Refueling Station for Interpersonal Relationships

1. Don’t get familiar with others too quickly. Maintain superficial friendliness, and you will slowly discover their true nature.

2. In interpersonal interactions, people will constantly test your bottom line.

3. If someone offends you by verbally attacking you, you should fight back on the spot. Otherwise, he will repeat his old tricks next time without any psychological pressure.

4. When you meet someone, you should only say a few words, but don’t give up everything.

5. Be obedient and listen carefully. What he says is often not what he really wants to express.

6. Look with your heart, don’t just believe what you see with your eyes. Never judge a person by what he says, but by what he does.

7. Quarrel can best reveal the essence of a person. His temperament, tolerance, thinking, vision and values, etc., can all be revealed in the process of quarrel.

8. People who are willing to explain their interests clearly to you from the beginning are worthy of trust.

9. The qualities a person strives to show in front of others are basically all disguised. A true gentleman moisturizes things quietly.

10. No friend will wish you well wholeheartedly, especially when their lives are not going as they want.

11. Correctly understand those "praises" and don't take them to heart. The motives behind obedient words are more worthy of your attention. Some people praise you just to confuse you.

12. People who like to compare with others are often unhappy. Because there are always people who are more beautiful/handsome than you and there are always people who have more money/power than you. There is no end to comparison.