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Zheng Banqiao has a famous saying: it's hard to be confused. Although these four words are simple, they actually contain many philosophies, including the truth of life in dealing with people. Only when a person has experienced many things can he deeply understand the meaning of these four words. When we are getting old, when we enter the old age, we will understand: "People are too clear-eyed and restless for the rest of their lives." When people get old, it is wise to know how to see through these people. Then, who should people "see through without breaking" when they get old?

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First of all, when people get old, we should know how to see through the pain of others without talking about it.

people will always have their own difficulties when they are alive, and these difficulties are even worse when they are old. Some of these difficulties belong to the privacy of the elderly, some belong to the humiliating experience of the elderly, and some even belong to the pain they are experiencing now, but they are unwilling to express it. These difficulties, as the parties, are sometimes unwilling to take them to the sun to "bask". They are more willing to digest and overcome themselves. If when we associate with these people, we find their difficulties and are aware of their pains, then we should understand their minds, and don't preach their pains at will, or even share them with irrelevant people. Once we share their pain at will, it will inevitably cause great trouble to their old age, and they will in turn counter us. Therefore, when people get old, we should know that "people are too clear, and the rest of their lives will be restless", and they will see through the pain of others without breaking it.

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Secondly, when people get old, we should understand the generation gap between young people and us and see through it without breaking it.

when people get old, our thoughts are already old. At such an age, even though we keep the idea of keeping pace with the times, in fact, we still have a big generation gap with these passionate young people. It is quite normal that people have a generation gap because of their different ages. Because, everyone will be old. When people are old, they must accept the differences with young people, including different opinions, different living habits, different views on things, and so on. And these things, in fact, are the generation gap between us old people and young people. When people get old, we should learn to be smarter, and understand that young people sometimes don't want to talk about something with us more, or don't want to associate with us more. In fact, it is because there is already a generation gap between them and us. Therefore, "people are too clear and restless for the rest of their lives", then we must learn to "be reliable without telling the truth", and this is actually the wisdom of a smart old man.

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Third, when people get old, we should know how to criticize the parents of distant relatives and neighbors, and see through them without telling the truth.

when people get old, we have entered the rest of our lives. At such an age, we have retired, and when we return home, we will have more free time. At this time, we became close to our distant relatives and neighbors. As the saying goes, "Every family has its own problems". The more familiar we are with our distant relatives and neighbors, the longer we spend together, and the more opportunities we have to get in touch with their parents. When they have family conflicts, we must understand the truth that "it is difficult for honest officials to manage housework". It is the most correct thing to "see through without breaking" their family conflicts, and choose to step aside in time and let the respected people in their families come forward to deal with them. Therefore, when there is a family dispute between our distant relatives and neighbors, we should understand the truth that "people are too clear and restless for the rest of their lives", and never intervene in mediation at will, eventually making them not people inside and outside.

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Fourth, when people get old, we should know how to see through the idea that our children don't want to live with us without telling the truth.

When people get old, we are old, and we need a quiet life for the rest of our lives. At this time, our children have grown up, and they will have their own lovers and children. Old people and their children are under the same roof, and it is inevitable that there will be bumps and bumps. If we find our children and their lovers living with us, sometimes we will have reluctant thoughts. We must know how to "see through without breaking" and find a reason in time to return to the residence we left for ourselves. Even if this kind of residence is just an old house in the country, we can grow flowers and grass, and live a happy life for the rest of our lives. Therefore, when people get old, they "see people too clearly, and they will be restless for the rest of their lives". It is also a good choice for us to understand the idea that our children don't want to live with us, and choose to go back to their own residence with their wives and live together.

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