02, life, there will always be endless troubles, please don't be helpless, because the dream is still there, the road is still there, the sun is still there, the family is still there, the friends are still there, and you are still there. I have always understood the heart of cool thin in this world, but I stubbornly want to seek the most beautiful warmth.
03. Most of the time, what we need to do is to shut up our mouth that we are willing to argue, let go of our so-called noble self-esteem, admit our mistakes and make up our minds to correct them. This does not mean giving up, but gaining a kind of growth.
Be strong and believe in yourself. There are many things in life that cannot be met. Time is the most impartial, 24 hours for anyone; Time is also the most private, not anyone's 24 hours.
05. Take happiness as the moral standard of your life, substantive achievement as your noblest action, and rational thinking as your only master.
06, laughter and tears, but for a moment. The pain of life is just a passing sight. Don't think too much, live each day well, and time will take everything away. Happiness and pain are just a moment. Many times, you can't get what you want, but in the end, what you have must be much better than what you desire.
07. Don't waste an inch of your time, don't listen to boring words, don't try to remedy hopeless mistakes, and don't spend your life on ignorant, mediocre and obscene things. These things are the pathological goals and false ideals of our time. Live! Live your wonderful life! Don't waste a drop.
08. Did you learn the lesson the day before yesterday? -It is important to accumulate experience. Have you corrected yesterday's mistakes? It is very important to know your mistakes and correct them. Have you finished today's work? -execution is very important. Have you made a plan for tomorrow? -System planning is very important. Is there a clear goal for the day after tomorrow? -The way forward is very important.
09. The best state is not that two people sit down and have endless words. But shoulder to shoulder, you have nothing to say, and I'm too lazy to be a clown. You turn over the newspaper at hand, and I lean on your shoulder, panting lazily. You don't have to be swayed by considerations of gain and loss, and you don't deliberately express your desires. Everything is just right. I believe you have a future with us.
10, accept loneliness, accept loss, accept that you are incomplete, and occasionally be defeated by change. It may be hard to swallow, but when you can't bear it, learn to put it down. Only those who can't figure it out, there is no road that can't be taken.
1 1. Don't let bad things ruin your day. Be optimistic and be happy. Life is short. Don't waste time on unimportant things. If the hateful setbacks make you taste the bitter fruit, my friend, then rise up and you will definitely taste the joy of life.
12, people who can tolerate too much self and are biased against themselves will get greater help and return. Courage is not the absence of fear, but the ultimate victory over fear; Being strong does not mean not being cowardly, but ultimately overcoming cowardice; Justice is not the absence of an affair, but an affair that is eventually rejected; Honesty does not mean never having greed, but ultimately resisting greed.
13, complaining is useless, this road is blocked and another road is taken; If it is used as an occasional vent, complaining is also necessary. The terrible thing is that complaining will increase your troubles and only let others see your incompetence. Complaining is a fatal negative state of mind. Once complaining becomes a bad habit, it will be dark. Not only are you in a bad mood, but others will also have bad luck. Don't run all the way to dark without hitting the south wall.
14, life is not winning or losing, only worth it; Everything, any experience, including love and work, is either to gain or to learn. Being alone is a happy and valuable thing. When you are in trouble, don't talk in a hurry; When you are excited, you don't have to vent in a hurry. Enjoying loneliness is the sky where you grow up.
15, I don't work hard, but I criticize each other's shortcomings and try to lower their status, so that they can stand on the same level as myself. This is jealousy. Originally, we just need to take action to catch up with each other, but people often can't do this because jealousy is effortless. However, reality will give you the answer, and put the blame on the times and the world, and your situation will not change.
16, life is just a journey, you pass by me, I pass by you, and then go ahead and practice separately. Some people only do two things in their lives: they refuse to accept and fight for it; So, better and better. There are also people who only do two things in their lives: waiting and regretting; So the more mixed up, the worse.
17, people will not lose themselves as long as they don't lose their way. Better to rely on yourself than to go to others for help. Only we can really solve our troubles. Escape is not necessarily too much to hide, and the face is not necessarily the most uncomfortable; Loneliness is not necessarily unhappy, and it may not last long if you get it; Losing is not necessarily gone, and turning is not necessarily the weakest.
