The Book of Rites? Quli is an article in the Book of Rites. This ancient prose is very old, from the Warring States Period to the Qin and Han Dynasties. It is an article that restricts and explains the etiquette culture and moral cultivation of the ancients at that time. There is no clear author's name, but it is certain that this article was written by a Confucian scholar, not necessarily Confucius, whose quotations have a special summary of the Analects of Confucius. There may be more than one author of the Book of Rites, and they were not written at the same time. Studies show that several of them are probably students of Confucius. Among them, a very classic sentence is: those who are polite to their husbands feel inferior and respect others. Although the seller is negative, there must be respect. The meaning of this sentence is not difficult to understand, that is to say, the real courtesy is to keep inner humility and give respect to others. Even roadside vendors have their own shining points worthy of respect. This sentence seems to be a great truth, but in fact, what we are talking about should have been done by each of us. We should be strict with ourselves and be lenient with others, but in real life, many people are strict with others and lenient with ourselves, so the virtues of the ancients still need our reflection and study. Is this sentence actually related to the Analects of Confucius? In a threesome, there must be a teacher. Choose the good and follow it, and change the bad. ? This sentence also has the same effect. It is to teach the world to be humble and eager to learn. No matter what class the other person is, there is something worth learning. Only by being humble and eager to learn can we achieve ourselves. Throughout the ages, all successful people will show an open-minded and studious side in the process of success. They are good at tapping the advantages and experiences of others to learn, and then they can achieve their own success. The following sentence is more tender: as a gift to be a son, it is warm in winter and clear in summer, and it is quiet in the morning. This means that as children's obligation to be filial to their parents, they should care for their parents, make them feel warm in winter and cool in summer, and often accompany them in the morning and evening. Nowadays, many young people are under great work pressure and can't serve their parents every day as mentioned in the article, but as long as they often express their concern for their parents, their parents will still be warm in winter and clear in summer even if they don't feel sleepy in the morning.