I have always thought that women are like cats, cute, coquettish, dependent, gentle, wild, sensitive... A woman’s heart is like a needle in the sea. Every girl is soft and changeable. Just like a cat!

I don’t know if other girls are like cats, but I feel that I am particularly like a cat. I am obviously afraid of the cold in winter, but refuse to go near the heater because I am afraid that the heater will burn that beautiful fur; even though I know It cannot be the whole life of the owner, but it can be cute and coquettish to attract the attention of the owner. Even if it works for a long time, it will be very happy if it can get one minute of attention from the owner; knowing that one day the owner will get tired of it and even abandon it. But he will still make every effort just to win the temporary favor of his master. Because for a cat, its owner is its entire world, and it is only a very inconspicuous part of the owner's world. Insecure, cats' dependence on their owners is truly unmatched by any other animal. However, if you don’t get what you want when you rely on you, you won’t rely on you in the future! Anyone who has raised a cat knows that when a kitten acts coquettishly or does something wrong, it needs comfort and guidance from others. If the owner hits it at this time, it will remember it severely and will not do it again. Women are also like cats, with cat-like self-esteem.

I heard two stories like this: A girl went to self-study and it was too cold. She sent a message asking her boyfriend to give her clothes, but the boy refused because he was busy playing games. This incident made her depressed for two days and then she was relieved. Although it is a small matter and will not affect the two of them in the future, she said that she will remember that she will definitely bring clothes for self-study in the future. If she forgets one day, even if she freezes to death, she will never ask him to bring them.

Another story is this: A girl was in a very low mood one night and missed someone's comfort. Then in the middle of the night, she called him and wanted to hear him talk. On the other end of the phone was " The phone you dialed has been turned off... beep". Suddenly she remembered, "For you, I will always turn on my phone..." From then on, she never called him again when she was sad and helpless. The little dependence that was slowly built up during that period suddenly collapsed. Start to consciously no longer think about it, no longer pay attention to it, and no longer expect it.

This is just a story, but I can understand the feeling it conveys. Many people may think that these two girls are unreasonable, have no trust, and do not understand each other. But I can understand very well what they want to express. In fact, many girls are insecure. Whether they are friends or lovers, they have a long evaluation period in their hearts. When you pass her evaluation period and rely on you, she will definitely give 100%. Treat you sincerely and make you happy. For a friend, she will do her best to help you and make you happy; for a lover, she will do her best to give you the best, even after you hurt her, she will continue to tolerate you and love you without hesitation. . A woman who falls in love may not seem important to others. In fact, she needs care, because love has made her gentle, and she will accept and tolerate everything you have to offer.

If one day you see a girl next to you who signs "Cat-like Self-Esteem", I think you should be very sad, because you still don't fully understand her. In fact, many women have cat nature in them, they are sensitive, gentle, wild, coquettish, cute, and sensible. As long as you take good care of her, you will see the most complete version of her. There is actually no boundary between whether you like it or not. Sometimes because you deliberately ignore a lot, you subconsciously resist others and reject yourself... Gradually, even if you think "it's a pity that women are not cats", I found that women There is a kind of cat nature, if she cannot get what she wants when she relies on you, then she will never choose to rely on you again in the future.

Women have cat-like self-esteem. Her self-esteem actually means that you care about her. I have read a particularly classic saying, sometimes a woman needs a man, just like an escapee needs a parachute. If he is not here at this moment, then there is no need for him to exist in the future. Really, that's it. If one day the cat looks at you with firm eyes and says yes, then the cat is ready to leave!

A woman should be independent, but independent enough that she will no longer be unreasonable and willful towards you, and will no longer pester you unreasonably. How different do you think you are from her fellow travelers? The feline nature of women is not something everyone is lucky enough to see. Because it trusts you, likes you, recognizes you, and cares about you, it makes a unique purring sound to you. Others can only hear the cat meowing, but this purring sound is just for you.

The same is true for women. Maybe others will always see her as gentle and generous, sensible and well-behaved, polite and uncomplicated, but you will see her as willful and unruly, and occasionally act coquettishly and unreasonably. Sometimes her childish thoughts make even a child ashamed, sometimes she is so romantic that she is like a princess in a fairyland, and sometimes she is so sexy and enchanting that you can't take your eyes off her.

If one day you see her who is completely different from what others see, cherish her, because only you can see her like this, and her beauty and enchantment only bloom for you! Not everyone is lucky enough to see a woman’s cat nature, because you are special and irreplaceable in her heart! Women have cat nature, and women with cat-like self-esteem crave warmth and care the most. I hope you understand!