If we didn’t meet each other in this world, experience all kinds of things in this world, see through the prosperity of life, and finally pass by in a hurry, how could it be called life?

There are always too many unexplained emotions surging in the dark. Maybe you are still lamenting about life because of the teasing of colleagues at work, the betrayal of friends in life, the ridicule of classmates in study...all kinds of things. The gestures in life are vividly displayed, and you may be feeling sad about these.

Actually, all this is just because you haven’t understood that the world is so cold and human beings are so weak.

1. Indifference Only when people are down can they see clearly who is pouring cold water on them and who is worrying them all. A true friend is someone who waits for the dawn with you in the darkest time; a true relationship is someone who is willing to hold an umbrella for you when your heart is raining. ?From now on, find your position: speak sincere words to people who know you well; do worthy things to people who are worthy; use your heart 100% to those who value love. Each of us has weaknesses in our hearts. Perhaps we are forced to struggle and make mistakes due to the various helplessness in life. As everyone knows, the more you care, the more your weaknesses will be magnified. Others cannot see them, but you will always feel the pain. No one can please everyone, so just please yourself and the people you like. Everything you judge may be a projection of your own heart. Life is a process of constant acceptance and abandonment, a journey of facing cold eyes and ridicule and moving forward alone. In this life, don't worry about things. Everything can't go as planned, and everyone can't go as planned. No matter how kind you are, there are some who don't care about you; no matter how capable you are, there will be things that stump a hero. The bitterness and sweetness of coffee does not depend on how it is stirred, but whether sugar is added. The pain of a period of time does not lie in how you forget it, but in whether you have the courage to start over. Life is always a dilemma. No matter how persistent you are, no matter how unwilling you are, you have to learn to accept it in the end. From crying to control, to treating it with a smile, in the end, it is just a matter of taking things as they come. Don't think too much, everything will pass. There is a distance between thinking and getting. Without action, the so-called dream is just a fantasy. Only action is the best response to a mediocre life. If you want to be appreciated by others, appreciate others first; if you want to be humbled by others, humble others first. Because: life is mutual. The weakness of human nature is that we often see the shortcomings of others but fail to see our own shortcomings. However, everything in the world is mutual. How much you give to others will be how much people will repay you. There is a dilemma in the world: it is difficult to reach the sky, and it is even harder to ask for help. There are two kinds of suffering on earth: Coptis chinensis is bitter, and having no money is even harder. There are two dangers in the world: the world is dangerous, and the human heart is even more dangerous. There are two things in the world: spring cakes are thin, and human relationships are even thinner.

2. Take a dim view: Either others give you a slap in the face, or you give yourself a slap in the face, grind your teeth and toss and turn at night, and continue on your way during the day as if nothing happened. Life is often like this. Even if you encounter the greatest misfortune in the world, the prerequisite for solving all difficulties is to stay alive. Only when you are alive can you have hope. No matter how painful or sad, as long as you can work hard to live, everything will be fine. People in the world are in a panic just to break a few taels of silver, but these few taels of silver can relieve the sorrow of the world, make parents healthy, and protect the growth of young children. In this impetuous society, your kindness is like a piece of candy to others, it will be gone after you eat it. And your badness is like a scar, it will last forever. This is human nature. The so-called noble people are not people who directly bring you benefits, but people who recommend, introduce, broaden your horizons, correct your structure, and give you positive energy! No matter it is good or bad, don't let others know everything about your past. It is difficult for a person who has been seen through or found out about his family to achieve great achievements! A mediocre soul has no connotation worth understanding by others, so it will not feel true loneliness. On the contrary, a person who has a truly unique feeling about life and the world, and a truly original thought, must be eager to understand, but it must not be easily understood. The older I get, the more I understand: only say a few words to people when you meet them, and don’t give everything your heart. Being low-key is actually a kind of protection. You must know the situation and find your position. Being safe in a complex environment means you are safe. Don’t ask what you shouldn’t ask and don’t say what you shouldn’t say. Know how to observe words and emotions, and communicate with others with a sense of propriety. . There is no need to let everyone know the real you, or there is no need for you to keep telling people what kind of person I am. Because this is ineffective, people will still only want to see what they want to see.

3. Liangbo Chapter Sometimes what we need is not a bowl of chicken soup, but a slap. Some people appear in your life just to tell you: you are so easy to lie. Please don’t always look at the world from God’s perspective. You will find that the world is absurd and it is easy to fall into nihilism. This is not conducive to our integration into society. After all, humans are group animals. An enemy becomes a friend and is more reliable than a friend; a friend becomes an enemy and is more dangerous than an enemy. It’s good to know some things and there’s no need to say more. Some people are just as easy to get to know each other as there is no need to have deep friendships with them. I don't make promises lightly, so I live up to others. Promises should not be taken lightly, and my old friends will not let me down. People, don't promise forever, and don't make promises lightly. If you make a mistake, you can get back on your feet immediately; if you break a promise, you may never recover. When people leave, the tea becomes cold, which is a natural law; when people don’t leave, the tea becomes cold, which is a sign of the changing world. You told me that the most despicable thing in the world is emotion, and the coldest thing is the human heart.

But who is it? The kindness to me is always only in the heart, not in the eyes. They say human nature is kind, but I only see the ugliness of human nature. Don’t you mean people’s hearts are warm? But why do the people I see have such cold hearts? Many people feel that their efforts are not recognized by society. In fact, the life you live now is how society evaluates you. Growth is looking directly at human nature countless times and finally accepting it calmly. In the world, the most despicable thing is emotion, and the coldest thing is the human heart. If you pay a little more attention, you will find that many people break off the relationship quietly; you will realize that there are many things that there is no point in persisting until the end.