Being an official depends on seals, but being a man depends on words. A country cannot prosper without trust, a family cannot tolerate without trust, and a person cannot stand without trust. Therefore, the greatest capital and wealth in life is honesty. To be a man, we should live in harmony with others, adhere to our own personality, maintain our own independent style, combine rigidity with softness, create a good network of contacts and living environment, and make ourselves smooth on the road of life.
A happy life is actually very simple. Be yourself, live high's style. Refuse to pollute your mind, always bathe your mind, clean up your garbage, and don't punish yourself with other people's mistakes. Reduce vanity, dare to expose your shortcomings, don't be crazy about small things, don't let a small thing make you lose your mind, forget your ultimate goal and ignore the general direction of life.
No matter whether life is fair or unfair, we should adapt to it and not complain and blame ourselves, otherwise we will become "masochists" of the soul. We all have our own unique personalities and lifestyles, and we can't measure the quality of others by our own standards. You should learn to respect others, appreciate others, discover their advantages and turn their advantages into a skateboard of your life, so that you can be happy.
In life, interpersonal relationship is an important business course for us. It's like sowing seeds. The earlier you sow, the earlier you harvest. The more seeds, the more gains. So you should take the initiative to make friends, get close to others, and sow your interpersonal relationship with your heart, so that you can benefit yourself and help others. As you treat others, others will treat you. Be good at thanking those who criticize you. On the road of life, we should all remember this sentence: "Those who criticize us are those who love us the most." Think about it, among the people we associate with, it is precisely those who criticized us that can be remembered for a long time. They let us learn to do things, know how to communicate, increase our wisdom, learn to constantly correct ourselves, constantly improve ourselves, constantly improve ourselves and constantly enrich ourselves. They are the noble people in our lives and the guides in our lives. It is their relentless criticism and accusations that point the way for our lives and let us know what is love, what is hate, what is beauty and what is ugliness. Accepting criticism is a kind of courage and mind, and we should express our gratitude to those who criticize us.
Smiling is our passport to travel around the world. Some people say, "There is a kind of flower that blooms forever, and that is a smile. It is divided into four seasons, north and south, and it will blossom wherever there are crowds. The nobler the soul, the more beautiful the flower of smile will bloom. " Bing Xin said: "The successful flower, people only marvel at its present brilliance. However, at the beginning, its buds were soaked with tears of struggle and shed blood rain of sacrifice. " Indeed, the sun is always after the wind and rain, and only after the baptism of the wind and rain will the sun and rainbow appear particularly brilliant. We should take control of our own life and take success in our own hands.
Let the ideal be the navigation of your life, and faith supports the immortal soul of mankind. As long as there is a song to sing for us, we can find the way to success. Difficulties and setbacks have always existed in our lives. They are like a stone, a stumbling block to the weak and will make you stagnate. It is a stepping stone for the strong, which will make you stand higher and see farther. On the road of life, we often face two choices, enjoying ease and experiencing suffering. If you choose comfort, you will do nothing in this life; If you choose pain, you will enjoy the joy of success. Afraid of suffering, suffering for a lifetime, not afraid of suffering, suffering for a lifetime. We should sort out the past, start from scratch, be indifferent to fame and fortune, not seek Wen Da, learn to decompress ourselves and realize personal sustainable development. We should grasp the present, live in the present, make every moment wonderful, grow and freeze in the long river of life. Yesterday has passed, and tomorrow has not come yet. Only today I am in our hands, which is a cash gift. We should make good use of it. Life without draft paper, the past is gone forever. Cherish the present, seize every minute of your life, and don't cry for spilled milk. Life is only a few decades, and we don't have much time to waste. Only by constantly refreshing today can we become our own masters and make our life happy and chic.
Life is a process of enjoyment, not a final result. More indifference, less desire; More detachment, less obsession; Don't rejoice in things, don't grieve for yourself. Look at the world with an open mind, make things clear and be a sober and indifferent person. Only in this way can we gain more joy in the struggle and get a quiet in the noisy city.