In the complicated world of love, some people are single-minded and others are affectionate. However, people who are often affectionate are selfish. As Osamu Dazai said, in fact, they don't love anyone.

When a woman loves someone, she will lose her mind. Many times, she always can't tell whether the man she loves is a person or a "ghost".

Zhu Xiao and her boyfriend often ran into each other on campus before they met. Her classmates all say that she is predestined friends with this boy, but she has never had the courage to confess.

Zhu Xiao hid her love for boys in her heart, and her roommates couldn't stand it any longer, so they confessed for her. As a result, the boy said that he also liked Zhu Xiao for a long time, so he was embarrassed to say it.

When you are full of love and fit, you will begin to look forward to the future.

When Zhu Xiao is in love with her boyfriend, she is full of expectations for the future, but every time she looks forward to the future with great interest and makes plans, her boyfriend will impatiently say, "Let's talk about it later."

Zhu Xiao loves her boyfriend so much that she can't see the shortcomings of boys and can't understand all kinds of emotions when boys talk. Every day, she fantasizes about herself and her boyfriend getting married and having children in the future.

Just when she took pains to deliver breakfast to her boyfriend because of love, she ran into another girl who delivered breakfast to her boyfriend. She asked her boyfriend why he didn't refuse breakfast to other girls. The boy said, "We are just classmates. Why do you take it seriously? "

She asked her boyfriend, "Do you mean me or her?" She thought that her boyfriend would explain to her and she would hear the answer she wanted. However, the boy said, "Judge for yourself." Then, I haven't contacted Zhu Xiao for a long time. She sent a lot of messages to her boyfriend, but she didn't get a reply. Over time, she realized that she loved the wrong person.

But after a while, she met another boy, and he fell in love with another girl. Zhu Xiao immediately felt some sympathy for the girl who smiled happily around the boy. Maybe she was cheated by that boy just like herself.

The emotional world is complex, and many simple girls have not been involved in the sinister nature of human nature. They always fall down on the road of love several times before they grow up.

Chen once said: "I prefer sitting under the window with my wife at home to smoking, drinking, playing cards, going to bars and discos." She embroidered, and I cut her purse and made clothes for her daughter. After all, the leaves outside the window are silent, and the time inside the house is quiet. This is the greatest happiness! "

The man who is willing to marry you undoubtedly loves you, because he loves you and he will be willing to do many things with you. But we can't ignore that some men don't really love you, and being willing to marry you may be another "hidden feeling".

When a woman chooses a spouse, don't ignore the various performances of men in front of you. Just like Zhu Xiao mentioned above, every time I plan the future with my boyfriend, the boys don't have any yearning, but show impatience, which must be a sign of not loving her.

However, this silly girl was immersed in her own world, thinking about love, ignoring the little details shown by boys.

Not only a little girl like Zhu Xiao is easily carried away by love, but many mature women are also easily lost when they meet love.

When a woman is in love, she can find the characteristics that a man loves you from his various performances. A man who really loves you will keep you in his heart from his words to his actions.

Men who don't love you will never miss you. They occasionally see you and express their thoughts about you, and then turn around and don't know who they are thinking about.

The man who really loves you will not make a move when pursuing you, and he will worry that you can't accept feelings too quickly. After catching up with you, I will worry about your life every day, and I always feel that you can't take care of yourself without him. When quarreling, no matter who is at fault, he will apologize at the first time, fearing that you will be angry.

Linlin just graduated from college. She met her boyfriend when she was an intern in the company. They all know that they like each other. However, her boyfriend pursued her with great fanfare and told her that he would wait for her.

After the two confirmed their love, her boyfriend sent her to work every day. If she is on a business trip, she will be specially told to go back with her colleagues and not to go alone at night.

When two people are together, it is inevitable that there will be contradictions. However, every time her boyfriend offered to apologize, even though Linlin was unreasonable, her boyfriend admitted her mistake.

She once asked her boyfriend why he was not wrong and apologized. Her boyfriend said that she was always angry without apologizing. Being angry alone is not good for her health.

She was moved by her boyfriend's words and cried. It turns out that when she meets a man who really loves herself, he will think of you everywhere.

Men who really love you often have these three ideas in their hearts. First, they care about your feelings. Second, they care about your life. Third, they care about your mood. Very accurate. Don't believe it.

Just like Linlin's boyfriend's love for her, you can consider her feelings first when you pursue her. Looking at Zhu Xiao and talking about that boy, he is obviously a selfish ghost who loves everyone.

In real life, many women often ignore the man who really loves them because of some external factors, accept someone who doesn't love them, and eventually get scarred.

Because women's thinking is different from men's thinking, they are easily used by some love rat when they are preparing to develop a relationship.

Often those men who don't love you can be loved by you as easily as blowing off dust. Maybe they are handsome, and they are particularly attractive because they have been in love for a long time.

The most important thing is that when a person doesn't love you, but has a good impression on you and wants to talk about a relationship, they will approach you purposefully, so that you will gradually fall into a rival in love and cheat you easily.

And those men who really love you will always think a lot about you and worry that their actions will make you uncomfortable. Even if they want to confess, they will have many concerns and dare not show their sincerity easily.

But in fact, the more I think of your man, the more I love you. Those men who are either impatient or perfunctory, no matter what you say, needless to say, are not true love for you.

Whether in love or choosing a marriage partner, women should be rational and don't make mistakes easily.

People who love you may use some routines like people who don't love you, but even with the same love skills, people who love you are "you have to" and people who don't love you are "there is another one without you".

True love is embodied in daily details. Without sweet words, it won't even be discovered by you, because love is a person's instinct. People who love you will always miss you, and people who don't love you will forget you.