No matter what you get, the life you long for is always somewhere else - this is the weakness of human beings. You envy what others have, but you don’t know that you have what others want in your hands. From today on, what you have to do is do what you want to do, envy yourself, and cherish what you have. This article was collected and compiled by me for you. When you don’t know how to choose, it must be when you don’t understand yourself.

1. The ordinary, dull and mediocre life is often attributed to one word: fear. I am afraid that what I have gained will be lost, I am afraid that if I turn around, I will never see you again, I am afraid that I will hesitate to move forward. Life is just one road, and the scenery is different step by step. God will not favor anyone. Only when you have the courage to give up will you have a chance to get it.

2. When fate comes, it is unstoppable, but when it breaks up, it will fall apart. If you have a chance, cherish it; if you don't have a chance, don't stay. Not forcing is a state, and compassion is a practice.

3. Day and night are the world of black and white, crying and laughing are the joys and sorrows of life. The ease of life is that in this noisy world, you don't have to flatter anyone or say flattering words to anyone. He plays his game and you live your life. Instead of asking others to look good, it is better to live a good-looking life yourself.

4. Many things fall somewhere between "not saying I'm aggrieved" and "saying it's pretentious". Things you deliberately look for are often not found; everything in the world comes and goes in its own time. The most painful pain in the world is to watch someone who once vowed to love you turn around and love someone else.

5. When you are happy, don’t be kicked around like a football; when you are worried, don’t be like jewelry that you are reluctant to let go of. Human life is like a parabola. No matter how high or far you fly, you will eventually land. If a person sets a high goal, he must put in his hard work and sweat. Even if he still cannot achieve it after working hard, he will at least go further and achieve more than others.

6. An awakening of destiny, a beginning and a continuation. Everyone can grow, but not everyone can mature. Mature people do not rejoice over gains or grieve over losses. They just accept it calmly after trying their best. Mature people do not become arrogant because of their success and fame, nor do they grovel because of their unknown status. They have a plain heart. Heart, live a life neither humble nor arrogant. Mature people are able to take responsibility and know how to be grateful.

7. Not everything will work out, but everything is worth trying.

8. Not everyone is suitable to grow old with you. Some people are meant to grow up; some people are meant to live together; some people are meant to be remembered for a lifetime.

9. Our own attitude is the most important. Only when we learn to love and the right person comes along can we have the opportunity to develop a beautiful relationship. There is a saying that if you want a beautiful person, make yourself beautiful first, so that you can learn to love better.

10. Some people just leave when they leave and will never come back. Some people don't love anymore, and no matter how hard they try, it's just in vain.

11. Forgiving and calm. If a person has a clear mind, his actions will be clear, his heart will be clear, he will have desires but not be attached to them, he will have desires but not be rigid about them, and he will live freely. People who live peacefully have a peaceful and at ease heart, the sky becomes bluer when the clouds pass, and the water becomes quieter when a boat sails.

12. Not everyone can see the person in the dim light when they suddenly look back.

13. Everyone wants different things from an intimate relationship. What matters is not whether what both parties want is consistent, but whether they can satisfy each other. From a person's description of their ideal partner, you can hear whether you fit that person's position.

14. Always maintain your passion for life, discover the beauty around you, and create the joy of life yourself.

15. Dear friend, I hope you will no longer be afraid of loneliness, no longer afraid of facing your previous self, no longer eager to seek external security, but can find the strength of stability from yourself, and Just find the courage to persevere and find your own rhythm. That is your own strength.

16. How many people clearly break up but still love each other; how many people clearly still love each other but say let go.

17. The road ahead stretches far away, leading to a magnificent palace. It is said that as long as you arrive successfully, you can live the life of a prince and princess. As a result, some young people threw away the baggage of their dreams and moved forward quickly, heading towards the gorgeous world.

18. I finally know how to cherish myself and cherish my life that should be beautiful. I think I can forget how to love you, because you have made my love so painful. After the breakup, given us each other's freedom, everything is still as beautiful.

19. The meaning of life lies in how strong we live. The older we grow, the harder it is to find friends. It is difficult for you to be willing to give in and compromise with others. Many people easily gather in lively gatherings to drink and eat, and talk loudly. Even if it doesn't end, there is no nostalgia in each other's hearts. This is the way of social animals as long as there is no talk of emotions it is straightforward. The solemn and nostalgic treatment between people may be a luxury but it is worth pursuing.

20. The love that holds hands with your son and old age is not something you find, but something you keep together. If you only search with your eyes, it will be difficult for you to know who can stay with you for a lifetime. Because only when things happen, the good or evil in human nature will be inspired. So don’t choose people based on appearance and wealth, but choose people based on frustration and mediocrity.

21. If you really want to do something, you will do everything possible to achieve it, even if there are many obstacles. But if you don't really want to accomplish something, then even if the road ahead is smooth, you will use every excuse to stop yourself from moving forward.

22. Don’t cry for the past, let it be the past. Don't fantasize about the future, the future is illusory. Live in the moment and live beautifully.

23. The best may not necessarily be the most suitable for us. The most suitable is the truly best.