Reasons for failure in chasing girls every time:

1. Excessive entanglement with girls’ friends and besties. As the saying goes, if you know yourself and the enemy, you will never be defeated, so some boys cannot get more from girls. When there is a lot of valuable information, she will turn her attention to her good friends and best friends to achieve the purpose of understanding. Although the idea is good, this method will also make girls feel unhappy, because most girls firmly believe that if you want to understand me, I hope you can learn to understand it with your own heart instead of from other people's mouths. Boys who use this method are simply afraid that excessive entanglement will arouse the disgust of girls. However, her best friend is also a woman and an emotional animal. Because of a matter that has nothing to do with herself, she is taking up a lot of time to ask questions. If you ask about this or that, people will be unhappy. Under the influence of bad emotions, her best friend is likely to provide you with some untrue news; or she may turn around and complain to the girl about your various shortcomings, conveying negative emotions and lowering your impression score in the girl's mind. .

2. Confess your love in a high-profile public situation. When you and the girl are not fully familiar with each other and have established enough attraction, a grand confession that attracts everyone's attention will only increase the pressure on her. In the eyes of girls, Come on, you are kidnapping her and using people's attention to threaten her. This is not romance but making a fool of yourself in public, so most girls will be disgusted with this method of courtship. In addition to feeling unhappy, emotions themselves are very private and few people are willing to make them public. Therefore, many such confessions result in: boys being rejected and girls being angry and merciless. Go away.

3. Shameless stalking. Girls are indeed very reserved. Many boys think that girls may be at fault when they are rejected by girls. Therefore, many boys think that chasing girls has to be shameless. Only by stalking can they eventually catch girls. But is the reality really what they say? What I have seen is that almost everyone who uses this method is blocked. . If a girl is really just reserved, her refusal will not be so clear, but rather vague or tactful. And if a girl resolutely rejects you, your persistence will be disgusting and annoying to the girl. In more serious cases, she will be disgusted, because they don’t know how to advance or retreat, and they will never end the invitations, even if the girl is no longer with you. They could all talk to themselves in response. How can a girl fall in love with another person when she feels a dislike for him from the bottom of her heart? What would you do if the person opposite you was such a person? I think if he was a man, you would give it to him without hesitation. One punch.

4. Always cater to women’s opinions

When most men meet a woman they like, they always blindly agree with and cater to the woman’s opinions. They think they can win a woman's heart this way. They believe that simply agreeing with her will make a woman feel comfortable and happy. If you always go along with her, what reason does she have to be unhappy? Yes, maybe she will be friendly to you, maybe she will be happy when you agree with her point of view, but as far as she is concerned, your relationship ends here So far, it is difficult to surpass ordinary friends. In fact, for women, they prefer men who have their own ideas and opinions, rather than men who only agree with their opinions and requests all day long. Didn't you expect that? Women don't like their men always saying "ok" and "right" and other flattering words. Because in the eyes of a woman, a man who always agrees with her is opinionated, weak, and incompetent. Women are not attracted to such men. Even when she was weak in her heart and wanted to try it with a man who was so unassertive, she would soon leave him. This is a woman's instinct. Nothing in this world can be forced.

When a man confesses to her after meeting her once or twice: "I really, really like you." This is equivalent to telling her that you and other people who have not pursued her are Men are no different, they can't control their feelings and can't help but fall in love with her. Using the same approach as everyone else will never make you stand out, but will speed up your failure.