Personality determines success or failure. Everyone has all kinds of emotions, such as happiness, love, disgust, hatred, beauty and so on. Emotion and emotion have different definitions in different times. Let's share a few examples of personality determining success or failure.

An Example of Personality Deciding Success or Failure 1 Personality Deciding Success or Failure-The Story of Zhibo

At the beginning, Ji Hui took Yao as the queen. Chi Guo said, "Night is not as good as night. Yao has five smart people, and so does the one who can't catch him. When you grow up, you will be smart. It is wise to shoot your feet. Giving skills is wisdom. If you are strong and decisive, you will be wise. If so, you are very unkind. Who can treat a heartless husband as a Five Immortals? If you stand up, Zhizong will be destroyed. " Listen, Zhiguo is not the same as Taishi, but an auxiliary family.

Zhixuanzi wanted to establish Zhiyao as his successor. When the people ruled the country, he heard about it and spoke out, but it failed.

Zhi said: "He has five advantages: tall and burly, good at riding and shooting, versatile, eloquent and resolute."

Volunteer countries said: "Although he has many advantages, he has a fatal shortcoming: he lacks the heart of benevolence and righteousness, and his moral quality is not as good as that of Xiao Zhi. He has talent but no virtue. I am afraid that Zhishi will be extinct because of his unkindness in the future. "

In the seventeenth year of Jin Dynasty, Zhi Bo divided the fields with Zhao, Han and Wei, and the Bank of China thought it was a city. Out of public anger, Su Qi and Lu, and want to cut SiQing and. Siqing was afraid, so he fought back and went out to work. If you close down, you will rush and die. Therefore, Zhi Bo's demotion of Zhao Gong's great-grandson to the Jin army is a loss of public service. At that time, the state of Jin ruled Zhi Bo.

When Zhi Bo ascended the throne, Zhao, Wei, Han and Zhi were all upright. The situation at that time was either evenly matched, or the strong rose and annexed the weak. Zhibo certainly lived up to expectations with his fortitude. In the third year of Jin Dynasty, Qi began to be cut. After the war, he defeated his opponent, but he also captured the doctor of Qi. In addition, in the seventh and eleventh years of Jin Dynasty, Zhi Bo fought Zheng twice. After many expeditions, Zhi Bo established the image of being brave and good at fighting, thus strengthening the influence of Zhishi.

However, after his death, in the seventeenth year of Jin Shi, Zhi Bo, Zhao Yang, Han Unbelief and Wei Yi carved up the hometown of Fan and BOC. It is recorded in The Warring States Policy on Zhao Ce that "knowing Bo, Han and Wei will cut down the norm, and the Bank of China will destroy it". It can be seen that Zhibo is the leading brother in this matter.

However, Jin was very angry about this and informed Qi and Lu that they would attack Zhi, Zhao, Han and Wei Siqing. Surprisingly, SiQing took the lead in beating Jin with him. As a result, Jin Gongchu fled to Qi and died on the road.

Zhi Bo seized this opportunity to support Zhao Gong's great-grandson Ji Jiao as the monarch of the State of Jin. From then on, the political affairs of the State of Jin were decided by Zhi Bo, which was a key step taken by Zhi Bo. The situation has also changed from the confrontation between the four major families to the dominance of the intellectual family. Gradually, Zhibo began to annex three ambitions.

However, at the beginning of his reign, Zhi Bo did show his great talent to the world, but because of this, he felt good about himself and became more arrogant after monopolizing power. On one occasion, Zhi Bo and Han Kang Zi and Wei were drinking and chatting in Lantai. During the dinner, after three cups, they made fun of Han Kang many times and humiliated Duan Gui, a short courtier of Han Kangzi.

Afterwards, the home secretary reminded him to pay attention to these details and treat others with courtesy, otherwise it would bring disaster to himself and his family in the future. As we all know, Zhibo said, "I am in charge, I am not embarrassed, who dares to make trouble!"

In addition, Zhi Bo and Zheng also fought. Although it didn't occupy Zheng in one fell swoop, it also gained a lot of materials. When they returned to the state of Jin to attend the celebration dinner, he pretended to be drunk and picked up a glass and threw it at Zhao Xiangzi. Zhao witnessed the humiliation of his master and wanted to fight to the death with Zhi Bo, so he had to fight for his master's breath.

