The TV series "Little Giving Up" starring Song Jia, Tong Dawei, and Jiang Xin is currently on the air. Teacher Zhong Yi, who had been dismissed twice, announced again that Nanli Tian Yulan hired him to provide independent guidance for Xia Huanhuan and Yan Ziyou. However, unexpectedly, Zhong Yi still maintained his teaching philosophy, which almost harmed Lele and to a certain extent, Mi Tao.

Nan Li and Xia Junshan worked hard to buy degree housing for their children, but in the end, the policy changed and Yade Middle School accepted students to look at their student status files instead of their household registration. Xia Huanhuan had no connection with Yade at all. If Xia Huanhuan can't get into Yade, Fengfan can't go back. If Xia Huanhuan can't get into a good junior high school based on her ability, she will have to fall into the comprehensive and be assigned to a worse school.

Nanli's life is not going well as her children face many difficulties in the entrance examination and she is dismissed from her job. Nan Li was severely hit by the fact that she was replaced as the sales director because her diploma was not as good as others, and it also completely subverted the teaching philosophy she had always believed in.

Nan Li gradually changed and became more and more like Tian Yulan, forcing Lele to spend all his time studying. A selective exam made Nan Li realize that if she wanted to go to Hanlin Middle School, Xia Huanhuan was still far away. The extracurricular training organization no longer has much practical value for Xia Huanhuan. Nanli learned from Mi Tao that Mi Tao had not given any selective lessons for a long time, but only studied by herself based on the textbooks recommended by Zhong Yi.

Nan Li put her expectations on Zhong Yi to improve Lele's academic performance. She and Tian Yulan found Zhong Yi at another training school and wanted to hire him to independently train Xia Huanhuan and Yan during the summer. Ziyou guides. Zhong Yi initially disagreed, but Nan Li said that only by helping children with general qualifications to improve their test scores can real talent and learning be reflected. They succeeded in convincing Zhong Yi to continue teaching small classes in the summer, but he asked Mi Tao to join for free.

Unexpectedly, Lele’s test scores did improve, but Nanli’s act of asking Zhong Yi for guidance almost harmed Lele, and almost changed her from an optimistic and helpful person. The good baby turned into a selfish and kingly bad boy. In addition, Lele's changes also hurt Mi Tao to a certain extent.

All this stems from the bad roots of parents and teachers - comparison. Since Lele and Mi Tao started tutoring together, Nan Li and Zhong Yi have been comparing Lele and Mi Tao from time to time. Mi Tao has good test scores. Zhong Yi keeps saying that Mi Tao is better than Lele. Nan Li is the same and keeps asking her to learn from Mi Tao. Under the double blow from parents and teachers, Lele became increasingly unhappy, and even felt that her mother liked Mi Tao more than she liked herself.

Lele gradually became jealous of Mi Tao, and her attitude towards her became increasingly unfavorable. Not only in Zhong Yi's tutoring institution, but also in school Lele ignored Mi Tao, and even encouraged his other friends to alienate Mi Tao. The two best friends who were originally close were increasingly unhappy, and even quarreled with each other over trivial matters.

Thanks to Teacher Zhang Xueer, she discovered Lele's squeeze on Mi Tao and immediately initiated communication. She gave Lele the "Little Host Extraordinary Performance Award" given to her by the TV station, and took the opportunity to praise her for her outgoing personality, talent, and like a little sun. Everyone around Lele would be praised. I feel this charm. Teacher Zhang's famous words relieved Lele's grudge and helped her restore her self-confidence.

In daily life, there are many parents like Nan Li and many teachers like Zhong Yi. They always subconsciously compare their two children and distinguish their height. They believe that constant comparison can help weaker children understand the differences between themselves and others and encourage them to work harder. However, in fact, the gains often outweigh the losses, and weaker children will develop unconfident and rebellious hearts due to too much comparison. Just like this, Nanli and Zhong Yi compared her with Mi Tao too much, almost harming her and turning her into an unconfident and extreme child.

As parents and teachers, you must not transfer your own anxiety to your children.

We should pay attention to the individual differences of children, educate them regularly, and praise them in time for every bit of their progress. Only in this way can children become more confident, and it can also allow them to have a stronger development tendency in the fields they are good at. What do you think?