vanity will be manifested in boasting, showing off, over-performance, and over-comparison, and it is often swollen and fat.
People with strong vanity will constantly make excuses for their mistakes.
Attitude:
1. Establish a correct outlook on life.
2. realize the harm of vanity.
3. Don't compare with others too much.
4. live for yourself, not for the evaluation of others.
5. Win honor and recognition in the right way. The "honor" won by improper means is false, so it will not be respected by others and will be despised by others.
6. Be self-aware. We should not only see our own advantages, but also realize our own shortcomings. It is not a good thing to overestimate yourself and underestimate yourself. We should have a stable self-awareness.
Methods:
Expand the pattern and cognition.
strengthen self-cultivation.
spend your time on valuable things, such as doing public welfare and animal protection, studying Chinese medicine and psychology.
have a correct attitude towards honor, gain and loss, status and face.
learn from good social role models.
divert your attention and do something that interests you.
Children's education:
1. Don't always meet children's unreasonable demands.
If children make rude requests, they should resolutely refuse, and parents' attitudes should be consistent; Every wayward attitude towards children should be solved with the same attitude. Instead of sometimes restricting children and sometimes indulging them, they are at a loss.
2. Parents should establish behavior rules for their children.
3. Tell children that vanity should be the driving force.
4. don't show off your wealth in front of your children. Tell the children that the money they spend now belongs to their parents. If they want to meet their needs, they have to make their own efforts instead of showing off with their parents' money.
5. Get in touch with simple and low-key children.
6. Let children do more meaningful things and learn to care about others and small animals instead of being self-centered.