What is the most practical love experience you have ever received?
1. No matter who you are, you will fall in love with him. You are a person who only dresses up all day and drinks disco dancing every night. Naturally, I will meet the same bosom friend. One of you is delicious, the other is lazy, and you hit it off. (Joking) So, only by constantly improving yourself can you meet a better partner. You don't even have this number. How can you make a tough guy look up to you unless you have something he needs?
2. In a love relationship, you must distinguish between each other's needs. In a relationship, it's hard to know what your needs are. Besides, you know what the other person needs. About love, companionship, care and money.
You can try to save it, but don't pester it. Once you have this habit, every time you fall in love, you will get used to ending with [stalking and beating], and there will inevitably be a sad ending. If you don't change this practice, you will lose the last bit of dignity, just like a lamb dying in the swamp. When you beg "don't go, don't leave me", maybe the other party will take you as a talk after dinner.
4, love experience, and intensive relationships, just like that series, one boyfriend/girlfriend at a time, 80% is scum. You can change people faster than you can grow your hair. If you do, it's just your bad luck.
5, girls' eating ability, education belongs to most people. If you have a skill and an outstanding education, this is your treasure, please make good use of it. You see, in junior high school and senior high school, where do girls gather most after class? Except for the ladies' room, everyone is next to the boy with the best math in the class! Think about study/work every day, read more books and experience more, which is the fastest way to improve your cognition.
6, the eternal truth: if you want to be strong, please be self-reliant! ! Self-improvement lies in your spiritual and material self-sufficiency. You have the ability to make money and won't sell cute kisses for a few k pocket money; The spiritual world is rich enough that you won't ask him to go shopping with you to see popcorn; As long as it is an object or a person, it will have a great reaction. To put it bluntly, if you spend too much time and energy in one direction, something will happen. You see, it is not enough to devote all your energy to love; It's no good just spending time on your work. You have your own life, don't waste too much time on love. The best state is to have a hobby of extra charging, the ability to make money and a lover to snuggle up to.
7. Having a bad experience is not a bad thing. Bad experiences can bring you profound lessons, which is a good thing. Therefore, even if you have failed in love several times, it doesn't matter. You will become more mature and stronger in emotional experiences again and again.
8. When you are in love, you will encounter gossip. It's best not to listen, don't ask and don't say anything distorted by the outside world. Quarrel is a stupid thing, and it hurts the spirit and mood. These are all tasks to accompany you all day. Therefore, smart people rarely care about these words, and at most they just smile and continue to make money. Is there anything better than making money?
9. Trust your partner, not control it. Girls should never be "giant babies" who extort too much from their boyfriends, asking them to provide you with a high-quality material life while complaining that he works overtime every day. What a boy really appreciates is a partner who trusts his actions and decisions, and he will feel at ease and let you become his "safe haven"
10, when it's okay, just double-click the screen to prevent your fingers from being numb.
1 1. If it's a long-distance relationship, you must watch this one! ! Chat with cute voices and cute expressions. Communication should be full of love. Give him all the love! But you have to say it to your face. On this one, you must give me a compliment! (Because I'm shameless)
It is obvious that you like someone. It is easy to see that many people think that "ta likes me, but is embarrassed to tell me." Even if his confession is rejected, he just feels that it is not convenient for the other party to disclose his love relationship for the time being, but he is so confident. Rejecting you means not liking you. If you are at arm's length and ambiguous, it can only show that ta is playing the game of "developing spare tire".
13. Money in the pocket is more important than love. Even if a girl chooses to be single all her life, it doesn't matter whether she wants a man or not as long as she has the ability to live well, earn a decent income and live a balanced life. From a rational point of view, at the most struggling age, getting rid of poverty is more important than getting rid of being single. Double Eleven is more important than Valentine's Day. Double Eleven can sell goods, and Valentine's Day can only cost money.
14, stay away from the [younger son] who is not motivated. If you fall in love with a man who asks to be bored with you every day and do nothing, then you fall in love with a man who is eager to marry you every day. My suggestion is to leave early. Don't be sad either, because your life is still long, look farther, because as long as you keep working hard and get better, there will be better along the way.
