1. Just as real gold is to be identified in fire, friendship must be tested in adversity. -Ovid
2. The best thing to cope with the fear of enemies outside is to make friends as much as possible; For those who can't make friends, at least avoid making enemies with them; If you can't even do this, you should avoid dealing with them as much as possible and alienate them for your own strengths. -ebony dove
3. Make friends by being light before being thick, sparse before being dense, far before being close. -"Hu's Family Instructions"
4. When talking with friends, you don't have to pay attention, but when facing the enemy, you must be on guard. -Lu Xun
5. Sincere friendship is like health, and its value is not known until it is lost. -Goldon
6. Never get stuck in pride. Because once you are proud, you will refuse other people's advice and friendship. Because once you are proud, you will be stubborn when you should agree; Because once you are proud, you will lose the objective criterion. -Pavlov 2. Famous sayings about being cautious in making friends
● People know each other, and it is important to know each other < Han Liling > ● A scholar knows himself, and he dies ● A man knows himself in the sea, and and heaven remains our neighbourhood (Tang Wangbo) ● A husband should know himself, and there is a long theory of peace and contentment in the world (Tang Zhangwei) ● Life is important to know himself, and the whole world meets flesh and blood relatives (Tang Zhangwei). (Tang Bai Juyi) ● I would take up my lute and I would play, who hates not knowing the music (Tang Meng Haoran) ● High mountains and flowing water, you can't listen without a bosom friend (Song Wen Tianxiang) ● Knowing that you have treated each other with all your heart (Song Wen Tianxiang) ● Those who are married with kindness are called knowing yourself; Those whose hearts are tied together are called bosom friends-(Ming Feng Menglong) ● One person knows enough for his whole life (Qing Zhao Yi) ● It is not difficult to die for a friend, but it is difficult to find a friend worth dying for (Britain) ● The so-called friendship is that one heart is in two bodies (Europe) ● A friend is the second self ● It is difficult to know at wine parties. This is the basic principle of people's social attributes (edmund burke) ● Different Tao, no common goal, the Analects of Confucius ● Comrades are friends ● Speak in unison, and seek the Book of Changes with the same spirit ● Compared with the same kind, the same kind of people respond in unison, and the principle of justice is also "Zhuangzi" ● Those who aspire to Tao have fewer friends, and those who pursue profit have more < Han Wangfu > ● Those who aspire to it. Those who are well-behaved, don't be close at hand (Jin Ge Hong) ● Simultaneous self-correspondence, knowing each other with one heart (Jin Fu Xuan) ● The same lines converge, and thousands of miles follow each other; If you want to know a person, you should look at his friends (Mongolians) ● Look at the outside, and your friends will know who you are ● There is a gentleman in the door, but a gentleman outside; There are little people inside the door, but real friendship is a slow-growing plant (USA) ● People should make long friends, but their accounts should be short ● Choose friends slowly, and change friends more slowly (Franklin) ● You can't make friends if you don't make a leak ● The newer things, the better the friendship (Turkey) ● Sugarcane grows sweeter from top to bottom, and the longer the friendship lasts. The knife keeps cutting (Uyghur) ● The new clothes are good, and the old friends are good (Uyghur) ● Love is deep and respectful, and knowing is a joke ● Remember when you are alive, and remember when you are dead ● No one can defeat the idea that you can keep friendship with people who often blame him (India) ● Opinions between friends, don't leave it until the next day (Africa) ● Without good friends, you won't see your own shortcomings (. A kiss is better than an enemy's (Africa) ● An enemy's smiling face can hurt, and a friend's reproach is kindness (Soviet Union) ● Except a sincere friend, no medicine can communicate with the heart-(UK) ● The light gained from another person's lies is cleaner and purer than the light gained from his own understanding and judgment (UK) ● Use honey to lure. That's a bright light (Kirgiz) ● A