Seeing this situation, Zhao Xiangzi stopped his retainer: "My father asked me to be the next generation head of household because I can stand it. Today, I am humiliated, and I will return it all sooner or later. "

Zhi Bo, a powerful man, saw that both Han and Zhao kept themselves at a respectful distance from each other. He intensified his efforts and demanded land from Zhao, Han and Wei in the name of the monarch of the State of Jin. However, Scott did not give it to him.

Therefore, Zhi Bo was furious, commanded the Han and Wei Dynasties, crusaded against Zhao, trapped him in Jinyang, and dug Fenshui to divert water to flood the city. Zhibo, Wei and Han Kang drove to observe the water potential. Who knows, Wei saw Han Kang's son and saw that he was about to be assigned to Zhao's land, but he was not happy at all, because they were all worried that his fate would be the same.

At this time, Zhi Bo's counselor remonstrated: "The kings of Korea and Wei will rebel." However, Zhi Bo foolishly conveyed this to Han Kangzi and Wei Huanzi. Of course, they denied it, but Zhibo believed it.

As the saying goes, the Han and Wei dynasties discussed attacking it. Hearing the news, Zhao Xiangzi also intends to join, so the three families agreed on the time to send troops. Zhao Xiangzi sent Alina Zhang to talk about leaving the city. He killed the soldiers guarding the river bank, dug up the river bank and led the flood to Zhibo's barracks. The barracks in Zhibo were in a mess to avoid the flood. At this point, the Korean and Wei armies attacked from the flank, and also led the army to take the lead, defeated Zhi Bo's army, and captured and killed Zhi Bo.

"Three points in the field of wisdom. Zhao Xiangzi painted Zhi Bo's head as a drinking vessel. "

In a very short period of time, Zhi Bo, with his own talents, took it to the peak, once surpassing Korea, Zhao and Wei. Unfortunately, he is "talented without virtue" and "insatiable". As the saying goes, character determines fate. Although Zhi Bo had the talent to govern the country, he was arrogant but not introverted, politically ruthless, never persuaded, and blindly confident, which led to his demise.

Personality determines success or failure. Xiang Yu's typical Chu personality doomed him to be a handsome talent rather than an emperor.

First, Chu culture has a profound influence on the formation of Xiang Yu's character.

Xiang Yu was born in a noble family in Chu. Among the pre-Qin philosophers, Chu was once one of the five tyrants in the Spring and Autumn Period and seven heroes in the Warring States Period, and its national strength can be seen.

Chu, located in the Yangtze River valley, has absorbed the essence of the northern Central Plains culture and the southern Wuling barbarian culture, thus forming a unique Chu culture. Chu people have a strong national consciousness and martial spirit.

Strong and hardworking, brave and tenacious, and keeping promises, these Chu cultural characteristics have a far-reaching influence on the formation of Xiang Yu's character, which is vividly manifested in his behavior.

As we all know, regional and cultural differences have a very important influence on the formation of a person's personality. Xiang Yu, who was born in Chu, inherited the characteristics of Chu people, such as being brave and martial, patriotic and loyal to the monarch, and attaching importance to nostalgia.

Xiang Yu rose up and led 8,000 Jiangdong children across the river to the north. Afterwards, he was eager to seek hegemony and took Pengcheng as the capital, which showed that he attached importance to his hometown and had a strong local complex.

"Returning home without a full load is like walking at night." Although it shows Xiang Yu's short-sightedness in politics, it also shows Xiang Yu's homesickness complex of not wanting to leave his hometown.

Xiang Yu was surrounded by Gaixia, preferring to get blood on the Wujiang River rather than escape or surrender, showing a strong self-esteem that he had no face to face his elders in Jiangdong.

It is the general trend and the will of the people that Qin destroyed the six countries, but the Chu people were dissatisfied. Although Chu has three families, Qin will die.

As a powerful son of Chu, Xiang Yu hated Qin's guts. Later, he established the Chu Huaiwang and called on the Chu people to oppose the State of Qin. Julu annihilated Qin Jun's main force in one fell swoop in World War I, and immediately dug the Qin Mausoleum, killed Qin people and burned Qin Gong after capturing Xianyang, which reflected Xiang Yu's strong sense of revenge and his emotional attitude of hating Qin because of Chu's death.

Xiang Jia is a general, and his uncles Xiang Liang and Xiang Yan gave him a strict education. Xiang Liang taught him calligraphy, fencing and the art of war. Xiang Yu, on the other hand, thinks that "one book is enough to have a surname, and one sword is enough to have one enemy, but not enough to learn from ten thousand enemies." He also "knows a little about the art of war and refuses to compete for learning." It embodies Xiang Yu's young and unruly character.

