Rocking and rocking to grandma’s house is a childhood memory of many people. In my childhood memories, my grandma’s house is so far away that it takes a long, long time to walk. The jujube tree in my grandma’s yard, the Yellow River under the house, the chess at my uncle’s house, Leilei at my fourth uncle’s house, and my third uncle’s love for everyone forever. Children, the scene where grandma has been preparing meals for us...
This seems to be all the memories of grandma in my memory. Very few, so few that words can’t even record them. It's very ordinary, so ordinary that it is trivial in daily life. But this is the deepest memory in my heart about my childhood and my grandma’s house. It is the most peaceful picture of childhood that will never be erased in this life - there is life, care, protection, friends, and maybe a sheep.
I have always felt that if people recall a person's death with warmth, comfort, and reluctance, then this life will be extremely happy.
The responsibilities and obligations of this life have been completed. I have seen and experienced the world. When everything is settled, he quietly leaves and withdraws from the world he once lived in. This is probably the best way to leave.
Grandma’s life was extremely ordinary, without any major ups and downs. It was extremely hard. My grandfather died young and I was left to raise the children alone. Grandma is an extremely ordinary rural housewife. Her life was extremely rough, but she worked hard all her life without complaining.
After being widowed in middle age, the illiterate grandmother relied on her hard work to help her three sons get married and start a family. An ordinary rural woman lives a strong life. Thinking of Yu Hua's "To Live", although my grandmother's life was not as tragic as Fugui's, she also experienced ups and downs. She was widowed and lost her son in middle age, but living itself is an extremely difficult thing.
Grandma was very strong. Even though she was paralyzed in bed and in pain all over her body, she never moaned. This is probably every mother's secret, she can endure all the pain. Do not put any psychological burden on your children.
For a person with a strong personality like my grandma, lying in bed and being unable to take care of myself was probably the biggest torture, so God was merciful, and my grandma passed away within half a year. For children, this half year is too little time to repay their parents for their upbringing, but for grandma, this half year is too long. She probably has a lot of inner suffering...
In this life, my grandmother did not have many famous sayings and aphorisms that were passed down to future generations, but my grandmother spent her whole life explaining what responsibility and responsibility are. When my grandfather passed away early, my grandmother took on the responsibility of supporting the family with her thin shoulders. With three unmarried sons, my grandmother shouldered the burden in her own way that a man would find very tiring. In this life, grandma only gave and never asked for anything from her children.
The passing of leaves, the sprouting of grass, the cycle of life. This life is extremely short, so short that when you want to remember it, it feels like the time is so short, and so short that the days you spend with it are really very few...
Birth, old age, illness and death are all human nature. All of this is probably to tell us to live well while we are alive.
Living a good life, living a positive and upward life, living with heart and strength is the best respect for life.
I don’t know if there is a paradise in the West, but I hope that all my deceased relatives can live warmly in another way.