As the saying goes, the situation is stronger than the person, and the way to win or lose lies in how to build momentum. As a parent, you have to do your own research, and don't let it come from your children. If you don't study well or don't do something well, you can't scold your child for not being good enough, having poor execution ability, or forcefully forcing your child to do it. It's because you didn't make arrangements yourself. Even if the child doesn’t work, you gave birth to the child yourself! It's your responsibility.
So good parents seek power and do not blame their children. Yesterday we said that parents must first identify the situation, be able to identify the situation, and possess the wisdom that is the first of the five virtues of a general. Wisdom has four aspects: foresight; assessing the situation; foresight; and making prompt decisions.
When we can identify the potential, the trend, and the opportunity, we need to follow the potential, that is, take advantage of the potential. How to take advantage? For example, if we go to a shopping mall and we want to go to the second and third floors, your way is to find the elevator. The elevator has an upward trend and a downward trend. We want to go to the second and third floors. Of course, we must identify , that elevator is rising, this is to identify the potential, and to take the potential is to stand on the elevator.
How do parents recognize and take advantage of trends when raising their children? According to the different ages of children, different abilities need to be developed. Children's strong curiosity can be used to cultivate children's habit of careful observation. The main purpose is to grasp the perception of things by children of different ages, and bring children close to nature and participate in museums. Babies under 5 months old will be very excited to see so many new things in the museum. In fact, they are learning to adapt to various changes in future life.
Babies over 5 months old slowly develop the ability to perform various activities, such as fine motor skills. This means that in the past they could only look, but now they can play with their hands and study carefully. Parents can cultivate their children's sports abilities through various games and activities and ball games. In June 2016, the University of Exeter in the UK released a report summarizing many studies in this area and pointing out that physical exercise can improve brain ability and academic performance. They believe that the time spent doing exercise is definitely not a waste, even from the perspective of results, it is worthwhile.
Children have a sensitive period when learning language. If you seize the sensitive period of language, that is to take advantage of the situation, the child will learn language very easily, usually until the age of 7, after which learning will become more strenuous. Of course, neuroplasticity tells us that abilities can be improved through acquired training. Research shows that playing an instrument can extend the language sensitivity period. You want to track the study room and see how your children's reading vocabulary increases after three years of playing guitar or playing guitar.