15, even if you are in love, you should constantly improve yourself. The value achievement brought by your Excellence far exceeds the sweetness brought by love. At the same time, you have more choices. When you are angry, you can go shopping and eat delicious food. Buy a favorite gift for your boyfriend on his birthday; When he was derailed, he quickly packed his things and went on vacation to relax and repair his mood; Only when you are excellent can you live a better life. You need to rely on others to survive, which is not free and stable.
16, good feelings are catalysts for mutual achievement. In a healthy relationship, you can not only learn how to love others more, but also know how to love yourself better. In a mutually catalytic relationship, two people can make each other grow faster and become better. But you need to make sure of two things: first, both of them are getting better. Second, we are all maintaining this relationship.
17, love the right person, every day is Valentine's Day. Because, finding the right person, every day is Valentine's Day. As long as you love yourself, every day is Valentine's Day. But Schopenhauer said that the premise of "I love you" must have a complete "I".
18. If there is a contradiction between study and feelings, what should I choose? But my advice is that you can try to get involved in a relationship, but at the same time, you should continue to study. The reason is very simple, because if you suddenly wake up at the age of 30 or 40 and want to get married, this age is actually a bit late, because the body waits for no one. In addition, when you find that everyone around you is married, the peer pressure will make you uncomfortable. At the age of 30 or even 40, even if you get married again and go to school, it is completely feasible. Because people in this era should gradually learn to learn lifelong learning and live to learn.
19. When pursuing a girl, if the other person doesn't explicitly reject you, then offer a universal formula: don't call if you can meet, and don't type if you can talk. Don't ask why, you are so sure to take her down. If you can't stand it, I will spend money to find a girlfriend.
20, the pursuit of beautiful girls, even if you are rejected, except those who regard you as an ATM in love rat, there is no loss, as long as you are willing to have the cheek to chase, you can increase the possibility of winning beautiful women.
2 1. Don't fantasize about each other's future, get married, have children, have a house and so on. Don't make choices that change your destiny for each other (for example, work, settle down, etc.). ) Before you meet both parents. The more you indulge in fantasy, the more you believe that this person must be a lifelong person. The more you pay for him, this is a very dangerous situation. Whether friends, couples or family members are independent, they need each other at the same time and don't rely too much. This is the best emotional state.
22. After falling in love, there should be no less exercise. Squats, push-ups and so on. It's good for both sides, you know.
23. Online earth love stories. You can only tell popular earth love stories online on separate occasions. Really, people think you have a problem. Because it's really embarrassing. Never flatter yourself unless you two are alone. For girls, it is the so-called rustic love story.
24. Invitation, preferably multiple-choice questions. If you want to invite ta out on a date, don't say, "Goddess, where do you want to play? Instead, I want to say, "Do you want to go to the coffee shop or the cinema tonight? "You give ta a choice, and you have a greater chance to promise you. Because this is a natural reaction to seeing the problem. If the other person is interested in you, the success rate is 99%, and the rest 1% depends on whether others like you or not.
25. Don't tell yourself everything.
This means that you don't have to tell each other everything, you can have a little secret. You don't need to give each other too much time. Appropriate distance can make him feel that you are confused and far away. It's better to grab a man's heart and pour it on him enthusiastically. In his eyes, you are a transparent and worthless little licking dog, and he will think that you can't live without him.
26, let you get married is not the palace of marriage, two of a kind.
27. When a girl is angry, don't let her partner guess. If you want to worsen the relationship, go ahead and worsen it. If you want to, get along more comfortably. It is necessary to communicate with your partner. Tell each other what you are not satisfied with and adjust your daily life. So you can live a better life.
28. What is a long-term relationship? I can tolerate your shortcomings, and I appreciate your advantages. If you are willing to accept it, you can live together, and if you are willing to communicate, you can be more comfortable. If you don't want to, it can only show that you don't love ta that much.
29. Kind people can often go further, because they all have a grateful heart and are willing to encourage others.