There are many difficulties in life: difficulties in entering a higher school, emotional difficulties, work difficulties and family difficulties. In fact, as long as you are calm and confident, you can spend it easily! With calm self-confidence, no matter what difficulties you encounter, you should learn the famous saying of dharma drum mountain's feast master "Four Meetings": face it, accept it, deal with it and let it go. No matter how complicated and unbearable the negative pressure is, we can simplify it, restore inner peace, and raise a powerful force in our hearts, so that our actions will be more powerful and our lives will be broader.
With the growth of age, I need this kind of serenity, calmness, calmness and self-confidence to cope with the complicated social life. Society is a big dye vat, and it is difficult for a person to be calm without any inner persistence. Calm, that is, at any time, on any occasion, when you encounter anything, you can be calm and calm, not anxious or dry; Calm, that is, look down on fame and fortune, look down on human feelings, wealth can not be obscene, power can not be bent. This is a realm of life, which is easier said than done. It requires me to constantly experience, constantly improve my self-cultivation, and constantly increase my wisdom. Self-confidence is a charm. If you have enough self-confidence, you will succeed in anything.
Some people say that everyone is most familiar with himself and least familiar with himself. I also know my own shortcomings, precisely because I can't always be calm, and I can't always be calm. I couldn't calm down, which led me to make some low-level mistakes; I can't be calm, which leads me to be swayed by considerations of gain and loss, and I am often in a state of apprehension. The end result is that I can't get what I can't get, and I can't get what I can get.
Ben Waite said, "You can't control a universe, but you can control yourself." Calm down, calm down, calm down again.