We need to know that being easy to find fault with others and blaming others reflects our own arrogance, intolerance and even pickiness and meanness. This is a serious problem in our own hearts. Not to mention how much precious time we waste on self-reflection and correction when we complain and blame others.

The ancients told us a wonderful method: "When you see evil in others, you introspect." When we want to accuse others, we might as well force ourselves to bite our tongues first and ask ourselves: "Am I similar to others?" Problems or shortcomings? "We often find that we almost all have the problems of others. In this way, we will turn the mistakes made by others in front of us into reminders to us, so we will be more grateful, less blaming, and spend more time and energy on reflection and correction. Not only can we improve ourselves, but as we change, the other party will also change subtly. Influence the people around you by teaching by example, this is the best education method.