18, some people come into your life to make your life more exciting; And some people leave you to make your life better! I don't want anything that doesn't belong to me. Learn to experience life with your heart, modesty makes people progress, and pride makes people fall behind. In the eyes of modest people, the pursuit is endless and will go forward bravely.
19, bumpy road, giving people a warm side; Life is a storm, give yourself a smile. Life is to keep happiness in your heart, then melt it quietly and spread it slowly. Don't lose your future possession because of temporary gain. What you get at the expense of others won't last long. I can't help it It's heaven.
20. Know yourself correctly and manage your strengths; I can correctly evaluate my environment, know my own advantages and disadvantages, know the meaning of my life, fulfill my responsibilities and solve difficulties with a positive attitude.
2 1. Sometimes we get lost at the crossroads of life. At this time, we may need to stop and have a rest and think clearly, or we can just follow our feelings, or walk rationally and think nothing. Everyone has his own story. In that story, there was a man holding his life, and he was either happy or sad for this man.
22. Don't let your future self hate your present self. I'm trying to be the person I like. It is better to be strong than to pray for a plain life. Don't let your self-righteous kindness become a burden to others.
The best years in your life are those years when you took full responsibility for your own problems. You don't blame your mother, the environment, or anything. You realize that you can control your own destiny. The root of people's pain is that they don't know who they are, but they blindly cling to and pursue things that can't represent us.
24. Before you get up every day, you have two choices, either continue to lie down and dream your unfinished dream, or pull the quilt to finish your unfinished dream. Some people are lonely not because they are waiting for someone, but because that person has appeared and they are waiting for that person's initiative.
25. Growing up is a lonely process. Sometimes it's because you can't do fractional division, sometimes it's because your arm posture is always wrong when you line up, and sometimes it's because of the alienation of close friends ... these things are not a big deal at all, and even you can easily forget them. But in fact, everything is like a kind of infiltration, slowly turning itself into what it is now.
26. Sometimes, I have a lot to say in my heart, but I don't know how to express it; Sometimes, I have many dreams, but I can't. Love doesn't hurt people, and it's hard to dream without madness. In the journey of life, there are always some expectations that cannot be realized, and there are always some desires that cannot be realized.
27. Live with gratitude. We came from an accident. Life is the most precious gift. Love the person you love, treat everything gently, don't resent and grieve because of misfortune, no matter how dangerous the future is, stand still with a smile, be fearless and have no escape.
Nothing in the world can replace perseverance. Talent is not allowed, people without talent abound, and geniuses who have accomplished nothing are not uncommon; Education is not good either. The world is full of people who learn but are useless. Only perseverance and determination are invincible.
29. Licheng literature: know how to be flexible and learn to think in other's shoes; People have to make mistakes, and there are always mistakes and irrationality. When you make a mistake, you will feel guilty; If you are impulsive, you will inevitably regret it. At this time, we need to calm down and clear our minds, don't always complain about the hardships of life and the injustice of fate, don't suppress ourselves, lose ourselves, let ourselves fall into sadness, and don't give up on ourselves.
30. The best way to live is to run on the ideal road with a group of like-minded people! Looking back, there are stories along the way; Bow your head and be firm; Look up at a clear distance. There is no rehearsal in life, and every scene is live. Grasping the present is the best wealth in life!
3 1, the antonym of success is not failure, but doing nothing. When someone starts to neglect you, deliberately deceives you and decides to abandon you, don't believe even the best excuses; No matter how familiar that person is, don't stay; No matter how unforgettable the memories are, don't cry. That man is leaving, you can't stay.
32. Any dream needs to be realized in a down-to-earth way. Face up to every setback in life, adapt to every ups and downs in life, absorb every failure in life, and make use of every ups and downs in life. Memory is like water in your hand. Whether you hold it tightly or spread it out, it will gradually disappear.
When you can't change, you have to adapt. Too many things are result-oriented, no matter how ups and downs the failure process is, it is only a joke in the end. There are too many people who spell more than you, but you see very little. We are alive and have no qualification for burnout.
35, growth is not because of poor birth and inferiority, willing to be a diaosi; Don't brag and call yourself queen just because you have flown to the branch. Is to have self-knowledge, know your own advantages and disadvantages, foster strengths and avoid weaknesses, and accept them calmly. It is not the beautiful breasts that win love, but the myriad weather inside. What destroys beauty is not aging, but falling into stereotypes with aging.
