In my opinion, the world belongs to itself and has nothing to do with others. People who really care about you are rare except their closest relatives. Losing the desire to talk, being brave in loneliness and being strong in silence is a sign of a person's maturity. We lose the desire to talk, because we understand from the bottom of our hearts that it is a compulsory course for a person to mature to learn self-healing, self-commitment, grow up in loneliness and be strong in silence. As Audrey Hepburn's last words: "People, most importantly, have the ability to repair themselves, revive themselves and redeem themselves. Never expect anyone." Real maturity is to be your own quiet ferryman.
Everyone will go through numerous setbacks, failures, misfortunes and hardships from infancy to maturity, and then grow up slowly. When we were young, we didn't know how to advance and retreat when we were doing things. We knew everything, talked endlessly, and didn't know how to converge. It was easy to get upset unconsciously. When we grow up, we understand that it is best to grasp the scale and boundaries in doing everything, neither hurting people nor hurting ourselves.
In the past, when we met troubles and frustrations, we would talk to friends or girlfriends, have a good drink and get drunk. Girls and girlfriends go shopping together, and buy buy buys, eats and plays. After a rough meal, they basically recover. With the growth of age, after experiencing many things, you will lose the desire to talk, only hide your grievances in your heart, swallow your tears in your stomach, and you will never find the person who will chat with you all night, because you are afraid of being disturbed and disappointed.
When I was young, I always drank in the name of eating, entertained in the name of drinking, and had fun in the name of entertainment ... When I was finished, I went home, and the steps started: complaining about water, all kinds of hardships, seeking understanding, working, having to, and then naturally sleeping, and invited me to eat when I was well, and then drinking in the name of eating. I don't know when it started. It seems that there is no such program after 3 years old. I'm so bored with everything now, I don't know who to talk to, and others don't care what they think of me.
This is probably maturity. What do you think is the sign of your maturity?