When a tree is moved, it will die, but when people are moved, they will live and change.

Some friends said that they are used to being in the same unit or department, and are familiar with interpersonal relationships and work content. Being willing to be transferred again is a relatively common mentality.

Who wants to leave home and travel around? Unless you are a restless person who does not want to gain anything but wants to seek excitement. Some people must disagree with what I say. It seems that people who often transfer jobs are restless people! I disagree!

Yes, I disagree, even I don’t agree. This society has changed too much, and the variables are even greater. We are so small in it, how can we protect ourselves? If a unit collapses, whether it is due to business reasons or policy changes, we have to make changes. Many units that used to be red, purple, and rich are facing social changes. In an instant, it became a loss-making and bankrupt enterprise, and its employees became laid-off and unemployed.

Therefore, when the general environment changes, we have no choice but to be forced to make changes.

The other is man-made changes, which are your inner feelings. There are two situations: one is that they no longer care about looking at things from a secular perspective and simply want to seek their inner spiritual home. They pack up a backpack and become travel companions, drive a broken jeep to see Tibet, and run around on the road every day; People constantly change jobs in order to learn more systems and industry management, and they don't care about the gains and losses of one thing at a time. These are all voluntary.

The other is forced changes. A person in the workplace not only wants to make money, but more importantly, he wants to develop himself. Intellectuals want to do creative work and also want to be respected. The satisfaction of these wishes sometimes exceeds the desire to make money.

If these ideas cannot be realized, you will feel depressed inside. "Attitude determines everything", this is an article I wrote. In fact, at this time, a person needs to adjust his mentality. There is also a need for understanding, support, and hope for development. Who doesn’t want to make some achievements as a career-minded and ambitious person? If you want to hang around, there are always a few people who can just muddle along.

But objectively, interpersonal relationships may not be allowed, the development of the unit may not be satisfactory, and the strong call in one's heart is so clear that a thoughtful person will fall into pain. The heart is often struggling between reality and ideals.

Many people who have just graduated from school are full of enthusiasm, but gradually cool down after working. Finally, they get drunk with wine from the bar and become numb. I believe many people have this experience.

When you wake up drunk, nothing has changed. You will still face everything you suffered yesterday the next day, and you still have to put on a smile.

I think, "wandering" (ha, a fashionable term) between the struggling heart and the cruel and unsatisfactory reality is what many people do every day.

I think some things need to be endured and some things need to be changed. (Famous quotes m.taiks.com) Some people will ask, how would you define this line?

I want to say that in fact, survival in society is nothing more than a few points: making money and development. and interpersonal relationships. If you want to take advantage of all three aspects, that is of course good. Problems are often less than perfect.

If you have opportunities to develop in a unit and have good interpersonal relationships, then you can tolerate making less money. If you can make money and develop, but your interpersonal relationships temporarily encounter problems, you can tolerate it. A company can make money and interpersonal relationships are fine, but you may never be able to develop yourself, so you can just eat this "Antai meal" with peace of mind. Anyway, it doesn't matter whether you want to be something or not.

However, if you are in a company and make little money and have tense interpersonal relationships, let alone development, then you must leave resolutely! Not only is it a place of right and wrong, but it also delays your own life and makes you poor forever, and will continue to be poor endlessly. (I use several "ands" here, which is not a linguistic mistake, but a state of simultaneous existence)

Instead of letting the soul "die" in humiliation, it is better to rise up and fight.

"If you move a tree to death, people will move to life", "If you are poor, you will want to change", "When people go to higher places, water will flow to lower places", "Even if you hang yourself, you have to find a big tree to hang yourself from". These aphorisms are at this time All of them are useful. What you need to do at this time is to use a fearless spirit to encourage yourself to break the habits you are already familiar with, dare to get out of this familiar "cage", and fly out to find a new habitat. Maybe a new place isn't as scary as you think.