There is a line in the movie Monga: Do you know? In which direction the wind blows, the grass falls. When I was a child, I thought I was the wind, and finally I was black and blue, only to know that we were all grass.
This is a classic statement, but I don't agree with the mentality reflected. Although I was black and blue all over, I still insisted that young people should be angular if they want to be the wind. People who have no edges and corners are not called young people. Even if you are injured, even if you finally wear off the edges and corners, it is only a course of life. What is there to regret? Why are you young and mature!
There is an old saying in China: No one will say anything in front of anyone. This shows that everyone is said by someone, good and bad. For example, if a young man becomes the leader of a unit, or his grades are excellent and outstanding, it will lead to gossip: this boy is only good at speculation and flattery, but he is highly valued by leaders; In fact, when I am with my classmates, it is not like this!
You have done better than others and become an early bird, some people say; You are worse than others, more reserved and low-key, and some people say so. Poor academic performance, others nose a hum, he ah, stupid, not reading material. At this point, someone sarcastically said: If you don't look at yourself, are you a A Jin Port driller? Can you make a fortune by pulling anyone?
Some people may say, I don't compete with others, I don't provoke you, I hide in Xanadu, and no one will say anything about me. No! Some people will say that you, your parents, your relatives and friends will say that you are so worthless! Even if you are a monk or a nun, some people still say that you are so passive and evasive, which is really sad!
Yes, it's true. No one doesn't talk about others, and no one doesn't talk about others. Faced with this reality, what should we do?
Just follow the famous sayings! Dante, a famous Italian poet, said-go your own way and let others talk!
This is easier said than done. It is difficult for a young man to do this without edges and corners, courage and self-confidence. If you are afraid of being told about you, if you can't stick to your point of view, if you don't have the courage to break through the tight encirclement, what should you do: go your own way and let others tell you?
"Go your own way and let others say it" doesn't mean to put all your eggs in one basket and break through. Take your own road and take wisdom, knowledge and talent as a beacon. Harper, winner of the 19 18 chemistry prize, gathered hundreds of Nazi scientists to publish a book-essays of 100 people against relativity. Faced with such a huge accusation, Einstein did not flinch. He said: "If the theory of relativity is wrong, it is enough for one person to overthrow it. Why do you need so many people! " Einstein boldly went his own way because he believed that the truth was in his own hands!
Another way to shut others up is to leave those who say you far behind and prove that you are right with facts. People say you may be because you are not good enough. There is a young man. When he was still a director in a unit, there were always people telling him what to do and talking about it, accusing him of having problems with his work ability. However, when he became the leader of the higher authorities, everyone in the original unit was speechless, and even the previous leaders were respectful and admired him. Remember, if someone says you, it means that you haven't given them a satisfactory result!
So, young man, when people talk about you, go your own way and work hard. One day, others will say you with appreciation! Prosperity fades, and the rest will only be glory!