When you encounter difficulties, you think about the meaning of life, or you are not brave enough to face reality
"The edge of a sword comes from sharpening, and the fragrance of plum blossoms comes from the bitter cold." Failure and diligence are inextricably linked.
Diligence is not something you are born with, but something you develop yourself. There are many reasons for diligence, some are ambitions and beliefs, and some are diligent due to some reason or frustration in something. However, as long as you work hard, success will be inevitable.
However, to be successful, it is not enough to have ideals and ambitions. You must also have the determination to succeed, coupled with specific actions to support you to the end. Only by making up your mind and going through practical actions such as learning, struggle, and growth can you be qualified to pick the sweet fruits of success.
As Hua Luogeng said: "Diligence can make up for one's weakness, which is a good lesson. Every minute of hard work is worth a minute of talent." Diligence can eventually overcome temporary failures and setbacks, and finally achieve success.
If dreams are the starting line for success and determination is the gunshot at the start, then diligence is like a Mercedes Benz that starts with all its strength. Only those who persist until the last second can win the championship of success!
Madame Curie said that no matter what difficulties we face, we will never give in; Napoleon believed that the most difficult time is when we are not far from success; in Darwin's heart, perseverance is the key to victory. The only way... - Inscription
The difficulties in the eyes of celebrities are so small and so inspiring. These words inspired me in the third grade of junior high school. Let me also try to do this. In the attempt, I really experienced another taste of diligence.
I remember that I participated in the composition competition for the first time at the beginning of the third year of junior high school. "Am I really capable of participating?" This sentence echoed in my heart again and again, and I was in self-doubt. He gave me the power of self-confidence and told me that diligence will improve my abilities and that hope blooms in diligence. This sentence inspired me to start the challenge of this competition.
The draft of the essay has been written, but with my strength it is impossible to write it in one go. It requires countless revisions. It means spending more energy and more time revising the written composition repeatedly than others. So I tried to revise it over and over again as much as possible, but I became numb during the subsequent revisions and could no longer feel anything. Dad then told me how to modify it after a while.
According to my father's suggestion, I will go to the computer to look at my composition after a while. If there is anything wrong, I will revise it immediately. I am afraid that the Chinese teacher will "shoot" my composition and make me lose it. opportunity to participate. After a period of revision, when I read the essay again, I felt like I was appreciating a masterpiece and began to appreciate it carefully. Although my composition was not as brilliant as others, I did not give up and always encouraged myself to work hard and work hard.
I am confident and hardworking and will not miss even the last moment.
That morning was the time to hand in the essay. I got up early and revised the essay for the last time. After a while, when the Chinese teacher told me the results of the competition, I knew that my efforts were not in vain - I won the second prize.
This incident made me understand: it is a good lesson to make up for one's shortcomings through diligence, and every minute of hard work equals talent.
amp;uot;How many times can we fight in life? &uot;My life is full of competition. I am proud of my hard work, and I am extremely happy for my success! I believe countless opportunities and challenges are waiting for me.
Time flies and challenges continue, but my diligence and enthusiasm will not diminish. I want to make the light of youth shine brighter. Two years later, this month will be the month of our college entrance examination, and high scores have naturally become the goal of hard work. I once said: "Success is not a race, but a journey step by step." With my current scores, I am far from reaching the ideal school. This is another competition for me.
