The following four famous sayings handed down from ancient times, if we calm down and read them carefully, will be helpful to our life.
1. If you are poor, don't leave your relatives, and if you are rich, don't return home
When you are poor, don't leave your relatives everywhere. This is the backbone of being a man. When you are frustrated, there are many people who fall when they are down. If you ask them for help, it will only make them laugh. Instead of condescending to others, it is better to be yourself and impress them.
When you go home when you are rich, there will be an endless stream of people who come to cling to and curry favor with you. Most of these people are snobs who follow the trend. At this time, helping is not, and not helping is not, which makes you in a dilemma. Therefore, if you are rich and don't return home, it is more of a helplessness.
As the saying goes, "No one asks if you are poor in downtown, but you have distant relatives if you are rich in the mountains". The reality of human nature is often chilling.
second, the sky is not self-satisfied, and the earth is not self-satisfied
Heaven and earth never talk, but they are profound and daunting. And some people talk big and show off their cleverness all day long, but they don't know that it is a joke in the eyes of others. The more a person shows off, the more he lacks. Showing off his knowledge all day just shows that he doesn't have much ink in his stomach.
truly wise people always cherish words like gold, but what they say is hit the floor. But gold always shines, so there is no need to show yourself in a hurry. It is more convincing to talk less and do more, and prove your strength with practical actions.
Third, you are not deaf or blind, and you are not worthy to be the master.
As the ancients said, it is hard to be confused. If everything shows that you are too smart, it may not be a good thing for others. Everyone has a small abacus in his heart. As long as it has nothing to do with principles, turning a blind eye is a good thing for people and themselves. If everything gets to the bottom, it's hard for anyone to get along for a long time.
As the saying goes, "When the water is clear, there will be no fish, and when people observe it, there will be no disciples". When you are alive, learn to tolerate others, and see through it, which is the great wisdom of dealing with people.
four, people can't be perfect, melons can't be round
"No one is perfect without gold." There is no perfect person in this world, even if there is, it is the closest person to perfection. How can it be perfect if it is close? Everyone has a different definition of perfection, so we should face up to our own shortcomings and advantages, carry forward our advantages and correct our shortcomings, and try our best to be perfect.
There is a black spot on a piece of white paper. Everyone sees the black spot, but few people see the rest of the white part. Why does everyone only see black spots when white occupies most of it? The answer is that we always care too much about shortcomings. The same is true of life. No one's life is perfect. If you always stare at your own shortcomings, you will never be happy. Only when you are alive can you learn to tolerate yourself and reconcile with your past self.