The girl is pregnant for five months, and the fetus is not small, so it can't be handled casually. In this case, it should be inappropriate to suggest that girls get rid of it.
So, as parents, you are ready to be grandparents. Of course, at the same time, we should also persuade our son and girlfriend to protect the fetus and the lifeline of the family. Then, tell the children to have a good baby and not to affect their health because of pregnancy and childbirth.
As for your son's girlfriend's academic problems, you can ask the school to take a year off, solve the problem of having children first, and then go back to college to finish all your studies. Besides, I need to talk to your son. My girlfriend and I are still in college, of course, we should focus on our studies.
If it were me, my son would have a girlfriend in his freshman year and be pregnant. I'm so happy. At this time, I will see what the children think. If the child is true love, so much the better. Of course, in this case, girls must be sincere to boys, so they can almost ignore their sons' thoughts. What the son does himself must be borne by himself. As long as the girl doesn't complain, tell her parents. The bride price should be given. Usually, the woman also agrees that the young couple are together.
At this time, parents are not old, and some may have retired, so much the better. Parents can take care of their grandchildren for their children, and children will continue to go to school with peace of mind. Because children have a family, they will be more responsible and study harder. Why not?
It's better to have a daughter-in-law and a grandson earlier than to graduate later. When you get old, you can't find a wife anywhere. That's really annoying! So this kind of good thing, as long as it is handled well, is indeed a good thing, but be careful not to make things difficult everywhere because the girl is pregnant and want to pick up a daughter-in-law for nothing. This idea must not exist!
What is really true in this case is that "parents are true love and children are accidents", otherwise it is impossible to wait until five months after pregnancy to tell parents, and it can be completely solved without anyone knowing it within two months after pregnancy.