Xiang Yan is a general of Chu. "He made a lot of contributions, loved his soldiers, and the Chu people pitied him." But who would have thought that this general Xiang, who was deeply loved by Chu people, finally died in the hands of Qin people.

After the incident, Xiang Yu repeatedly killed Chi, although it meant to retaliate against Xiang Yan, but it also showed that Xiang Yu was impulsive and didn't have much "brain" in using Chi to drop troops. He is still very immature politically and doesn't understand the truth that "it is better to defeat the enemy than to raise an army for a thousand days."

Xiang Yu was born in a family with strong hostility to Qin's destruction of Chu. After the demise of Chu, Xiang Yu apparently obeyed the rule of Qin, but in fact he actively planned an uprising to overthrow the regime of Qin.

Seeing the grand occasion of Qin Huang's trip to Huiji, he blurted out: "He can replace others", showing a strong desire to overthrow the State of Qin and seize power.

"More than eight feet long, people can lift the tripod and have talent, although Wuzhong children are also afraid of it." A generation of heroes have made their debut.

Second, success is also a character, and failure is also a character.

Like others, Xiang Yu's personality has changed with time, from youth to youth, from hating Qin after Chu's death to being arrogant after hegemony, from low-key tolerance when he fell from his family to unyielding loyalty by the Wujiang River.

Influenced by Chu culture, Xiang Yu's personality characteristics can be summarized as follows:

(A) tough and brave, headstrong

The most obvious characteristics of Xiang Yu's personality are tenacity, bravery and power. Xiang Yu, who was born under the door, was in the battle of the giant deer;

"I learned that the soldiers who crossed the river sank, broke the kettle and ladle, burned the house, and held three rations to show that the foot soldiers would die ... In the ninth battle, the Chu soldiers were princes."

This fully shows the tough nature of the Chu people. Sima Qian commented on Xiang Yu:

"For three years, I annihilated five princes, divided the world and sealed them. The government was crowned overlord. Although the position has not ended, there has been no such thing in recent times. "

Xiang Yu's strength, boldness and tenacity showed his heroic qualities, which led to his victory.

Xiang Yu's behavior won him high prestige, and it was precisely because of his bravery that he created his arrogant character. For Sun Tzu's art of war, "I know a little about it and refuse to participate." In terms of employing people, he is willful and does not listen to any opinions.

A person's ability is limited. A successful leader should be good at receiving guidance, brainstorming and following good aspects.

Xiang Yu's stubbornness and short-sightedness are the important reasons for his failure. Although Liu Bang is not as brave as Xiang Yu, Xiang Yu only has "the courage of men and the kindness of women."

Making mistakes in politics, chasing the righteous emperor, burning Qin Gong, sealing Zhang Han and other measures are unpopular. Han Sheng suggested that he make his capital in Guanzhong, but instead of being adopted, he was cooked and killed. Fan Zeng advised him to attack Xingyang, but he was suspected of adultery with Liu Bang.

In the end, Xiang Yu became a "loner" and a "one-man army".

(2) Cruel and murderous, superstitious about force.

In Qin Chu War, the Qin soldiers burned, killed and looted, which led to Xiang Yu's demotion from aristocratic children to conquered people. His hatred for the Qin regime was innate. After the uprising, he often burned, killed and looted, with a strong color of revenge.

If you attack Xiangcheng, "if you have pulled it out, you will be trapped."

Take Xianyang, "Kill Qin and surrender, burn Qin Gong, and the fire will not go out in March."

Xiang Yu's cruelty and killing were used by his opponent Liu Bang, accusing him of killing innocent people and calling on all heroes to attack Chu together. "I am willing to attack Chu from the princes."

Xiang Yu's killing allowed his opponent to find a reason against imposing himself at the height of morality and public opinion.

Example 3: Personality determines success or failure. There is a famous saying in the United States West Point Military Academy: "Attitude determines everything."

Nothing can't be done well, the key is your attitude. When something has not yet started, you think it can't be successful, then it will definitely not be successful, or if you don't take it seriously, then things will not have a good result. Yes, it all comes down to attitude. How much you pay for things and what attitude you take towards things will have what kind of results.

Three workers are building a wall. A nosy man came up and asked, "What are you doing?" The first worker said indifferently, "Didn't you see it? I am building a wall. "

The second worker looked up at the busybody and said, "We are building a building." The third worker said sincerely and confidently, "We are building a city."

