"If you read more books, you will have knowledge, and if you have knowledge, you will have a vision!" This is what grandpa often uses to educate his mother and sisters. Grandpa is a primary school teacher, so he attaches great importance to learning. Mom, they lived in a remote valley when they were children. The locals don't attach importance to reading at all. When I graduated from primary school, there were only three children at my mother's level. Because they have to stay in middle school, their mother is the only one who finally goes to middle school. Every Monday, grandpa has to get up early and walk for more than an hour to take his mother to the bus stop, and he has to pick her up at the bus stop on Saturday. My mother always said that she could keep studying because of my grandfather's support. Otherwise, she would have been farming in the ravine like a childhood friend!
Knowledge changes fate, which is embodied in Mother. Under the correct guidance of my grandfather, my mother realized the importance of knowledge and formed a good habit of studying hard and studying hard. As far as I can remember, my mother always kept studying and took various exams. When she has nothing to do, she always keeps reading. Later, unconsciously, her habits also affected me.
When I was a child, my parents bought me many story books. Every night before going to bed, they began to tell me stories, telling them many times, and I could almost recite a story book from beginning to end. When guests come to my home, I will tell them stories with my story book. In fact, all my books are upside down, which makes a lot of jokes.
Slowly I grew up and began to read by myself. So I followed my mother's example. When I have something to do, I always read a book. At first, all I read were short stories with pinyin. With the improvement of literacy, I can read many books by myself and look up words I don't know in the dictionary. What often attracts me is the fate of various characters in the story. Their joys and sorrows often make me worried and can't sleep at night. "Reading thousands of books, writing like a god" is a famous sentence of Du Fu, a great poet in the Tang Dynasty. Reading also helps me a lot. Although I don't write like a god, every time I take a composition class, the words and phrases I usually accumulate from books will add luster to my composition like yeast. I got a lot of praise from my teacher for this.
"Learning without thinking is useless, thinking without learning is dangerous" is a famous aphorism from The Analects of Confucius, and there are many ancient meanings, such as the origin and origin of idiom stories, such as catching snow, stealing light from the wall, hanging beams and stabbing stocks. These are stories that the ancients studied hard and read well, which also shows the importance of reading. The family is the nursery and the children are the seedlings. The family wind is like raindrops, which sneak into the night with the wind and moisten things silently. Only under the moisture of rain and dew can the seedlings grow healthily.
Students, do you know what our family style is?
Essays on Family Style and Family Education of Junior Middle School Students II
Good family rules make a good family style, and good family instructions make a good family. Every family has a family style and rules, which can make a family active and healthy.
Our family rules are embodied in filial piety. Mom and dad often say, "All virtues and filial piety come first." Filial piety to elders and the elderly means to satisfy the elderly in everything. We children must listen to what the old man says. If the old man says something wrong, we can't blame him to his face. When eating, the elders didn't move chopsticks, so we young people must not eat first, only when grandparents and parents are around. When the old man is ill, we children must try our best to take care of him. Although you may sound like some rigid and old-fashioned rules, as long as you develop these good habits, you will find that they are not rigid at all, but necessary.
Our family motto is honesty. Honesty is also a word in the basic content of the 24-word socialist core values. Grandma is very impressed by her honesty in their square dance team. Grandpa made a lot of good colleagues in the unit because of his honesty. Dad, because of his honesty, more and more people cooperate with their company at work. Because of her honesty, there is an emergency at home, and colleagues and leaders will also help her. Now, this quality has been passed on to me, so at school, I borrowed books from my classmates and agreed when to return them. I must return it on time and never stand up. In daily life, I play with my friends and make an appointment with my family to go home. I'm never late. In my opinion, honesty is seen from every little thing and is an essential quality for a person.
These family traditions and family precepts have existed in everyone's heart since ancient times. But very little is really done. Grandparents, grandparents and parents made it a family motto, which impressed the next generation with the glory of China's 5,000-year history and culture. I hope my family's family rules can be passed down from generation to generation, and one day we can achieve the four goals of happiness: harmony, civilization, health and prosperity. Although this wish is not too big, it is also the same wish of our family of eight.