36. Wolves travel thousands of miles to eat meat, horses travel thousands of miles to eat grass, live fish swim upstream, and dead fish drift with the tide. There is such a sentence that I appreciate: "Are you really tired? Tired is right, comfort is reserved for the dead! Bitterness-life, fatigue-work, change-fate, forbearance-experience, doing-possession! If you feel hard at this time, tell yourself: the easy way is downhill, hold on, because you are going uphill!
37. Life is an exploration from ignorance to lucidity. If we can always be aware, we will find grace in pain, and we will be less suspicious and more confident. The harder life is, the stronger people are; The stronger a person is, the simpler life becomes.
38. Some things will change, and some things will remain the same, such as ourselves in our bones, which cannot be worn away no matter how hard we try. Just like a river, maybe after a long time, there will be some floating objects on it, but it is still the original gurgling water. Sometimes the road is not at your feet, but in your heart. Think before you go, and you will be less ashamed.
39. Maybe it's because we are so powerful that we want to be perfect in everything and achieve what we want, but we forget that nothing can be absolutely perfect. No matter how good a person is, he has his shortcomings, but we are all packaged.
40. Life is too short to regret. Don't leave a minute for those who make you unhappy. If it's not the end, please keep walking with a smile! The essence of misunderstanding: the misunderstood person does not suffer at all, and the misunderstood person loses the opportunity!
4 1, if you put all the sufferings in the world together and let you choose, you may still be willing to choose your original one. Only when the pain is tolerable can we feel sorry for ourselves. When the pain is unbearable, we just laugh it off.
42. The starting point of success is at the end of one's tether, and the beginning of hope is always at the turning point. Give everything you want to learn, but no one can take it away. The knowledge of investment also benefits the most. Hope that can never be realized, therefore, talents have hope and pursue hope.
43. Don't think too complicated in everything. It's a headache to think too much. Think about it. Don't hold your hand too tightly, things will break and your hand will scar. Most lovely people are relatively independent people. Don't be grandstanding with others, and don't look at yourself when you live alone. Be calm and objective at all times, handle the things that should be handled well, but don't ask questions and interfere in other people's affairs.
44. Ideal is a bumpy road, and we walk step by step. Only by paying sweat and tears can we get a life of flesh and blood. To grow up is to accept an imperfect self, an imperfect self, and the imperfections and ideals of this world.
45. think about it Because of our laziness, we always think that we have plenty of time to do anything, so that so many plans, trips, love and exploration of life have not been implemented! When the disaster comes, we do nothing, and we will find ourselves back in the ordinary life day after day, and our desire for life will be exhausted.
46. I overheard a sentence. There are many things in this world that have no answers and no correct methods. If you talk to people, you can change back to a bright, beautiful, straight and correct road, and there will not be so many people crying in the world.
47. It is often said that I am unhappy now, and I will be happy when I get married or buy a house. The truth of the matter is that happy people are happy everywhere, and unhappy people are unhappy everywhere. So we should cultivate our own happiness first. No matter what happens, no one else can touch you or me. This is the truly powerful gas field and self-confidence.
48. The height of life is supported by confidence. Compared with people, only the situation is different, and the winner is not superman. Many times, we are not short of chips for success, but lack of self-confidence. All roads, only when you step on them, will you know the distance and twists and turns. Taking the first step and sticking to it is self-confidence. If you think you can't do it, you'll never do it. Self-confidence is one's greatest potential.
49, the cause does not need to be earth-shattering, and there are achievements; Family doesn't need sweet words, just sincerity; Money is not necessarily inexhaustible, as long as it is enough; The body does not need to live a long life, and health is good; Friends don't need to count, just bosom friends! Experience is often regarded as synonymous with stupidity and sadness. Actually, you don't have to. If I am willing to learn from experience, today's lessons will lay the foundation for a better life tomorrow.
50. If there is no severe cold, plum blossoms will smell very fragrant ... Society is a competitive field, and if we don't advance, we will be left behind. If you don't struggle, you will sink. No one will pay for your laziness. The harder you work, the luckier you will be! Opportunities always belong to those who run on the road!
