2. The greatest sin of human beings is unhappiness, and making people happy is the premise of making everything better. It is easy for us to let ourselves fluctuate with other people's mood and fall into other people's gravitational circle. It shouldn't be like this. You should pull unhappy people into your happy gravitational circle.
No matter how expensive and rare things are, talents who can judge according to their own needs are strong enough. If people can let go of their obsession, they can be more confident.
These things have been left in the living environment for months, even years, but they have not rotted, because they are not fresh food. But functionally, they have rotted. Being in such an environment is almost equivalent to staying in a temporary garbage room. Is the subject "I" or "object"? Please get into the habit of asking yourself this question often.
The protagonist of parting is not the object, but himself, and the time axis is always now. The key to choosing an item is not whether it can be used or not, but whether I want to use it or not, which must be engraved in my mind.
6. Separation is the philosophy of life subtraction. Subtract redundant items, recognize yourself and sharpen the instinct of perception; Overlooking strength is the additive philosophy of the mind, understanding the deep needs, believing in yourself and strengthening the belief in life; Self-sufficiency is the multiplication philosophy of life, regaining self-reliance, freedom and freedom of life, liberating yourself and moving towards a high realm of life.
7. It is very important to change from an additive life to a subtractive life. It is not thought that changes action, but action that changes thought. It can be said that breaking up is a meditation.
8. Finishing is the work of screening necessary items. In other words, sorting is the process of asking yourself whether a certain conditional item has a definite relationship with yourself now, and then choosing this item.
9. Disengagement is an action technique to know yourself by sorting things out, sorting out inner chaos and making life comfortable. In other words, it is to clean up the inner garbage by cleaning up the clutter at home and make life happy.
10 through the continuous training of screening projects, the present self will be more and more vividly presented to our own eyes, and people can judge the accurate self-image by this.
1 1. The article is actually a combination of things and feelings. Even the same thing, the feelings you give it are very important. But articles containing negative emotions are still too heavy. After all, we don't need to bear such a heavy burden of life.
12, all tangible things are illusory, and our hearts are constantly changing. Enjoy the rare short encounter with things, which must be the happiness we pursue. When the fate is exhausted, let go smartly. Not only for things, but also for everything. This is the desire to give up.
13, basically, making a room in a mess, making a room in a mess, and throwing things around rudely is equivalent to giving yourself the energy of denial and inferiority.
14, good things can be thrown away without hesitation, but they are reluctant to part with these cheap things. This means that I have a very bad habit-self-mockery.
15, items that have practical value and are still playing a role actually account for only 20% of all items. In many cases, these 20% items alone are enough to cope with (80%) life.
16. In the dormitory, the invisible storage space can only be filled up to 70%. The reason why we should set aside 30% of the space is because it will make people have the desire and mood to organize, and the 30% of the space freed can become a channel for goods to enter and exit.
17. She thinks that when throwing things, she should express the emotion of' sorry, thank you'. Saying goodbye to those things you threw away can make people clear their minds faster.
18, I think most of them deliberately make themselves feel nothing. Although we can't generalize, most people living in this environment have experienced a strong sense of loneliness. Lonely and sad feelings will make you more miserable, so simply close the floodgate of feelings and make yourself insensitive.
19. After continuous separation, what is left can be divided into two types: what is cherished at the beginning and what is left after recovery. This kind of thing, which was discovered only after returning to God, will convey a very profound message to us.
20. There is no need to eliminate this strangeness. If you can realize the reason that makes you feel strange, then you can unload the burden or understand it, so you won't add extra pressure.