Today we are talking about the objective facts of the world, which are somewhat extreme and cold-blooded, but it is the truth.
A drug Lord once said this after he went to prison: "No one in this world can trust but himself, which is also the reason why I am lucky enough to live today.".
1. There are no eternal friends, only eternal interests.
2. In front of interests, brothers will kill each other and turn against each other on the spot.
3. Don't think about who is so rich and powerful and has such a good relationship with me. I am sure I can use its power to rise in the future.
4. You can't trust anyone in this world except your parents. (even including your parents)
5. Whether it is a person or a ghost can only be revealed at the moment when the interests are involved.
6. Relationships, contacts and resources are the most fragile and untrustworthy things in the world.
7. If you deprive others of food, others will deprive you of soup.
Not long ago, a friend of mine, whose family is very rich, called me and said, "I made money this year. Among my friends, you are the reliable one. If you want to do something, give me a business plan. If it is feasible, I can invest 5, yuan." So I believed him. I told him later that after three years, I wanted to do things by myself, and he would invest money for me as start-up capital, and I was fully responsible for operation and management.
Now think that such words should be spoken by a 3-year-old child.
the truth is that my reliability is not worth 5, yuan. Why should people give you 5, yuan just because you are reliable? What if you lose? Losing means that the relationship will be hit hard, and the so-called trust and reliability will disappear in an instant, and friends will not be able to do it.
Friends who talk and laugh with you on weekdays are all empty and superficial. Only when you are in trouble and need money, are friends who are willing to lend you money. It is important to remember to return it to others in time according to the agreement, otherwise the relationship will be shattered.
Any major decision should be considered at three levels:
1. Interests involved
2. Interests of all parties
3. Current situation.
Last words:
Recognize the interest relationship, and be responsible for yourself and the other party.
Believe or not depends on the interests and the current situation. There are advantages to believing, and there are advantages to not believing. See how you weigh it.
Of course, when I say this, I don't mean not to make friends and don't trust others. All these words are in my heart. After all, do most people live in the world of appearances, so we need to get involved, but you should understand these basic common sense in your heart.
note: the above is just my personal opinion. I hope you won't be replaced by me and lose your love and confidence in the whole world, then this is your fault. I'm just responsible for telling the facts and the truth thoroughly, so as to avoid telling lies and doing stupid things.
fuck, fuck, fuck who?
there is only one answer. You can only rely on yourself.
There are no eternal friends, only eternal interests. "I believe all Chinese people should be familiar with this famous saying. If you ask everyone: Who said this? Many people would say it was former British Prime Minister Churchill.
But this sentence is not what Churchill said. People usually add famous sayings to the heads of big people in order to make them more convincing. It was also the former British Prime Minister. His name was Palmerston, and his historical position was similar to Churchill's.
The original words of this sentence are as follows:
"We have no eternalAllies, and we have no perpetual enemies. Our interests are eternals and perpetual, And why interests it is our duty to follow. "
An accurate translation should be like this." Allies can't be users, and enemies won't always be enemies, but our interests are eternal and lasting, and it is our duty to seek interests for our country. "
This sentence was said at a meeting when he was in the British cabinet. If we consider the identity and responsibility at that time, put it in the scene at that time and contact the context, the meaning is very neutral. But in China, the meaning was misinterpreted and misrepresented as a naked pursuit of interests.
why did this happen?
1. Media propaganda out of context: Everyone knows that alarmist news is the easiest to broadcast. Look at the news. Information and news with negative information such as "crash", "bubble" and "recession" and some controversial contents spread fastest and widest. In order to win the attention of bad media, we often see such remarks on the internet, which is not enough.
2. Some people who violate morality and harm others' interests in order to maximize their own interests, in order to rationalize their own behavior, use "celebrity quotes" to excuse their disrespectful behavior.
3. Most people are not good at independent thinking, and have no consciousness and motivation to trace the source. Everyone says so and understands so, so most people follow the crowd.
When we see some famous sayings, at least we should first judge whether these words and these ideas are reasonable, and if so, what help and guidance will they give us. If you feel controversial, you should know under what circumstances these words were said, and contact the background and context at that time in order to truly understand the true meaning.