5 1, set a goal for yourself, give yourself a clear hope for the future, and give yourself a directional light in life. Work hard in this direction, constantly surpass yourself and improve your level, and don't let yourself slack off.
52. Enthusiasm and way of thinking are much more important than ability. Even if the ability is not strong, people who work hard and have the ideological realm of doing their best for others will be much stronger than those who have excellent ability but refuse to work hard and have a negative outlook on life. Don't be discouraged if your ability is a little poor. Persistent efforts and positive thinking will surely make you succeed.
53. The heart is not bitter, but bitter because it is too lost and too delusional; My heart is not tired, but tired because I can't let go too much. Desire is like sand in your hand. The tighter you hold on, the more you lose. Gains and losses are relative. When you get them, you may be losing them. When you lose it, you may just have it. The so-called willing, is to give up fantasy, give up the truth. Look down on everything, take it easy, everything goes with fate, and is not bound by gains and losses.
54. In life, many things depend on oneself, and many feelings depend on individuals. The mind is wide, and the little things are difficult. Be a man with your heart and bury your head in things. Open-minded and flat-minded! Cherish the happiness around you, appreciate what you have, let go of what you can't carry, despise what you can't afford to hurt, let go of what you can't figure out and smooth over what you hate.
55. Sometimes, you want to prove it to ten thousand people. Later, you found that you only got one person who understood, and that was enough. In this world, life will not be bumpy, but realistic and cruel. People who are laughed at by most people are either crazy or talented. The difference between a madman and a genius is that a madman doesn't know that others are laughing at him, but a genius knows it very well.
56. Life is colorful because of sunshine, magnificent and brilliant because of self-confidence, passion creates the future, and mentality creates today. Since you have chosen to pursue, don't cry. Hold on, hold on today, and happiness will be one step closer. What really makes people tired is inner despair.
57. Only when people are quiet can they be settled; When they settle down, they can be wise; When they are wise, they can realize; When they realize it, they can get it. Make more mistakes while you are young. Jianghu is full of blood. How do you know that if you don't fight, you will lose? If you lose, you lose. It's great to lose. Besides, what if you win?
58. Don't take other people's gossip as a gift, because you don't collect junk. Be yourself. When you really get into the present, no matter how simple and humble, you can feel endless fun. Because it is not good enough, we should work hard. If you don't work hard, you will always be like this.
You'd better learn something when you feel sad and miserable. Learning will make you invincible. You may be old, you may stay up late, you may be lovelorn, you may watch the world around you destroyed by a group of lunatics, and you may know that your reputation has been vilified by people with ulterior motives. At this time, there is only one thing worth doing-learning.
60. If you work harder than others, you will get one more achievement. If you are more ambitious than others, you will be more promising; Persist a little more than others, and you will win; If you are more persistent than others, you will work miracles. Learn to be lonely, no one will protect you as a treasure. Learn to be cruel, kill it, and let it go. Learn to be rude, get out of here and stay.
6 1, through the years, everyone has his own story, only pessimism will be beautiful, only optimism will be bright. Play your role and do what you should do. Life can't be as good as you think, but it can't be as bad as you think. People's fragility and strength are beyond imagination. Sometimes, I may burst into tears in one sentence. Sometimes, I find myself walking a long way with gritting my teeth.
62. Enjoy achievements at high tide, enjoy life at low tide, do meaningful work when you are in the mood, and do interesting things when you are not in the mood. Nothing in this world can make you lose yourself except life. Learn to bear with a smile and say with a smile: nothing!
63. Ordinary or mediocre, it has nothing to do with property, occupation, status and status. What matters is only the attitude of life and the height of thinking. Life is understanding and understanding. Keep happiness in your heart. In the face of failure and frustration, please choose to be strong.
64. If you are under great pressure, go to a concert. If you can't find the direction, choose to move on. If everything you long for is still coming, make the waiting gesture more pious. There are countless possibilities tomorrow, so don't stop being enthusiastic tonight. Our efforts are for a better life, but the premise of a better life should be to please ourselves first.
Many times, you can't get what you want, but in the end, what you have must be much better than what you desire. Don't worry about the bumpy road, the world is tortuous. Being able to live is life, and being able to walk is the way. If you put all the pains in the world together and let you choose, you may still be willing to choose your original one.