small quarrel in friendship is as good as adding some pepper to food (Hungary) ● A stick should be long, and a partner should be strong ● A friend must choose the one who wins (Song Hetan) ● There are great scholars who talk and laugh, and there is no Bai Ding (Don Liu Yuxi) ● Friendship with literature, friendship with friends and benevolence ● weddings, winning friends like a cloud. Dress up in front of your shadow (Mongolian) ● Jade is not as good as a good friend, and wealth is as good as a benevolent friend ● that hearing first your surname, I thought you a stranger, then hearing your given name, I remembered your young face (Tang Liyi) ● and suddenly to find you seems like a dream, with a catch in the throat, we ask how old we are (Tang Sikong Shu) ● Talk about infinite things, look at the white moustache (Tang Zhangji) ● See the autumn grass in the sunset, and meet old people in the old age (Tang Li Duan) ● Since the son of heaven arrived in Shu Ren, he must learn from his teachers and friends in order to achieve his moral career (Song Cheng Hao) ● There must be a teacher when he asks for knowledge, and a friend when he gives lectures (Song Ludian) ● Learning is difficult to be poor, and helping his relatives to get friends (Qing Tang Bin) ● Learning is expensive, and learning is expensive, and friends are also expensive (Qing Tang Zhen) ● Teachers question and friends analyze doubts (Qing Li Bin). 3. Ancient poems about making friends
Making friends with non-sages will inevitably lead to love and hate.
-Meng Jiao's mountains and rivers are not heavy enough, but it is important to meet bosom friends. -Bao Rong has seen each other deeply, and there is nothing to know.
-Li Bai knows each other well, and it's no good being alone. -Li Bai makes friends and scores points.
-Zhou Xingsi was a friend of power, which the ancients were ashamed of. -Liu Yiqing gains three friends and loses three friends.
friends are straightforward, friends forgive, and friends learn more, which is beneficial. Friends make friends, friendly and soft, but friends make friends, which is harmful-Confucius has a gentleman inside the door, but a gentleman outside the door comes.
—— Feng Menglong loves each other and benefits each other at the same time. The analogy is that fire goes up and water goes down, which cannot be prevented in the world. -Mo Zhai A disguised friend is worse than a vicious enemy.
-The older a friend of Calisir's, the better. The older the wine, the better. -john ray A gentleman chooses carefully, so he should not associate with poisonous beasts.
-Zhang Wangyu's family helped me, and I will never forget it; I help others, don't remember. -Hua Luogeng makes friends with wine, just like wine, just for one night.
-Luo Gao since I can't find a friend who is completely devoted to me, I must have some friends who can overcome my inertia with their driving force. -Rousseau When we are happy, our friends will know us; In times of trouble, we will make friends.
-Collins It takes a long time for an honest man to see it, and it takes only one day for a bad man to recognize it. -Sophocles relatives are not optional, but friends can.
-De Lille's kind words and promises are easy to say. Only in times of trouble can you see the sincerity of your friends. -krylov cane tastes old and sweet, and friendship is longer and more profound.
—— Yuan Mu learns better when he makes friends by learning from others. If you make a profit by careful behavior, the road will be far away. -Master Hongyi In misfortune, useful friends are more necessary; In luck, noble friends are more necessary.
In misfortune, it is necessary to find friends; In luck, it is noble to find friends. -Aristotle wants to live like this; Keep your friends from becoming enemies, and your enemies from becoming friends.
-Pythagoras is best at coping with the fear of enemies outside, and making friends as much as possible; For those who cannot make friends, at least avoid making enemies with them; If you can't even do this, you should avoid interacting with them as much as possible and alienate them for your own interests. -Ebinur can't find out the details of each other, and never take out your heart.
—— Balzac makes friends with words, and helps others with benevolence. -"The Analects of Confucius" Relatives are given to us by God, and friends are chosen by ourselves.
