirit is more important. You look better than those famous watches, brands and fashions. No matter how delicate the makeup is, it can't compare with a healthy and pure smile. Don't look down on the working people, and don't be ashamed of labor. The ground is not dirty, and the sweat is not smelly. Please respect those who seem to have a worse life than you, because this is respect for yourself. Always sympathize with those who live at the bottom, because our relatives are among them.
We are not vulnerable. Don't underestimate a penny. You might as well earn it yourself. When you are hurt by friends, don't doubt friendship, but beware of those who betray you. Forgive, but don't forget. Innocent, chivalrous to friends. Careful girls are cute, but don't use this calculation in intrigue, it will be very tired. Whether you like it or not, it's not just words that can prove anything, because it exists in our hearts. Even saying "I don't like" can't stop love itself. So there are some things that can only be said without forcing. Don't be too high-profile, high-profile is easy to cause trouble. But not too low-key. Be tough when it is time to be tough, but never be aggressive. Sympathize with people who are weaker than you, be ready to help others at any time, and always have good thoughts and compassion, which will make you noble. Be lenient with others, be lenient with others.
When you are not angry or sad because of small disappointments, you will be much more relaxed. Forgive the world and forgive yourself. Tell yourself that I deserve the best. Be happy, cheerful, tough and warm, which has nothing to do with personality. I'm afraid you're too low-key. Sometimes you have to be tough. Be bullied, be sure to get it back! But don't hold grudges. My humble opinion, let them go. Pity will make you noble.
Li Kaifu's letter to the girl II
1: Never let any man be your whole life. Understand that the more you invest, the greater the loss.
Don't give up your personality for any man. In fact, it's not that you can make him think how good you are by accommodating him. On the contrary, men prefer women with their own personalities.
Never give up your career for love. It's simple. Choose love. Once love is gone, you have nothing. Choose a career. Even if love is gone, you can still make money to support yourself and have your own life.
4. Don't try to cling to a person's life, no one will keep eternal enthusiasm for parasites.
5. Don't ask too much. If you love him, then for your future, you should cherish his gains and plan for your future. If you don't love him, you will leave him sooner or later, so don't give him a chance to say in front of others that you are only after his money.
6. When your love meets a third party, don't compromise and forgive blindly. You know, some things can be forgiven, but some things are lifelong scars.
Don't care so much about the details of life. You know, most men, especially children, need your care.
8. When you find that your love is gone, don't stick to it. Sometimes, letting go is not only giving him freedom, but also giving himself a chance to live.
9. Don't think that anyone can't live without you. You know, your life comes from your parents. Except them, no one is worth your life. Your parents just want you to be happy and safe.
10: Don't spend all your money on him. Women should be better to themselves.
1 1: Don't dress yourself up for anyone, and don't make yourself unkempt. Dress yourself clean and beautiful every day, just for yourself.
12: Don't give up your friends and ignore your family for anyone. You know, if one day love is gone, it is these people who really support you, not the one who once vowed to each other.
13: Don't take the world too seriously. We live in this world. We are all actors, acting on the stage and watching from the audience. Therefore, be serious when acting, not when watching.
14: Don't always use tears to impress and retain. Sometimes your tears will backfire. Smile, you must face everything with a confident smile!
15: Don't underestimate yourself. Everyone has his own excellence. If he doesn't appreciate you, he will find someone who appreciates you. If he doesn't appreciate you, he will find someone who appreciates you! Miss this stop just because the best one is waiting for you at the next stop.
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