The cultural process of love is a game, and its result is love. Love and love are a physical image that resembles both an object and a soul, and is defined as love.

Love is the strongest form of interpersonal attraction. It refers to the romantic and advanced emotions that an individual who has reached a certain level of psychological maturity has towards an individual of the opposite sex.

Love is a strong, pure and dedicated feeling in which a man and a woman admire each other in their hearts based on a certain social foundation and the same life ideals, and desire each other to become their lifelong partner. . Sex, ideals and responsibility are the three basic elements of love.

Love in a broad sense: All emotions related to love are called love. The love between father and son, the love between relatives and friends, the love between teachers and students, etc.

Love in a narrow sense: usually refers to the admiration between men and women.

Love is a kind of mutual dependence, not a one-way request.

Love and Happiness: In the "Game Bible": We define the truth, goodness, and beauty that are freely given after the desire driven by addiction souls abandons the self in the cultural process as love. Love is a spiritual and cultural process. The noble feeling expressed by truth, goodness and beauty, under the influence of the addictive soul, will capture and follow freely in small and large ways, and temporary trust becomes all meaning. Trust and freely give and desire income is defined as happiness. The romance and freedom that people advocate are the instinctive characteristics of animals. How many people of the opposite sex a person plays with will have as many behavioral impressions. The actions between men and women on this impression are called feelings. Emotions are dependence and diligent creation in the process of addictive soul driving desire.

Love and Like

There are 4 differences between love and like:

① Love has more fantasies; like is not aroused by fantasies about others. It is evoked by the realistic evaluation of others; love is not as fanatical, intense, and urgent as love, but is always relatively stable, quiet, and objective.

②Love is related to many conflicting emotions; liking is a pure emotional experience.

③Love is often related to sexual desire; liking does not involve this need.

④Love is exclusive and exclusive, but liking is not.

Some social psychologists have designed love scales and liking scales to measure the degree of love and liking between individuals.

Some items of the love scale are:

① If I can’t be with him (her) forever, I will feel distressed;

② For any I will forgive him (her) for everything;

③I feel that I will trust him (her) for anything.

Some items of the liking scale are:

① I think he (she) is very easy to get along with;

② After getting to know him (her), most people like him (her) The reaction is good;

③He (she) is the kind of person I want to be.

Using these two types of scales can not only generally reflect whether the attraction between individuals is love or liking, but also reflect the degree of love and liking.

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Impulsive love

Impulsive love, also known as romantic love. Being directly and strongly physically attracted to the other person, always thinking about the other person, always wanting to be with the other person as much as possible, and often not objectively judging the other person. The conditions for the occurrence are: there is a certain cultural background that provides the individual with a real or fictitious model of loving the other person; there is a love object; there is the stimulation of one's own emotions, and the understanding that this emotion is caused by the love object. Researchers are not unanimous on whether this kind of love lasts long-term.

Self-centered love

Self-centered love. Individuals in love do not want to be bound by their love objects, nor do they want their love objects to be bound by themselves. They regard love as a series of challenges and problem solving, and avoid the burden caused by commitment.

Depend on love

Depend on love. People with this kind of love often show anxiety, poor sleep and eating, and strong jealousy. The endings are often tragic.

Practical love

Practical love. Lovers look for a love partner who matches their personality, religious beliefs, interests, background and other conditions, hoping that once they find a suitable love partner, their relationship will develop further. This form of love is more common in marriages arranged by parents.

Love together

Love together. It is not as exciting as impulsive love or dependent love. The two parties start out as friends, have the same interests and hobbies, work together, and gradually develop into love. Parties in such a romantic relationship may remain friends even if they later break up.

Altruistic love

Altruistic love. A typical Christian concept of love, tinged with patience and charity, without asking for anything in return. This kind of love is often difficult to achieve in real life.

Platonic love

Platonic love is a spiritual love between opposite sexes named after the Western philosopher Plato, which pursues spiritual communication and rejects physical desire. It was first proposed by Marsilio Ficino in the 15th century as a synonym for Socratic love to refer to the loving relationship between Socrates and his students.

Plato believes that when the mind abandons the body and yearns for the truth, the thinking at this time is the best. And when the soul is infected by the sins of the body, people's desire to pursue truth will not be satisfied. When human beings do not have a strong need for carnality, their mood is peaceful. Carnality is a manifestation of the bestiality in human nature and the nature of every living organism. The reason why humans are so-called higher animals is because in human nature, human nature is stronger than Animal nature, spiritual communication is beautiful and moral.