The so-called victory in a roundabout way means that the goal remains the same but the method changes. Fourth, keep up the good work and persevere. When you encounter setbacks, keep moving forward. Your stated goal remains the same and your efforts double. Fifth, adapt to the situation and be flexible. If the original goal that is too high cannot be achieved for a while, it can be replaced with a goal that is easier to achieve. This is also a way of adapting. Sixth, look for the reasons and clarify your thinking. When you are frustrated, first calm down and find out the possible reasons, and then look for ways to solve the problem. Seventh, transfer emotions and seek sublimation. You can adjust your emotions and sublimate your emotions through your favorite methods such as stamp collecting, writing, calligraphy, art, music, dance, and physical exercise. Eighth, learn to vent and get rid of stress. Different people have different attitudes when facing setbacks. Some people are melancholy, and some are hesitant. At this time, you might as well find one or two people close to you, people who understand you, and pour out all the words in your heart. From a mental health perspective, catharsis can eliminate the mental pressure caused by frustration and reduce mental fatigue; at the same time, catharsis is also a self-psychological rescue measure, which can dilute and alleviate bad emotions. Ninth, seek psychological help when necessary. When people encounter setbacks and are at a loss, they may wish to turn to psychological institutions for help. The psychology will move you emotionally, understand you rationally, guide you into action, and follow the guidance well, so that you can move from the dilemma of "there is no way out" to the realm of "a village with dark flowers and bright flowers". Tenth, learn to be humorous and laugh at yourself. "Humor" and "self-deprecation" are good ways to vent frustration, balance your mentality, and be happy. When you suffer setbacks, you may wish to use A's spiritual victory methods, such as "Suffering a loss is a blessing", "Loss is a blessing", "Loss is a blessing", "Loss is a gain", etc. to adjust your unbalanced psychology. Or "it's rare to be confused", treat setbacks calmly, and use humor to adjust your mentality. In life, it is impossible to be happy and everything goes as planned. To be able to be as humble as a valley, as wise as a fool, and to maintain a calm and peaceful state of mind in the face of setbacks is to fully understand the magnanimity of life. If a person wants to maintain a healthy state of mind, he needs to sublimate his spirit, practice morality, accumulate energy, and be funny and optimistic. As the saying goes: "A good mood can relieve physical fatigue and pain better than ten pairs of good medicines." Beyond the Limit
Mencius said: "When heaven is about to assign a great responsibility to a man, he must first suffer. His mind and will strain his muscles and bones, starve his body, deplete his body, and confuse his actions. Therefore, if the mind is moved, it will benefit what it cannot do. "It can be seen that if you want to achieve something great, you must dare to go beyond the limit.
Helen Keller was hailed by Mark Twain as one of the two greatest people of the 19th century. She lost her vision and hearing due to a serious illness when she was a child, but she did not bow to fate and challenged the limits of life. She learned English (bar), German, Greek, Latin and other languages, and finally passed the test with excellent results. Admitted to Harvard University. She used her personal experience to tell us that we must dare to overcome the difficulties and obstacles in life and forge our own way through all obstacles.
"The edge of a sword comes from sharpening, and the fragrance of plum blossoms comes from the bitter cold." The more difficult the desperate situation, the more it can promote people to realize their potential and surpass seemingly unconquerable limits. The Long March of the Red Army is hailed as a miracle in today's world. During the long journey of 25,000 miles, the Red Army soldiers suffered from the loneliness of "the war continued for three months, and letters from home are worth ten thousand gold", challenging the limits of loyalty and filial piety; climbing snow-capped mountains, Crossing the grassland, suffering from hunger and cold, the Red Army soldiers challenged their physical limits in order to liberate the disaster-stricken nation. It is precisely because of many transcendences like the spirit of the Red Army's Long March that we can continue to climb and progress.
The Wenchuan earthquake that just passed has given us a lot of thoughts about the limits of life. The most memorable words he said: “As long as there is a glimmer of hope, we will never give up.
"The armed police officers and soldiers, regardless of their own safety, worked hard to save people in the aftershocks that may come at any time, showing their infinite loyalty to their mission and; the medical workers rescued the victims day and night, giving the maximum interpretation of "saving lives and healing the wounded"; we usually It is always said that maternal love is great. During the earthquake, the mother who used her body to protect her children once again interpreted the great realm of maternal love with her actions, breaking through the limits of love; after exceeding the 72-hour survival limit, there are still many victims Being saved is not only a miracle of life, but also a tenacious crossing of the limits of life and death. Just imagine, human beings can even cross the limits of life and death, what are the "limits" that we cannot surpass?
Ji. The Nice record can be said to be a test of the limit, but as time goes by, the record is constantly broken and updated, showing that limit is just a time-sensitive word, just like in that experiment, the bucket seemed to be filled with rocks. However, it can be "full" of sand or even "full" of water. I agree with the student's point of view, "Many things seem to have reached the limit, but in fact there is still a lot of room."
