1. Only by establishing your own inner value system can you turn pressure into the tension of life.

2. Bravery is sometimes a kind of calmness and confidence under the control of rationality. Only those who are virtuous and benevolent can truly be brave in spirit.

3. To be mentally strong, one prerequisite is to underestimate the gains and losses of things outside oneself.

4. In a sense, what a person has in his heart is what he sees.

5. Acknowledge the shortcomings in real life and make up for them through your own efforts.

6. Let it go when it’s time to let it go. When you tolerate others, you are actually leaving a vast ocean and sky for yourself.

7. Growth is the gradual strengthening of the heart through experience. The so-called return of life is to turn external things into inner strength.

8. We should make friends with people who can improve our moral character, improve our self-cultivation, and enrich your connotation. Make friends who are happy, able to enjoy life, and happy in poverty.

9. If you want to be someone who is willing and able to communicate with you, the most important thing is that you have an open mind.

10. Most of the confusion is because the vision is not broad enough. How can a frog in a well know what a vast world means?

11. We must respect everyone and each other in an equal and rational manner. Leave a little discretion and a little leeway. The flowers are not fully blooming and the moon is not full. This is the best state in the world. Once the flowers are in full bloom, they will soon wither. Once the moon is full, it will soon be missing. Although it is not fully opened or fully rounded, it still makes your heart have expectations and longings.

12. A person’s ambition is very important and determines the development direction of his life.

13. Caring for others is kindness; understanding others is wisdom.

14. From today's perspective, a person's development often does not depend on how lofty the ultimate ideal is, but on what kind of starting point there is in front of him. We often don’t lack grand ambitions, but lack the practical path accumulated step by step towards that ambition.

15. The pride of a gentleman is his inner character.

16. If your heart is open and kind, and you are frank and brave, then you may gain many unexpected things.

17. When a person does things, he must know what etiquette and shame are, that is, he must have restraint on himself, have firm and uncompromising standards of life in his heart, and at the same time, he must be useful to society and do things for society.

18. The real happiness in life is the happiness of the soul, which sometimes is not necessarily closely related to the external material life. The power of true happiness comes from the richness of the soul, from a kind of education, from the longing for ideals, and also from discussions and exchanges with good friends.

19. With an optimistic and positive attitude, grasp the appropriateness of interaction with others, let yourself become a person who makes others happy, and let your happy heart become an energy source like sunshine to radiate to others. Warm others, let family, friends and even the wider society gain a little reason to be happy from themselves.

20. Chinese philosophy advocates a kind of solemn, rational and gentle beauty.

21. "God is in heaven, holiness is in earth" is the personality ideal of the Chinese people: there is an idealistic sky where one can fly freely without compromising on many rules and obstacles in the real world; The ability to be down-to-earth enables him to expand his behavior on this earth.

22. When people are young, they live by addition, but when they reach a certain level, they must learn to live by subtraction. If your mind is filled with gains, you will eventually become tired of them.

23. If you always follow the king (leader) no matter what, even though it means you are close, you are not far away from incurring humiliation; if you always follow your friends no matter what, even though it looks like Close, but not far away from the two of you.

24. The more fierce the competition, the more you need to adjust your mentality and relationships with others.

25. Knowing destiny means having the inner strength to deal with the outside world.

26. True harmony is not just the harmony between neighbors in a community, nor is it just the harmony between people, it also includes all things on the earth growing together harmoniously and happily. ; People have a kind of reverence, a kind of compliance, and a kind of tacit understanding towards all things in nature.

27. To build a harmonious society is to harmoniously integrate the different voices of each person into the collective voice. True harmony is a kind of tolerance and integration of others on the premise of insisting on different voices and different viewpoints.

28. If you cry because you miss the sun, you will also miss the stars.

29. “Where does a person’s self-confidence come from? It comes from inner calmness and calmness”; “People who worry about gains and losses will not have an open mind, a calm state of mind, and will not have "True bravery"; "If a person has restraint in his heart, he will make fewer mistakes in his behavior"; "Being able to reflect on his own mistakes and have the courage to correct them is the true bravery advocated by Confucianists"

　30 .Every adult has his own glory and hidden pain in life. A true good friend should not touch his hidden pain easily.

31. Think more, listen more, see more, speak more, and act more carefully. The advantage of doing so is that you will have less regrets. Before we do something, we must first think about the consequences. When we do things, we must first think from afar and be cautious and cautious in order to avoid harm to others and reduce our own regrets later. Use your brain when speaking and consider the consequences when doing things. This is a very important point in dealing with people.

32. The most important person in this world is the person you need help right now. The most important thing is to do it right away. The most important time is now, without any delay.

33. There is a kind of self-confidence and calmness under the control of rationality in his heart. This is because he has a broad mind and lofty ambitions.

34. Choosing a friend is choosing a way of life. Cultivating one's own moral character is a prerequisite for making good friends, which is equivalent to opening up the friendliest world to oneself. Can make your life glorious.

35. Our eyes see too much of the outside world and too little of the soul.

36. Learn to integrate limited knowledge into your own life. Learn, think, and apply at the same time.

37. Only a truly sage can not be burdened by material life and can always maintain the tranquility and peace of mind. The benevolent do not worry, the wise do not be confused, the brave do not fear, inner strength can resolve many regrets in life.

38. The power of a gentleman is always the power of action, not the power of words.

39. A villain is a person who does not have a big vision and seizes the small advantages in front of him.

40. Repaying grievances with honesty and repaying kindness with kindness advocates a kind of respect for efficiency and personality in life.

41. If a person has no "worry", "confusion" and "fear" in his heart, he will naturally reduce his complaints and accusations against the outside world, and also enhance his ability to grasp happiness. , is the ultimate purpose of learning.

42. Each of us will inevitably have shortcomings and dissatisfaction in our lives. Maybe we are unable to change this fact, but what we can change is our attitude towards these things. Treat the shortcomings and sufferings in life with a peaceful attitude.

43. A successful career is not necessarily your ideal.

44. A happy life in the material sense is just an indicator, but the true inner peace and recognition of the government come from faith.

45. The ideal way is to give us some resources to reserve spiritual happiness.

46. "Cultivate yourself to be respectful" cultivate yourself well and maintain a serious and respectful attitude. "Cultivate yourself to make others happy". On the premise of cultivating yourself well, try to make others happy. "Self-cultivation" is the first prerequisite for being responsible for the country and society. "Be worried about the world's worries first, and be happy after the world's happiness." This is a belief, a sentiment, and a social responsibility, but the premise is simple and starts from the feet. Cultivating one's moral character and being a good person are the starting point.

47. A person’s vision has two functions: one is to go outwards and expand the world infinitely broad; the other is to go inward and discover the heart infinitely profoundly.

48. In fact, it’s like there is half a bottle of wine in front of us. The pessimist says: Why is there only half a bottle of such good wine? The optimist says: There is still half a bottle of such good wine. !