Platonic love has the following meanings:

·Ideal view of love (a metaphor for an extremely romantic or impossible love view)

·Pure Spiritual rather than physical love

·Equality of love between men and women

·There is only one person in this world, and for you, she (he) is perfect , and is perfect only for you (you). In other words, every person has his perfect object, and there is only one.

The first meaning is most commonly used, but is actually a misunderstanding. But since everyone uses it this way, it has another meaning. This misunderstanding comes from Plato's famous work "The Republic". The book explores how to construct an ideal country. Because it may be too ideal to be realized, some people use it to explain what Platonic love is.

The second meaning is also often used, but it is also basically a misunderstanding. This misunderstanding comes from Plato's metaphysics. He believed that the things in thought are real and the so-called "real world" we see is not real.

The third and fourth meanings are really Plato’s view of love or gender.

Plato believed that people are in the most real conceptual world before and after death, where, Everyone is a complete human being who is a combination of male and female. In this world, we are all split into two. Therefore, people always feel that they have lost something and try to find their "other half" (this word also comes from Plato's theory). Plato also used this to explain why people have "love".

In his theory, no half is more important, so men and women are equal. Moreover, your original partner in the conceptual world is your most perfect partner. He (she) is somewhere in the world and looking for you.

[Edit this paragraph] Education

Intellectual quotient IQ, emotional quotient EQ, financial quotient FQ, adversity quotient AQ, can be improved through guidance, love quotient Too. Unfortunately, parents and schools rarely educate their children on the correct attitude towards dealing with love or dating, leaving them to seek help from the peer media temporarily or afterwards.

In the past ten years, some people have begun to write books to provide guidance on improving love quotient. For example, it is necessary to find out the degree of compatibility and various potential problems when dating; the correct progress, correct attitude, strategies, etc.

There are also half-educational and half-entertainment pursuits of gaming love in the form of computer games.

Some people with low love IQ seek death or harm others as soon as they lose love (lovelorn). If you can allocate time and energy to various things, you can reduce the occurrence of tragedies and help love, such as:

Personal appearance, health knowledge, wisdom, career and entertainment, hobbies and love, meditation for partners and relatives Reflection and contribution to social beliefs, beliefs, religion

Reality

In today's life, pure love is like pure gold and it is impossible to exist, but no matter whether it is a student who is experienced in the world , people who are still in their forties still have fantasies and yearnings for ideal love in their hearts.

Religion

Christianity

“(Bible text) Love is patient, love is kind; love does not envy, love does not boast, Arrogant, not doing shameful things, not seeking self-interest, not easily angered, not taking into account the wrongdoing of others, not rejoicing in injustice, only rejoicing in the truth; tolerant of all things,...)"

[Edited version paragraph] Dictionary definition

Love (English): love

Italian amore

French amour

Spanish amor

Portuguese amor

Japanese love (あい)

Russian любовь

German Liebe

Korean?

Arabic

Love (narrow sense): The mutual love between men and women is the highest, pure and beautiful aesthetic and emotional experience.

Love (in a broad sense): the feeling of love between people (homosexuality, etc.)

Love (legal definition): a life based on homosexuality between men and women Ideal, a strong, pure and exclusive feeling of mutual admiration formed in their hearts and the desire for the other person to become their lifelong partner.

Love (definition of good and bad): Good love is the freedom and ease of both parties who regard freedom as the highest gift, and the cherishment of never abusing this freedom.

True love: Understand the meaning and value of love!

[Edit this paragraph] Quotes

Love always exposes the selfish side of human beings;

Love always floats in the sky of concern. among;

Love is not filled with champagne, its intensity needs time to be reconciled;

Love is not coffee with sugar, its bitterness needs careful consideration;

Love is not a grateful gaze, its long-term needs to be grasped by oneself;

Love is not a short-term preference, its pursuit requires a lifetime of happiness;

Love sometimes needs to wait , but it is by no means the sweet garden in the heart;

Love sometimes needs to be floating, but it is by no means the surging feeling of wandering heart;

Love is different from friendship, you not only have to Share her feelings when she is happy, and comfort her tears when she is sad;

Love is different from friendship. You not only need to support her to overcome the obstacles in front of you, but also cling to her to reach the distant future. The future;

1. Love does not develop logically, so you must always pay attention to its changes. Love is not eternal, so it must be pursued continuously.

——Bo Yang

2. When you truly love someone, you will forget your own joys and sorrows, and only care about the other person's joys and sorrows.

