There was once a student at Harvard University in America. His memory is amazing. Many professors in the university tested it, and he memorized more than 2 thousand digits after the decimal point of pi in the integral, and his memory had to be amazing. After hearing this story, many people in America have changed the view that "the result is directly proportional to the effort". However, according to the results of a later investigation by a professor at Harvard University, it takes hundreds or even thousands of years for such a person to appear. This just shows that it is consistent with people's traditional understanding: genius only appears once every few hundred years, and we are ordinary people, and we can only succeed if we work hard.
Einstein is a familiar figure and a world celebrity. However, Einstein was considered to have dementia when he was a teenager. However, Einstein finally reached the peak of his ideal after long-term efforts.
Einstein's case also tells us that the process will ultimately determine the outcome and success or failure. In order to get extraordinary gains in ordinary life, we must make more efforts than others.
Of course, even if a genius doesn't pay, he will become a normal person without process. Zhong Yong in Wang Anshi's Wounded Zhong Yong was a genius, but he eventually became an ordinary person because there was no learning process. Therefore, even if we are geniuses, we will become ordinary people without paying, not to mention that we are ordinary people ourselves.
however, you may not get anything if you pay. Athletes in the track and field have made a lot of efforts before they go on stage. It should be said that the process is very impressive, but they will definitely get a place in the sports field. But they won't regret it, because they tried. As people say, "efforts may not succeed, and giving up will fail." So we don't have to pay attention to the result, but more importantly, the process.
example 2 kindness process
as the saying goes, "failure is the mother of success." This seems to be a cliche, but actions and words are sometimes inconsistent. When there is a "red light" on your report card, or when you encounter difficulties at work, does your heart have nothing but depression? Do you realize that there are seeds of success in this failure? In this regard, everyone's answer is definitely different! It is quite necessary to talk about it here: the process is more important than the result.
There are few smooth sailing events in the world, but failures will happen at any time. Otherwise, the reputations of "inventors" and "literary giants" will not easily fall on everyone's head. Looking at history, those outstanding great men have succeeded precisely because they can correctly treat the process of failure and gain lessons from it, thus kicking off the stumbling block of failure and embarking on the road to success. For example, Edison, a great inventor, has countless successes in life and countless failures in life. He had experienced 8, failed experiments for an invention, but he didn't think it was a waste, but said, "Why should I be depressed? These 8, failures at least made me understand that these 8, experiments are not feasible. " This is Edison's attitude towards failure. He always draws lessons from the process of failure and sums up experience, so as to obtain inventions based on countless failures. Failure will certainly bring people pain, but it can also make people gain something; It not only points out the mistakes and shortcomings in our work, but also inspires us to gradually succeed. The process of failure is not only the negation of success, but also the foundation of success, that is to say, the process is more important than the result.
however, in reality, success is not the accumulation of the process of failure, but the summary and transcendence of failure. If we don't know this, it will lead to the absurd conclusion that "the more failures, the more success". For example, the famous parallel axiom in mathematics has been doubted by people since it came out. For thousands of years, countless mathematicians have been trying to prove the parallel axiom, but they have all failed. The mathematician Poirier engaged in the proof of parallel axioms all his life, but achieved nothing, and finally died painfully in despair. Just as this question devoured people's wisdom like a bottomless pit without giving any return, Lobachevsky found out the reason for the failure after seven years of verification without any results. After repeated failures, Lobachevsky summarized and analyzed the causes and consequences of the failures, and realized this problem in essence, thus achieving success. This shows how important it is to learn from the process of failure. Pay attention to the process, don't care too much about the results of a moment, and conduct continuous exploration and scientific analysis of the process of failure, so as to guide your future life path, so as not to fail in vain.
Young people are easy to fail and lose heart in their work. Therefore, only by keeping in mind the principle of attaching importance to the process, not paying too much attention to the result, and establishing firm self-confidence, can we see hope from the process of disappointment and move from failure to success.
friend, be kind to the process! Let this sentence be a guide to our actions. "Sword front comes from sharpening, plum blossom fragrance comes from bitter cold", benefiting from the process of hard work and rising from diligence, which is the road to success for aspiring young people.