1. Good and bad are compared. People with narrow vision naturally cannot know that there is more good than good, and they cannot feel the value of good without looking at the bad. ——Mei Lanfang

2. Three bottom lines for speaking: 1. Try to tell the truth; 2. If you cannot tell the truth, stay silent; 3. When you have no right to stay silent and have to tell lies , should not harm others. ——Qian Liqun

3. I treat the past harshly, which prevents people from remembering too much of the past. I rarely ask for help, which frees me. I am careful to care for others so that my emotions do not overflow. ——San Mao

4. A passionate person, especially a young person, will inevitably make mistakes; as long as he is kind-hearted, upright, and broad-minded, can correct his judgment in time, and is not stubborn in his opinions, it will be very good. alright. ——Fu Lei

5. Children like flattery because they are still ignorant of the world. Women like flattery because there are not many people around them. Old people like flattery because they have lived too long and encountered too many problems. When they are in their twilight years, they are willing to listen to some pleasant words to comfort their already disappointed hearts. ——Lao Xuan

6. From my experience, don’t criticize others easily, and don’t compliment others easily. It's easy to be fooled by compliments, but I always feel it's more appropriate to compliment someone, as long as you don't overdo it. ——Nan Huaijin

7. The warmth and coldness of human relationships are like flowers blooming and fading. It is better to think of this phenomenon as an inevitable season. ——Sanmao

8. A bowl of hot and sour soup, what you hear orally tell you is not as clear as taking a sip in person. ——Lu Xun

9. Everyone has shortcomings, just like everyone has advantages. If you only pay attention to the shortcomings of others, you will encounter enemies everywhere and plunge yourself into helpless darkness. If you pay more attention to the good points of others, influence others with sympathy and kindness, so that they can see their shortcomings and slowly correct them, you will meet friends who trust you and love you everywhere; your life will be full of of warmth, peace and happiness. ——Roland

10. In the real world, stupid people can’t accomplish anything. ——Wang Xiaobo

11. Trust cannot be weighed on the scales like interests. ——Liang Xiaosheng

12. Don’t hate anyone or anything for a long time. This kind of mentality - burning is like the pain of purgatory. The only one who is really hurt is yourself. ——Sanmao

13. Rather than being too open-minded, it is better to be conservative. Although a conservative person may not have many chances of success, he will never fail; while an open-minded person has many chances of success and equally many chances of failure. In terms of the realm of life, it is better to advocate frugality and solidity. ——Nan Huaijin

14. Losing trust in each other, suspicion and dealing with each other will be like a flood of disaster, washing away the embankment of reason. ——Ma Yongjun

15. Advise friends to be in a place with no one, and praise friends to be in a place with many people. ——Meiye