Perhaps now we do not have the spirit of "sacrifice one's life in a national disaster, and regard one's death as a sudden return", the mind of "no one has ever died since ancient times, leaving a loyal heart to illuminate the history", and the mind of "I am alone in the world when everything is dirty, and everyone is drunk on me" The wisdom of "being alone", but as long as we have ideals, courage and perseverance in our hearts, we will be able to surpass our own limits and create all possibilities! We would like to thank our opponents
On July 3 of this year, the International Olympic Committee At the first plenary meeting of the conference, it defeated Toronto, Osaka, Paris, and Istanbul and won the right to host the 29th conference. The whole country cheered, but the host Shui Junyi said something unforgettable:&uot; ; We would like to thank our opponents. amp; uot;
Yes, it is precisely with a strong opponent like Toronto that we have a sense of urgency and pressure, which makes our bid work more solid and more effective. Detailed and more perfect. Such opponents can make China stronger and more prestigious in the world. In this sense, we do have to thank our opponents.
The world is full of competition, and there is no competition. No, there will be opponents all the time. Only when there are opponents can we have the idea of ??defeating them and becoming the strongest. Survival of the fittest, this is competition, and this is the fundamental reason for defeating opponents.
There is a story in "Animal Protection": In the National Forest Park of Peru, there lives a young jaguar that is on the verge of extinction in the world. In order to protect this tiger, the Peruvians specially set up a special place in the park. A nearly 20 square kilometers of forest has been opened up as a tiger park, and luxurious tigers have been carefully designed and built so that they can live freely. The tiger park has dense trees, green grass, crisscrossed ravines, gurgling water, and artificial breeding. Everyone who has visited the tiger park says that it is a paradise for jaguars to live in. However, what is strange is that no one has ever seen a jaguar. It is specially captured for its live food, and no one has ever seen its kingly demeanor. It just drooped its head, slept, ate, ate and slept, looking listless and bear-like. So, through diplomatic channels, a tigress was rented from Colombia to keep it company, but the result remained the same. One day, a zoologist came to visit the park and saw the lazy look of the jaguar. He said to him that the tiger is the king of the forest. In the environment in which it lives, it cannot be left alone all day just to eat. For animals that are grassy but do not know how to hunt, some hunting animals must be allowed to coexist with them, otherwise the jaguar will not be able to cheer up anyway. After listening to the zoologist's words, several jaguars were soon introduced and released into the tiger park. This trick really worked. From the day the jaguar entered the park, the jaguar could no longer lie down. Every day it either stood on the top of a high mountain and roared angrily, or swooped down the mountain like a hurricane. The tiger's strong, powerful and domineering nature was reawakened. It became a real tiger again, the real king of the forest in this vast tiger park.
In the northern United States, people hunted wolves in order to enjoy life with deer. As a result, the deer's physique became weaker and weaker, and their vitality gradually decreased. Later, wolves were introduced among the deer. The wolf is the rival of the deer. The deer escaped when it was being hunted. Later, it understood that only by running faster could it avoid being eaten by the wolf. The next result was that it kept running, surpassed itself, and multiplied bravely, and its physique and vitality became stronger and stronger from generation to generation. The same goes for the wolf, which runs and runs in order to chase down the faster deer, and its descendants become more powerful opponents than the deer's descendants.
If an animal has no rivals, it will become lifeless; if a person has no rivals, he will settle for mediocrity, develop inertia, and eventually lead to mediocrity; if an individual has no rivals, he will become lifeless. They will lose their vitality and vitality due to mutual dependence or subtle influence; if a political system has no opponents, it will gradually move towards slackness and even decline; if an industry has no opponents, it will lose the will to make progress and will become content with nothing. status quo and gradually decline. The jaguar regained its lost prestige because it had an opponent like the jaguar; the deer maintained its life for a long time because it had an opponent like the wolf. Only with opponents can you have a sense of crisis and competitiveness; only with opponents can you know the challenges and pressures you face; with opponents can you have all the strength and courage to surpass yourself; with opponents can you You have to work hard, make innovations, and forge ahead. Otherwise, all that is waiting for you is to be annexed, replaced, and eliminated.
In real life, many people regard their opponents as a serious problem, an enemy, a dissident, a thorn in their side, and a thorn in their flesh, and they want to get rid of them immediately. In fact, if you think about it carefully, you will find that having a strong opponent is a blessing, a blessing, a strength, a shot in the arm, a propeller, an afterburner, and a warning. whip. Because a strong opponent will make you feel like you are in danger at all times, will inspire you to have a stronger spirit and fighting spirit, will make you overcome all difficulties and overcome all difficulties and obstacles, and will make you find ways to surpass and win.