—— Ma Mfor De Li Bai: "Three Poems for Friends" Lan Sheng is not a household, especially a casual grass. The old is frost by the frost, once the beauty has not been old to decline.
connecting the branches of Yao Hua by mistake, and forming the pool of kings. Look at yourself, there is no pleasing fragrance, the white bear the breeze blowing.
if Yu Fang is admirable, she will look like her when she dies. The Zhao - made dagger in the sleeve was bought from Mrs Xu's house.
the jade box is closed with frost and snow, and it passes through the Qin dynasty through Yan. The planned thing is not landing, reduced to the dust of the journey.
with this wish, I share your difficulties. When Jing ke went, the strong man was destroyed.
the trombone is easy to swim, making waves for me. Shaft sinking is deep to the spring, set sail to help people across the river, I hope to be able to assist the emperor.
a honest man only values righteousness, but a fine horse never tries to whip. Life is dear to each other, so why gold and money?
it's not without a picture in your heart to be slow and thin about your achievements. Banter and dissolute look at the wise men, thinking that it is just a child's farce.
if you set up a property, it will cost you a lot of money, and you will have a long-term plan. But the bitter mountain is cold in the north, who knows the south house.
when drinking wine, the frost is white on both sides. Shu master Liu Bei missing Zhuge Liang, Jin Jia emperor hope Xie Anshi, all hope to have a minister to assist himself.
when people rank five ding, they throw it in the laughing period. Tigers and tigers fall full of Hu Chen, and youhaibin listen to the late song of the fish.
shame your wife and sister-in-law, and entrust your relatives with a long sword. Master, you uphold the family righteousness, the group of public also difficult to be adjacent to you.
don't hold on to the Xijiang River, but empty Xu Dong. One day, I will rise to the sky, will use gold to return the owner.
Li Bai: "Chen Qing gives a friend" Yanling has a sword, which costs thousands of gold. Observing the wind and going to the country, I secretly made a deep impression on my old friend.
when you come back, you will know your heart forever. Cowards have a sense of decency, but strong men arouse youth.
Bao Sheng recommended Yi Wu, and put him in the same position at one stroke. If you don't have a good friend, you can't have a bright future.
don't take money carefully, push points and make concessions. Later generations called him a sage, but the British style was difficult to be respected.
On friendship, but if this is the case, friendship will be lost. Many kings escaped algae, hiding the people at that time.
Shu Wenzhen is depressed, grasping virtue and Guan Yilun. Buju is here, and the well * * * is next to it.
Qing Qin makes clouds and moons, and wine entertains winter and spring. When Bode saw the donation, it suddenly turned into dust.
heroes have not changed, and it has been difficult since ancient times. Others are indifferent, and you should be alone.
how can I be separated from my family? With the wind blowing in Yun Ni, I can't speak.
if you cast pearls and hope, you will be afraid of being apart by pressing your sword. I think of Fang Lan, and I want to give it to Jingzhu.
if you are drunk with worry, you will accumulate tears like rain. May the east wall shine and the rest shine on the poor women.
Li Bai: The Chu people don't know the phoenix, so they ask for pheasants at a high price. Sacrifice the Lord's past cloud, but I feel lost when I come here today.
I live in the north of Qiyuan, leaving Xianyang West for a long time. The wind is falling and the sun is gone, and the knots are changing and the birds are singing.
before the peach and plum blossoms are cold, there is no way to find a way out. Every gentleman sends a calyx, if it is in harmony with Qingyun.
and this mulberry leaf is green, and the spring silkworm is the boudoir. At sunrise, the cuckoo sings, and the family has a plow.
despite my lack of resources, I don't know who to carry with me. It rained heavily in Fu Shuo, and public transportation built a ladder.
Qiang Rong's affairs have not stopped, and the gentleman is sad and muddy. If you report to the state for a long time, you will be ashamed of success.
if you don't know the Lord, you can return the tribulus with a stick. He visited me in 2 and learned that I was in Panxi.