Ten years later, the first man built a wall on another construction site; The second man sat in the office drawing drawings, and he became an engineer. The third person became the president of a real estate company and the boss of the first two people. Attitude determines height. In just ten years, the fate of three people has completely changed. What caused this result? It's attitude! What kind of mentality a person has, what kind of pursuit and goal he will have.

People with a positive and optimistic attitude must have lofty goals in life; If you have a lofty goal, you will certainly work hard for it. Hard work pays off.

The first worker always complains about the unfairness of life. He is depressed and thinking. He is full of resentment when answering other people's questions. The second worker has a better mentality than the first worker. Although he is also building a wall, he regards this wall as a building and thinks about how to build it better.

The third worker has the best mentality, works so hard, and is so confident and focused. The most precious thing for a person is the word "earnest". It is not surprising that the third worker took such a small matter as a big undertaking and became the boss ten years later.

Look around us again. How many people can really take their jobs seriously? Impetuous, complaining, this mountain looks at that mountain, causing some people to do nothing all their lives and accomplish nothing. In this industry, people who have made outstanding contributions in this field are conscientious, meticulous and optimistic.

Mentality affects people's view of things. For example, when two thirsty people are faced with half a glass of water, the pessimist will say, "Unfortunately, there is only half a glass of water."

Optimists will say, "Great, there is still half a glass of water!" " "The reason for happiness is not the amount of water, but the attitude towards problems. Attitude can determine the height of a person's growth, and everything is the same for any job.

A person's attitude determines whether this work and this thing can be done more perfectly. At the same time, it also determines whether a person can take a higher position.

A business owner sent an e-invitation letter to another company manager, which was returned several times. The company manager asked his secretary what had happened.

The secretary didn't investigate the reason, just guessed that the mailbox might be full. But after a week, the manager still hasn't received the invitation letter from the company.

The manager asked the secretary again, but the secretary's answer was still full! As a result, the company lost its long-planned cooperation project with the enterprise. In a rage, the manager fired his secretary.

On the contrary, there was a secretary who applied for a foreign trade company after graduating from the self-taught undergraduate course. Her target is the manager's secretary.

However, the company arranged for her to be an office clerk, whose specific task was to send and receive faxes and copy documents. Although she hesitated a little, she finally threw herself into her work with a positive attitude, because she felt that such an opportunity was hard to come by, and it was a self-taught undergraduate course.

She works very hard, and she can finish everything her colleagues tell her in time and accurately, and never complains. Once, the manager took a contract and asked her to copy it. The manager said it was urgent and told her to hurry up. She habitually scanned the contract quickly and carefully.

When the manager urged her impatiently, she pointed out a mistake she had just discovered. After reading it, the manager broke out in a cold sweat. It turns out that there is an extra zero after a number.

Her correction saved millions of dollars for the company, and soon she was promoted to secretary of the manager. The same secretary, the former was dismissed and the latter was promoted. What is the reason? It's obviously an attitude problem.

As a secretary, the former doesn't clean the mailbox for a week. What kind of attitude is this? No boss can stand such a work attitude. The latter, on the other hand, no matter whether the work is ideal or not, she can take it seriously and pay attention to the details of her work, saving a lot of losses for the enterprise.

It is this sense of responsibility and this serious attitude towards work that determines that she can stand at a certain height and stand in a higher position. As the saying goes, where there is a will, there is a way.

Make up your mind to do anything, not afraid of hardship and fatigue. As long as you do it seriously, things will always have results. Maybe you won't succeed if you work hard, but you won't succeed if you don't work hard.

There is nothing wrong in the world, only people with bad attitudes. Do everything with a good attitude.

With a good attitude, you will show enthusiasm, passion and vitality for your work, others and yourself; With a good work attitude, you are not afraid of failure, even if you encounter setbacks, you are not discouraged, but full of courage to face life. Such a person will certainly, certainly achieve better results in his career and life, and be more likely to succeed than others. As the saying goes, character determines fate, and a good character is cultivated bit by bit by a good attitude.

How high your heart is, how high you can fly. If you think you can do it, you can. If you think you can't, then you can't. Success or failure is often between thoughts. Whether a person can succeed depends on his attitude towards his career.

The difference between successful people and unsuccessful people is that successful people always dominate and control their lives with the most positive thinking, the most optimistic spirit and the most brilliant experience. Losers are just the opposite. Their lives are guided and dominated by past failures and doubts.

Whether a person is happy or not depends on his treatment.