Science champions like logic and reasoning, while liberal arts champions are keen on reading. They are good at expressing themselves and can chat with different people.
This habit of being good at thinking and eager for knowledge exchange stems from the guidance of parents when I was a child. Parents don't just say it in words, but let their children experience and feel it themselves.
Parents are the first teachers of the children. Only by guiding children to develop good thinking habits and creating an environment for independent thinking can we open a correct lifestyle for children.
2. Independence from childhood
Almost all the parents who won the first prize mentioned cultivating their children's independence from an early age, so that they can learn to do their own things and be responsible for their actions and words.
Respect children's independent personality, know how to let go properly, let children learn not to escape when they encounter difficulties, and develop a good habit of independent thinking.
3. Look at children with appreciation.
Every child is eager to be appreciated, which will make him more confident. Finding the bright spots in children in time will add more fun to their growth.
4. Parents' example power
Top scholars seldom talk about parents' oral education, but more about persuasion in action.
Tolstoy said: "All education, or 99.9% education, is attributed to the example and to the correctness and perfection of parents' own lives. "
Therefore, as the closest parents to their children, if they want their children to be what kind of people, they must first become that kind of people, and first do what they want their children to do.
5. Develop good reading habits from childhood.
Reading can expand children's thinking, enrich their inner world, broaden their minds and establish lofty ideals and beliefs. The success of these top scholars today is inseparable from their parents' teaching them to read at an early age.
Therefore, cultivating children's good habits of reading from an early age, reading more picture books and stories, reading extensively and developing good habits of reading will benefit children for life.
6. Parents' love
Everyone longs for love, especially when he was a child. "Loose, trusting, like friends" is the unanimous evaluation of parents by top scholars.
"Children's poor grades are mostly insecure and their energy is exhausted in the conflict." This sentence explains the relationship between love and achievement well. Therefore, giving children more love and attention will make them feel safe and grow better.
7, work and rest, love sports.
98% of the number one scholar Lang also maintained a regular routine during the preparation for the college entrance examination. His most stressful days are 1 1 going to bed on time, and he usually loves sports. This is not only a way of exercise, but also a good way to relieve stress.
Cultivate children's regular work and rest time from an early age, and cultivate children's sense of order and rules. Children have developed a standardized schedule in kindergarten, so parents should try to keep this habit at home, otherwise once the habit is disrupted, they will have to be re-cultivated.
8. Pay more attention to children's happiness.
Parents care more about their children's attitude towards learning than their grades. In addition to learning, they pay more attention to their children's safety, health, happiness and happiness, which is the voice of almost all top parents.