—— Roland

3. Love is like Buddhist Zen - it cannot be said, it cannot be said, and it is wrong to say it.

——Sanmao

4. Which young man is not good at loving? Who is a young woman who is not good at conceiving youth? This is the most holy thing in our humanity.

——Goethe

5. Love does have a noble quality, because it does not only stop at sexual desire, but also shows a noble and excellent soul that is rich in itself, requiring Lively, courageous and sacrificial spirit to unite with another person.

——Hegel

6. Love is the crown of life, and it will fall to the ground if it swings. Because without love in our souls, we will be very depressed if we continue to live. Therefore, you must correct your personality, hold your head high in love, and you will naturally love and treat the person you love all the time. Love is the spark of the collision of two hearts. The law of love is dedication. The bridge of love is loyalty. The beacon of love is eternity. Love is the highest art of wisdom. The pace of love cannot be stopped!

——Zhang Ronghuan

7. True love can inspire people and awaken the sleeping strength and hidden talents in his heart.

——Boccaccio

8. Love, your words are my food, your breath is my wine.

——Goethe

9. Love sublimates the human heart's longing to the state of perfection.

——Dante

10. People should only forget themselves and love others, so that they can be quiet, happy and noble.

——Leo Tolstoy

11. If love is mixed with calculations that have nothing to do with itself, it is not true love.

——Shakespeare

12. Love is real and lasting, the sweetest and bitterest thing we know.

——Charlotte Bronte

13. Love can only occur and exist in the profound and mysterious intuitive world. Having children is not a matter of love itself.

——Solovyov

14. Regarding love, people have many definitions: Love is the poetry and the sun in life.

—— Belinsky

15. The sea of ??love is impermanent, and the sky of love is impermanent. The sea and the sky are irregular, and it is difficult to explain the gathering and dispersing.

——Shen Baofeng

16. Love is another name for understanding and consideration.

——Tagore

17. What does it mean to love someone? It means rejoicing in his happiness, doing whatever is needed to make him happier, and taking pleasure in doing so.

——Chernyshevsky

18. True love can only occur after giving up personal happiness.

——Leo Tolstoy

19. Love is a great mentor, she teaches us to be a new person.

——Molière

20. True love is like a beautiful flower. The barren the ground on which it blooms, the more pleasing it looks.

——Balzac

21. In the final analysis, love is the reflection of one's self-worth in others.

——Emerson

22. People who understand love often strengthen their upward will and enterprising spirit because of the sublimation of love.

——Bacon

23. Believe in love, even if it brings you sorrow, believe in love.

——Tagore

24. Love has nothing to give except itself, and nothing to receive except itself.

——Kahlil Gibran

25. When love taps on the shoulder, even men who usually disdain poetry and picturesqueness will become poets.

——Plato

26. The love of marriage makes human beings continue; the love of friends makes human beings reach a more perfect state; the love of lust makes human beings corrupt and fall .

——Emerson

27. Loving someone means helping him return to himself, making him more himself.

——Merle Thain

28. Love is not about who sacrifices for whom or who does what for whom. Once love becomes like this, it is not love.

——Merle Thain

29. Love is essentially giving rather than receiving.

——Fromm

Celebrities talk about love

Love is originally a simple thing. It only takes three words to come and go, not "I" "Love you", "I hate you" are "forget it", "how are you?", "I'm sorry".

I also believe that love can overcome all difficulties; however, after all difficulties, there are all difficulties. This is what I believe more.

The essence of love is tolerance and understanding, but more desire than ordinary people

Your heart is my corner and the end of the world, I can't go further. We will go to the ends of the earth in this life, not to travel halfway around the world, but to be with each other in this world.

Do you love me? It’s dangerous. How dangerous is it? You can no longer live alone.

When we meet again, we either hate it too late or hate it too early.

If you can't forget him, don't forget him. True forgetting requires no effort.

In the world of love, there are always some almost ridiculous things happening. When a person thinks that he can pay off his guilt and live without guilt, it has already reached the end. It is not just love that is so unbearable. But life.

Love is a matter of romance, and frustrated people cannot afford it.

When you love someone, you will love yourself.

Commitment is inherently a struggle between men and women. Sometimes everyone is happy, but in most cases both sides suffer.

Love is not a refuge. If you try to take refuge there, you will be kicked out.

The most powerful viruses are love and lies.

The fire of love should not be rekindled. Rekindled, those beautiful memories of the past will disappear. If we had not reunited, maybe I would have lived with his deep thoughts until my body decayed; however, at this moment, I hated him. All the good days are far gone.

In love but not in love, in love but not in love.

