the motivation is actually very simple, that is, curiosity. We want to know how our emotions, minds and intuition work.
So, do we really know ourselves? What is our motivation for doing everything? What internal factors urge us to do this or that?
At the same time, why do we sometimes fail to understand other people's behaviors and choices?
"Why do I feel this way, while others may feel other things?"
"Why is my friend's reaction angry when facing the same situation as mine, but my reaction is depressed?"
It seems easy to find answers to some interesting questions, but in fact it is not easy to convince yourself of simple answers. If you find a few small partners to discuss with you, you will find that the topics from life to work, from life to values, are getting bigger and bigger. With these questions, I came to the second module of Tuosi: the insight into human nature of nine types of personality.
I don't want to be a white girl. Although I knew something about DISC and MBTI's personality before, I did some homework in advance, bought books and looked up the encyclopedia. Let's take a look at it first:
"The most remarkable thing about Type 9 personality is that it can penetrate people's superficial joys and sorrows into the most secret places of people's hearts and discover their most real and fundamental needs and desires. Nine-type personality can help us gain insight into people's hearts, respond to others in an effective way, and ultimately enhance the happiness and success of our lives. " -helen palmer
can be described as "I don't know the true face of Lushan Mountain, but I am only in this mountain".
Type 9 personality helps us to explore the potentials possessed by different personalities, which include the ability to love, the ability to feel others and the ability to see ahead. It can also help us understand ourselves better, help us deal with interpersonal relationships, and tap the potential abilities in our personality. It emphasizes the relationship between people's personality and potential. The wonder of this whole system is that some common personality characteristics and habits that we often ignore and think are natural reactions are actually the channels that lead us into higher self. At the same time, when you can see the world through the eyes of other personality types, you will immediately find that no personality is perfect. It will also make us understand that people are different, and many troubles we encounter in dealing with interpersonal relationships are precisely because we turn a blind eye to their views and don't realize that everyone has their own life. We need to get out of our own ideas and feel the thoughts of others.
Ok, after reading this, I found that the three different abilities to tap the potential have touched me: the ability to love, the ability to feel others and the ability to see ahead. In our usual communication, getting along with others, and applying coaching skills, they are all abilities that we should have and show.
Through Vicky's three-day course, I understand why Tuosi defines type 9 personality as insight into human nature, which is a process of self-recovery. When the song is remembered or the movie clip is played back, Vicky interprets every word with precise personality, and we find ourselves being pushed away layer by layer like onions: there will be stinging and relief; There will be feelings and more thinking. Is this really me? The moment I got the answer, I suddenly felt relaxed and carefree, and I felt relieved to read myself suddenly, and I also had the motivation to move on and practice myself. Think of a famous Sufi saying: "Take your existing memory and understanding, and become you before you." With The big WHY, with the Open Mind, don't cling to some characteristics of personality and become a better self! At the same time, we can also let go of our obsession and honestly understand and accept others.
In Tuosi, the definition of nine types of personality is a kind of method and knowledge to deeply understand people. According to people's thinking, emotions and behaviors, people's personality is divided into nine types according to the three wisdom centers of brain, heart and abdomen. The personality with the highest emotion (heart center) is about "people", focusing on how others think of themselves, hiding shame and feeling positive and negative emotions with heart; The character of mental thinking (brain center) is about logic, thinking and arguments. It entrusts its own sense of security and trust to the thinking concept, hides fear, leads by thinking, infers by logic, and trusts data and systems to analyze and explore ideas. The character of intuitive mind (ventral center) is constantly confronting and controlling the environment. Their hearts are full of anger and they use intuition to judge things, personal values and social identity.
Although people's basic personality forms will not change, we will see that a typical description of a certain type may not completely conform to this person. Here, it is necessary to say that everyone's growth environment is unique. In this process, people will show different differences in order to meet the requirements of the environment, social and cultural differences, and social characteristics, especially in the state of pressure and freedom, so we see that there are * * * between different types.
We live in an imaginary world, and our unnecessary defensive psychology often makes us mistake our thoughts and feelings about reality for reality itself. As long as we keep this in mind, the "nine-type personality" can become a powerful tool for each of us. Looking back at myself, I will find out why I used to be such a hurdle every time. This is actually my blind spot. Only by opening my will can I really understand who I am? Only then can we see more possibilities in the future and become a better self with respect and acceptance!