Li Bai: The sage in "A Gift to Chu Shi" has a good career, and it is in Shatangpi. The bamboo shadow sweeps the autumn moon, and the lotus clothes fall into the ancient pool.
read the classics of mountains and seas at leisure, and lie in the distance. And spend a lot of time in Tian Jia Le, hence the middle of the forest.
drink fragrant wine in the wild and cook dew sunflower in the garden. If you can plant peaches and plums, you can bear a knot for me.
Li Bai: "Give Qian Zhengjun Shao Yang (one for Zhao Yunqing)" White jade and a glass of wine, Green Yang in March. A few days after the spring breeze, the temples will become silk.
it's not too late to throw a pole. If you hunt in Weichuan, you can still be an emperor.
Li Bai: "To Zhong Jun Gong of Lingyuan Temple in Xuanzhou" worships the pavilion with white clouds and beautiful colors. Double streams are reflected, such as the sky falling on the mirror lake.
this is a dragon image, and it is unique. Charm escapes from the left of the river, and the article moves to the corner of the sea.
if you look at the heart with the moon, you will get the pearl. When we meet in Zhi Dun today, we will talk about what we need.
Li Bai: Ling Hongbo, a water drinker in "Giving a Monk the Beauty", and a long whale surges into the sea. A hundred rivers follow the dragon boat, and it is safe to breathe. In
, there are undead, and the bright moon and pearl are found. High prices pour the universe, and the afterglow shines on the rivers and lakes.
the bracts are brown and bare. Who knows this treasure, snickers and has a madman.
if you have your heart, what can you say? Li Bai: "Giving a monk a gift" Liang Youtang Huixiu often travels from Bao Zhao.
Shi Huaiyi, Emei, is the only one who shows Chen Gong. Outstanding two people, make friends with phoenix and Lin.
I'm good at being harmonious and handsome, and I know that there are heroes. Hai Ruo doesn't hide pearls, while dragons spit out the bright moon.
the sea takes a virtual boat and flows with the waves. Ode poetry to the Tan Pavilion and indulge in wine to Nautilus Island.
treat me well in eastern Vietnam. 4. Be careful when making friends. Proverbs
There are gentlemen outside the door, but there are gentlemen outside. -feng menglong
people love each other and benefit each other, just like fire goes up and water goes down, which cannot be prevented from the world. -Mo Zhai
A friend in disguise is worse than a vicious enemy. -Calisir
The older a friend is, the better, and the older a wine, the better. -john ray
A gentleman chooses carefully, so he should not associate with poisonous beasts. -Zhang Wangyu
People helped me, and I will never forget it; I help others, don't remember. -Hua Luogeng
Making friends with wine, like wine, is only for one night. -Roger
since I can't find a friend who is completely devoted to me, I must have some friends who can overcome my inertia with their driving force. -Rousseau
When we are happy, our friends will know us; In times of trouble, we will make friends. -Collins
It takes a long time for an upright person to see it, and it takes only one day for a bad person to recognize it. -Sophocles
Relatives cannot be chosen, but friends can. -De Lille
Kindness words and promises are easier said than done. Only in times of trouble can we see the sincerity of our friends. -krylov
Sugarcane tastes old and sweet, and friendship grows stronger with time. -Yuan Mu
If you make friends with the friendship of learning, you will learn better; If you make a profit by careful behavior, the road will be far away. -Master Hongyi
In misfortune, useful friends are more necessary; In luck, noble friends are more necessary. In misfortune, it is necessary to find friends; In luck, it is noble to find friends. -Aristotle
To live like this; Keep your friends from becoming enemies, and your enemies from becoming friends. -Pythagoras
The best way to cope with the fear of enemies outside is to make friends as much as possible; For those who cannot make friends, at least avoid making enemies with them; If you can't even do this, you should avoid interacting with them as much as possible and alienate them for your own interests. -Ebinur
Never take out your heart until you know the details of the other person. -Balzac
A gentleman makes friends with words, and helps others with kindness. -The Analects of Confucius
Relatives are given to us by God, and friends are chosen by ourselves. -horse