Why is it so painful to forget someone? Time will naturally make you forget. If time can make you forget people you shouldn't remember, then what's the point of the years we've lost?

If emotions and years can be gently torn into pieces and thrown into the sea, then I am willing to be silent at the bottom of the sea from now on... I love to hear your words, but I don’t understand, my silence, You want to meet, but you don’t understand...

Love is not just about two people, you love me and I love you. Those fairy tales of love exist in novels and TV series. Perfect love is It takes two people to create it, and those novels and TV series will only corrode the brain after reading too much. True love is like a pyramid, with food at the bottom, followed by money, energy and emotional contributions. Only when it accumulates to a certain level can lovers finally get married...

[Edit this paragraph] Art and life

Love is often the subject of various works of art.

Love classics that have been passed down in China from ancient times to the present, such as the love stories between Fan Li and Xi Shi, Lu Bu and Diao Chan, Li Longji and Yang Yuhuan, Chen Yuanyuan and Wu Sangui, and Li Zicheng. In today's popular culture, whether it is movies, TV series, or pop songs, love is still an important theme.

In modern times, science fiction stories are also used to make people think and reflect on what love is.

Novel

The Legend of the Tang Dynasty (Part) (China) "A Dream of Red Mansions" (China) Love within a wealthy family in ancient times "Pride and Prejudice" "A Tale of Two Cities" (UK) "Gone with the Wind" "/"Gone with the Wind"/"Gone with the Wind" (USA; Gone with the Wind)

Poetry

"The Book of Songs" (part) (China) "Sonnets" 》 (UK; Shakespeare) Seven-character verses and quatrains (multiple) (China; Tang Dynasty; Li Shangyin)

Drama/Opera

"Liang Shanbo and Zhu Yingtai" (China ) A woman disguising herself as a man and being in a wrong family "The West Chamber" (China) A gifted man and a beautiful lady, being in a wrong family "The Tale of Genji" (Japan; Murasaki Shikibu) The aristocratic love of the Japanese Heian period "Romeo and Juliet" (UK; Shakespeare) Love under family hatred " "A Midsummer Night's Dream" Love and Humanity "La Bohème" "The Peony Pavilion" (China; Ming Dynasty Tang Xianzu) The love between man and ghost is not over

Movies

"The Big-Nosed Lover" "(USA, France; Cyrano de Bergerac) "Online Love" (USA; You Have Got Mail) "If Love Has God's Will" (South Korea) "Love Calls Destiny" (Hong Kong) "My Favorite (Movie)" ( Hong Kong) "Love Circle" (USA)

TV Series

"Aka's Doubt" (Japan) Terminal Disease Life and Death "Tokyo Love Story" (Japan) "Calling for Love in the Center of the World" ( Japan)

"Lavender", "Dolphin Lovers", "Blue Life and Death Love", "Sheep-Herding Star"

Comics, Animation

"The Rose of Versailles" ( Japan) French aristocrat "The Disciples" (Japan) Middle school classmates turned lovers "Orange Road" (Japan) The male protagonist is hesitant between two women

Game

Recalling the Autumn with a Heartbeat Memories series of the school days you expected to be forever classmates

Music, songs

Love songs are a major genre that expresses love, and there are too many to list them all.

[Edit this paragraph] Animal Love

Don’t just say that people have feelings, in fact, animals also have feelings. Researchers have found that many animals have the same personalities and emotions as humans. For example, whales will "rubbing" with their lovers during courtship, orangutans like "one-night stands" and are greedy for the new and dislike the old. As for the ugly crow, They are devoted husbands and wives who have only one sexual partner in their lives.

American biologist Beckett said that the "giant" right whale living in the Northern Ocean is believed to be the "big lover" among animals. They observed observations as far away as 17 kilometers away. Right whales will rub and make love with each other for three minutes before mating, and then they will go to Wushan Yunyu. The humble-looking crows are loyal to one another and will not be unfaithful to their love.

Orangutans, who are closely related to humans, are just the opposite. They have a problem that humans often make when it comes to love - philandering. Bekogao said that male orangutans do not seem to like to make any love commitments to the opposite sex. After they "succeed" once, they will immediately change their minds and find a new love, and will not court or have sex with the same orangutan again. In addition, it turns out that orangutans also know how to be embarrassed. They will hide and become unhappy if they fail when climbing.

Professor Bateson of the University of Cambridge also pointed out that although we have not been able to enter the heads of animals, judging from their behavioral performance, we can believe that humans and animals do not have great feelings about pain. difference.