Because of this, we want to say: Thank you - opponent! Twists and turns can accelerate the maturity of a person's will; ups and downs can temper a person's personality maturity; setbacks can cultivate a person's character maturity. Never give up...
Under the call of spring, the bamboo shoots worked hard to break through the obstacles of layers of soil, and finally achieved the greenness of life; the stream braved the call of the sea and crossed thousands of mountains. The barrier of thousands of waters finally creates the soul of the sea; the fine sand, attracted by the shells, is persistently wrapped in the white mucus secreted by the shells, and finally takes on the charm of pearls. Because bamboo shoots, streams, and fine sand all know this truth: persistence yesterday is called a foothold; persistence today is called progress; persistence tomorrow is called success.
Everyone has ideals, but not everyone can realize their ideals; everyone lives in reality, but not everyone can correctly understand their environment. As a result, some people spread their wings and flew to the ideal sky, while some people stopped where they were.
Perhaps life is really unfair. Some people are born to be such high-profile stars, while others are so ordinary and stay in the corner. If you think so. Friend, then you are wrong. God gives everyone the same amount. The key is whether you have discovered it or not. People have thinking, wisdom, the courage to overcome everything, and the drive to persevere and never give up... Isn't this wealth enough for us to cherish and take seriously? Helen Keller was blind in both eyes and deaf in both ears, but she worked hard to transform from a sympathetic and unknown little girl into a strong woman respected by the world. If life is really unfair, then life is extremely unfair to her. She could give up her dream and hide in a dark corner and cry loudly, and no one would blame her. She could also lie in bed or sit in a wheelchair and be cared for like a vegetable.
But she didn't do any of this. She just struggled to learn Braille with the help of the teacher and touch things, relying only on her never-give-up belief and perseverance. She painted her ideal sky with the brightest colors in life.
Some people say: Misfortune is the best teacher in life. So, the unfortunate Helen Keller stood up; the unfortunate Beethoven played "Symphony of Life"; the unfortunate Xie Yanhong crossed the Qiongzhou Strait and England; the unfortunate Hawking performed "A Brief History of Time" ...
Anyone can dream; dreams are completely achievable. If you are still sad because of the unfairness of life on the surface, if you are still sighing because of the setbacks in your progress, if you are still holding back because of rumors...then, my friend, your dreams may always remain just dreams. . Because you are not grounded in reality, we are not surprised that your dream failed to become a reality, it was all expected. Therefore, please cherish every bit of life, be kind to everything in life, never give up and work hard for your ideals.
The reality is cruel, and competition in society will become increasingly fierce in the future. However, life gives us the same amount. Face reality, and never give up for your ideal, we can realize our dreams step by step; face reality, and never give up for your future, we are fully capable of finding the airspace we yearn for; face reality, Never give up for your success, we can definitely embrace glory. Because we know that as long as we persist - never give up. Our tomorrow will be full of sunshine and the joy of success. Because we all know: persistence yesterday is called a foothold; persistence today is called progress; persistence is called success tomorrow. Century Wealth
When I was a child, I lived in a building and loved standing in front of the window and "gazing at the scenery." But because I am small, I can only move a stool and climb up to see it. Every time I climb a stool, I think how great it would be to grow up and be able to see outside without having to move a stool.
To this day, this wish is no longer enough for humanity. I can’t remember the “scenery” I saw, but I will never forget the time when I moved the stool happily. I will never forget it. I can’t forget the joy and excitement when I jumped on the stool.
As is often the case, the process leaves a more profound impression than the result. In the TV series "Wealth of the World", a young man has been struggling for more than ten years and achieved nothing, but with the saying "the emphasis is on the process", he mustered up the courage to pursue wealth again and again. His behavior really touched me.
Yes, if you have experienced it and pursued it, it is happiness and the wealth of life.
Everyone is pursuing their own wealth, but not everyone can correctly understand wealth and succeed. At the turn of the new and old centuries, the status of money in people's minds is no longer so absolute. According to a survey in Australia, the ranking of wealth in people's minds is health, higher education, family, and money. It can be seen that "people" are at the center, and it is people who create and pursue wealth. If the ultimate success is tempting, then the process of creation and pursuit is a precious asset. No matter what the result is, the pursuit itself is a kind of happiness; no matter how difficult or even painful the pursuit is, it will still become the most precious wealth in life. If you are suffering, then please be grateful for the gift of fate, because it will train your body and will to never fall. Don't think that success is out of reach, always maintain a state of active pursuit, and you will always be with success.
