How to cultivate one's speaking ability
First, look at first, look at your ignorance. "In ancient China, a person thought, his mouth will say it. What you said is what you just thought of; What I thought just now is what I want to say below. Want to talk, want to express, communicate with each other, go back and forth. Spoken language is different from written language. If you want to say it, you can say it if you want, which determines that the speaker should be resourceful and flexible, thoughtful, and think twice before you act. "A gentleman is quick-witted." This is one of Dorsey's requirements. The second requirement of thinking more is to think calmly at all times and repeatedly analyze why some people's speeches are very popular, philosophical, deep and broad, which makes people very moved and benefit a lot; Why do some people talk dull, rambling, uninspiring and even aggressive? People who think more can realize the truth and gain lessons from it. Sixth, learn more 1 and learn more knowledge. British philosopher and politician Bacon said: "Knowledge is power. Gorky, a great writer of the former Soviet Union, once said, "People armed with knowledge are invincible. The more a person knows, the stronger he is. " "So, learning more knowledge is the premise of improving the level of eloquence and speech. Because knowledge is the basis of eloquence, without knowledge, there is definitely no eloquence. "If you don't accumulate steps, you will get thousands of miles; If you don't accumulate small streams, you can't become rivers and seas. " If you want to give someone a glass of water, you should have a bucket of water, but not half a bucket. Those who have little knowledge, little ink in their chests, little knowledge and no skills are not eloquent at all; When you speak, you either talk nonsense or make a fool of yourself. 2. Learn more speech skills. A person who dares to speak and can speak is not equal to being eloquent. Just like people who can ride bicycles are not art, only acrobatic performers can call it art. Speech is a comprehensive art, and it is not easy to really master this art. It contains many skills, such as clear pronunciation and mellow voice, body movements, facial expressions and musical instrument etiquette, methods of controlling venues and improvising, improvisation skills, the art of debate, wonderful dialogue methods and so on. All these require us to systematically learn and apply the skills of speaking from theory to practice. Remember more than seven 1, and remember a hundred famous sayings and aphorisms. Poetry has poetic eyes, books have book souls, and words have artistic conception. A poem with a couplet can be called a good poem; A book with famous sayings is worth reading; Similarly, if there is a philosophical quote in the speech, it will benefit the audience and be unforgettable. Because no matter how unconventional or extraordinary the views expounded by the speaker are, they have actually been discussed by celebrities in history more or less. Famous sayings always shine with wisdom, and the influence of celebrities is eternal. Therefore, the speaker should grasp the deep psychology of the audience, appropriately quote philosophical quotes or statements from authoritative sources, let them serve the demonstration of his theoretical views, and strengthen the persuasiveness of his speech. 2. Remember one hundred poems and songs. Speakers should read more poems and songs and remember more poems in their minds. As the saying goes, you can recite 300 Tang poems by heart even if you can't recite them. In speech and daily life, properly quoting some poems and songs can not only produce beautiful artistic conception, but also improve the literary taste and artistic charm of the speaker. 3. Remember 100 touching stories, ancient and modern, Chinese and foreign. The purpose of a speech is to explain and encourage, that is to say, a speech should not only convince people with reason, but also impress them with emotion. The basis of the best speech effect is that the audience is first moved by the content of the speech, and then the audience unconsciously accepts the speaker's thoughts and opinions in the "narrative discussion". If you only tell some empty and unconvincing "big truths", it is impossible to enhance the credibility and appeal of the speech. 4. Remember a hundred humorous jokes. Generally speaking, the audience is eager to hear a relaxed and interesting speech. That kind of speech with too serious tone and too monotonous content is hard to get the praise of the audience. Therefore, being good at interspersed with anecdotes, anecdotes, humor, jokes and other aspects in the speech process can make the views of the speech vivid and deepen the audience's understanding and memory of the views; It can also enhance the communication between the speaker and the audience, mobilize the atmosphere of the speech, strengthen the on-site effect, eliminate the pressure of the audience, invigorate the spirit of the audience, and make the audience focus on the speech itself; At the same time, it can bring joy to the audience, make the venue full of laughter and make the audience like and trust the speaker more. The skills of practicing speech and eloquence are not innate or self-taught. Like other talents, eloquence comes from hard study and hard practice. "The blade comes from sharpening, and the plum blossom fragrance comes from bitter cold." All eloquent speakers, eloquent speakers and eloquent communicators at all times and all over the world are not born, but are made by self-confidence, courage, hard work and exercise on the basis of hard work and hard practice the day after tomorrow. In a word, I think the first task of our university is to study hard so that we can be confident when looking for a job in the future. In other spare time, we can choose how to exercise our ability, learn how to survive in this society, and learn how to make our life smoother. There are many places worth exploring and learning. There are always rules in a person's life. When we master these laws slowly, life will become beautiful and full. I believe that with such efforts, we will certainly go better and smoother on the road to university.