Author: Zimo

Time passes too fast, the seasons change, the light and shadow change, and the vicissitudes of life have aged our lives and appearance.

Looking back suddenly, I found that I have reached middle age and have experienced everything that needs to be experienced. The pace of middle-aged life has slowed down.

At this time, you should relax yourself. After all, a tight string is easy to break. Understand that you don’t live according to your own will, but you have to live a life of peace and contentment and let nature take its course.

Keep a calm mind, know how to get close to the sun, absorb the warmth, nourish the body and mind, pick up a ray of light to illuminate life, and collect the beautiful things in the world to dress up an ordinary life.

To enrich the inner life, understand the current life, let the trivialities of life drift into falling flowers, live an ordinary life without any disturbance, and even feel that it can make yourself comfortable, which is already very satisfying.

"If you can calm down with the years, everything can become a poem." It is my wish to give ease to the complexity of the years. It is also my wish to have smooth and peaceful days. The time is beautiful, and there is a place to rest my body and mind. What's more, It is to become a yearning in life.

When people reach middle age, they also like to reminisce. They always feel the beauty of the past, or in the process of sorting out the past, they find some regrets and soothe their middle-aged depression.

When people reach middle age, they become more thoughtful and think too much, which inevitably adds some sadness. The more sentimental they are, the more depressed they will be.

When a person reaches middle age, he should be used to seeing joys and sorrows. It is wise not to regret the past, but to learn lessons to deepen himself.

Instead of wallowing in memories and wasting your life, it is better to cherish the good times now.

Instead of letting go of the past, it is better to live well, live in the present, and live up to the time.

It is good not to be afraid of the future, not to think about the past, to live a simple life and to be content with whatever comes.

When a person reaches middle age, he might as well cut off a piece of his past and let it drift in the wind of the passing years; he might as well hold on to the warmth that has accompanied him all the way, let nature take its course, and enjoy the most ordinary days. Sort it into beautiful poems, live with heart, find inner satisfaction, and be safe and sound, which is happiness.

Learn to satisfy your own small wishes, look up to a state of mind and keep practicing, and properly place your heart. Everything your heart goes is beautiful, and everything your heart desires is pleasant.

Life starts from silence, experiences prosperity, experiences loneliness, discovers beauty in life, feels joy, and encounters joy; in the dead of night, people also reflect on life, a life of ups and downs, and when you stop, you suddenly realize the suffering This is the true abundance of the soul. Therefore, when people reach middle age, they should take everything lightly, be calm and calm, take things as they come, and let everything happen.

In fact, life is a journey, a period of time is a scenery, a stop of scenery is a period of life, a journey of happiness and a journey of suffering, among mountains and rivers, follow nature, No matter how life treats you, be kind to yourself.

You must know that time waits for no one, you must know that life will never come back, and it will not be easy along the way. How should you go for the rest of your life, and what kind of life should you live? After middle age, I also had a rough idea in my mind.

We must also know that when people reach middle age, they should be in good times with a kind heart and be at peace with adversity with a calm mind. We must understand that after the prosperity is over, calmness and tranquility are the colors of middle age. Even if the flowers are in full bloom, they are still scenery.

In the face of confusion, there is no need to investigate the reason. Just try your best and live a solid life is more important than anything else.

Making a living and seeking love are the same. Walk slowly on the road of life, love slowly, never lose your conscience and kindness, be a simple and happy ordinary person, take things as they come, and live a warmer life.

In the end, one must understand the destination of life. Luxury and dazzle are only for a moment, and three meals a day are forever. Fame, fortune, and wealth are all temporarily kept, and it is not certain who will be the next stop.

Only by facing reality, savoring the mixed flavors of the world, and cherishing your body, health in middle age is the light of life and is important.

To know how to live, don’t waste your life or time. After all, these are extremely precious. If you lose them, they will never come back.

When you are alive, you should understand with your heart. When you are not satisfied, you should know how to comfort yourself. Don’t look away and don’t ask for everything to be perfect. It is just a dream, and we have passed the age of chasing dreams.

What life pursues is ordinary warmth. For middle-aged people, there are elders and younger ones. A safe and healthy family is what the heart wishes. Living a caring and warm life is better than Being rich and wealthy, having a harmonious family, and being happy as a family are the beauty and splendor of life.

In fact, life requires material possessions as well as spiritual possessions. Between material and money, don’t wrong yourself, don’t trade your life for money, love yourself when you are able, and just be content with the situation when you are powerless. , let nature take its course.

After middle age, people also have choices emotionally. People who cannot get along with each other choose to stay away. Regarding family, love, and friendship, have a clear conscience, and let the rest go. Just let him be.

When a person reaches middle age, half of his life is over. The things we have experienced and the hardships we have experienced are all gained in life, and they are all worth thinking about and settling on. They are all wealth in life and pave the way for the future.

We are no longer young and will no longer be impulsive because of small things. We understand the principles of dealing with others. Open-mindedness, magnanimity and stability are the attitudes we should have when facing life.

The world is complicated, and perhaps everything cannot be as one wishes. People cannot escape the secular world, let alone avoid the troubles of the world. Only by learning to take things lightly and look at life with a normal heart can we have real happiness. .

Having a gentle temperament and soft emotions is the way to treat yourself in this way, which is suitable for you in middle age. Use your mood to nourish the unbearable life, do not be harsh on yourself, and do not envy others. What you advocate in middle-aged life is indifference. Beautiful and peaceful.

In middle age, one should be as calm as water, neither impatient nor impetuous, be a simple person and do things one's duty. This is also the standard for not being stupid. If you have a simple mind, there will be nothing in life that is not the fragrance of flowers. If your heart is beautiful, there will be nothing in your life that is not among the water and clouds. In middle age, you will be simple and content with the circumstances. This is also the enjoyment of letting nature take its course and the taste of Zen life.

Therefore, when people reach middle age, instead of living awkwardly, instead of embarrassing themselves, and instead of worrying for the rest of their lives, it is better to be content with the situation and pursue peace.

The beauty is in the present, have a beautiful heart, live a life that goes with the flow with a stable mentality, the years are quiet, and everyone is at peace with the situation.