If success and wealth can be used to show off to oneself, then the experience of struggle and pursuit as a kind of wealth not only belongs to the individual, but also a kind of promotion of social development and social progress. a kind of dedication. Whether it is a celebrity or an ordinary individual’s struggle practice, it will have a certain impact on social history more or less, directly or indirectly. At the same time, the existence and development of any society are the result of individual and collective efforts. There is such a dialectical and unified relationship between people and society. People, as members of society, must have a spirit of dedication. This spirit of dedication is also reflected in the process of continuous pursuit of struggle.
Dedication is not only a virtue, but also a quality and a state. How many enthusiastic young people in the "Yangtze River Plan" gave up their million-dollar income abroad and returned to China to become "distinguished professors worth 100,000 yuan" in order to get rewards. Science has no borders, but scientists have their own nationality. Only by serving their country can they really raise their heads and devote themselves wholeheartedly. This is their greatest wealth and the greatest wealth of a country.
Li Ka-shing, a wealthy Chinese man, continues to invest huge sums of money in public welfare undertakings. He believes that serving society and serving is the proper and best destination for his wealth; he is an investment wizard and his personal assets rank among the best in the world. Buffett, who is at the forefront, said to his children: "Want to live the life of a super rich? Don't count on your dad!" He established the Buffett Foundation and mobilized his friends to donate their property back to society. We should be proud of such social elites who are at the forefront of the world. What they pursue is not money, but their ability to contribute to society. Their words and deeds indicate that the outlook on wealth and values ??in the 21st century will be new and higher-level.
In fact, it’s not just them, there are simply too many such stories in the world. Only 3 hours after the little boy Liangliang died suddenly in a car accident, his parents made the decision to donate their organs. The corneas were removed and the two blind patients regained their sight. Since then, two more healthy lives have been added to the world. What a noble family this is! They explained the meaning of dedication so directly, thoroughly and touchingly.
Who can say that this is not the most precious wealth in the world?
As to what wealth is in this world, there has never been a final answer. Perhaps the wealth itself is not important, but the process of pursuit and selfless dedication are important. If you encounter difficulties, do you face the reality or avoid it?
Some problems require facing reality, while others are better avoided. The meaning of life lies in thinking about the meaning of life, right?
The meaning of life lies in thinking, yes, but what is the meaning of life? I don’t have the courage to face reality. Please help me. How can I have the courage to face reality?
In fact, you don’t want to face reality, but reality will come eventually. When you really face reality, you have no chance to choose not to face reality, and at this time you will face reality, because you There is no choice not to face reality, so when you don't really face reality, you should think about how to solve real things; instead of escaping from reality, because you can't escape, how can you muster the courage to face reality?
What is the reality that needs to be faced? If I can't change, what else can you do if you just hold me? The soldiers will block it, and the water will cover it with earth. When you need to face it, don't let your legs weaken. Think about it, you are upright!
Face the reality that life is rare
There is a time in life, and there is no time in life. Don’t force it... As long as everything passes, be indifferent to gains and losses, and just try your best. Read more four books The Five Classics, understand how to take life lightly. In addition, I hope you can find your own faith, which will bring endless strength to your future life. At least there won't be such confusion anymore. Why can others face real difficulties but I am afraid of facing real difficulties and choose to escape from reality
Just like you, it’s just that I am like this because of laziness. When there is a problem, my first thought is not to solve it. , the second reason is that I am afraid that I can’t solve it, I don’t dare to face the reality, and I don’t have the courage to face the reality? What should we do to face reality?
You still have your own future, so you shouldn’t be so pessimistic; how can you not be confident in yourself for the rest of your life! We may have encountered many setbacks in real life, but we need to face reality bravely. There is no use in escaping, it will only make us less confident. Why should we think about the meaning of life?
As a person, we need goals to support ourselves in moving forward. This is the direction of life. Survive, discover ourselves, achieve ourselves, reflect our own value and find the meaning of our existence. People need to think first and then act, so thinking about life is equivalent to planning our life and regulating our behavior!