A gentleman’s heart can be big or small; a husband’s ambition can be bent or stretched. (Proverb)
The story of Deng Xiaoping’s several encounters
The story of King Goujian of Yue
Just check Baidu for specific examples
Be good at taking care of yourself, have a peaceful mind, use retreat to advance, and make a comeback
Example: Xie Anshi made a comeback, turned the tide and turned the tide
Example: Pang Juan fell into the trap to eliminate the trouble in an emergency, and avenged Sun Bin with his horse and mausoleum
p>Be good at self-cultivation, have a peaceful mind, use retreat to advance, and make a comeback
For example, the decline of the world is that the scholar-bureaucrats do not know what etiquette and justice are, and often know how to advance but not retreat, and how it changes, or~ . ★Qing Dynasty·Huang Zongxi's "Zi Liu Zixing Zhi Xing Part 1"