66. Pain is a great nutrition in life and a great compassion on the stage of life. Pain, or the heart is biting, or the pain is cracking, or the pain is faint, bitter and bitter, and the memory is profound. Memories make us who we are now, and dreams make us who we will be in the future.
There are too many uncertain factors in this world. What we can do is to be immune to it and continue to do what we should do after complaining, because no one can give you the life you want without hard work! Don't live in the past, because it has passed; Don't go against reality, because you have to live.
68. Life is a process of cultivation. Anger will waste time and hurt others. People are complicated and their mood is complicated. Everything in life is not what we want. The child fell down. If there is no adult around, he won't cry, just get up by himself. When someone cares about your pain, you will suffer more. No one, you owe pity, but you are strong and live up to expectations.
69. After the wind and rain, we can see through the true and false of people's hearts; Only by sharing weal and woe can we appreciate the warmth and coldness of our feelings. False feelings can't stay, but real feelings will always be there. A feeling exists because of sincerity; The heart will never leave, because it is cherished. Those who are willing to suffer losses can't suffer losses after all. People who can suffer losses are bound to have good popularity, and people with good popularity naturally have more opportunities. It is enough to seize one or two key opportunities in one's life!
70. If you can afford it, you can let it go, and the gains and losses in life are normal; Stand tall and look far, don't care about right or wrong; When you figure it out and see through it, life will naturally be confused. "Living in the moment" is to understand the beauty and happiness of life in an instant, not the pleasure it brings.
7 1, the persistent future will have a past; No matter how beautiful the melody is, there will be a sad feeling; Looking forward to the eyes, there will be confusion; No matter how pure the words are, there will be sadness; No matter how touching, it can't wait forever. Don't cling to memories. A broken kite can only let it fly, let it go and let itself go. Self-confidence and even narcissism, always remind yourself that I deserve the best.
72. What should come will come. Don't worry too much. If you lose patience, you will lose more. The way to go is always to go. Never think that you have gone the wrong way, even if you finally turn a big corner. The scenery you see on this road will always belong to you, and no one can take it away.
73. The hardest thing for people on the springboard is not the moment they jump, but the struggle, hesitation, helplessness and loss in their hearts before jumping, and they can't talk to others at all. We thought we couldn't jump, so we closed our eyes and got up the courage, but we skipped.
74. The secret of all growth lies in self-restraint. If you learn to control yourself, you will have the best teacher. If you don't have any goals today, what reason will you wake yourself up tomorrow morning?
75. Step on difficulties and you will stand higher. Life is a process of transformation again and again. Life often only goes through all kinds of hardships and tortures, in order to really increase the thickness of life and understand the true meaning of life. The process of a person's growth is like the process of a butterfly breaking its cocoon. In the painful struggle, the will is exercised, the strength is strengthened, the soul is improved, and life is sublimated in pain.
76. You could have chosen a flat and upright road, but you chose a thorny and rugged road. You could have chosen a light cloud to pass by, but you chose a moth to put out the fire, regardless of the consequences. The world will not be gentle with you, and God will not take special care of you, but I will.
77. We can't choose life, but we can choose the way of life. Being a man should be somewhat indifferent, somewhat cool and drizzling, and somewhat charming and poetic; Do things calmly and keep free and easy between pitches. Not deliberate, not hypocritical, not influenced by thousands of poems, we have a plenty of simplicity in simple years; Without maturity after vicissitudes of life, we have plenty of calmness. Love is the heaviest taste of life, and lightness is the strongest color of life.
78. The goal of life is to go ahead and turn. The growth of life lies in learning and experience. Jealousy only makes sense in action. If you want to meet an imaginary person, you must be close to your imaginary self. If you want to have a life you have never had, you must do something you have never done.
79. Remember this passage: Yesterday, delete it. Today, for the memory. Tomorrow, fight for it. That's right. Hold on. Wrong, give up. No matter how good you are, some people will despise you, and no matter how unbearable you are, some people will treat you like life. In fact, how others treat you is not the most important thing, but how to be yourself!
80. Try to get something. In fact, as long as you are calm and realistic, you can achieve your goal easily and unnoticed. And if you work too hard, too noisy, too naive and too inexperienced, you will cry, scratch and pull, just like a child pulling a tablecloth, but you will never get all the good things on the table.