Like? Many lovers not only like to show affection in public, but also on social networking sites. So, like it? Next I will reveal the secret for you.

The psychology of showing affection on WeChat

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1.1. One or both parties in the couple are very satisfied with their love and feel very happy, "unconsciously" "It's about showing their love on specific occasions and in specific circles.

1.2. One or both parties in the couple are thick-skinned or lacking in strength, and do not realize the difference between public and private situations, so their behavior is more casual, and they are not aware of the people around them even after showing off their affection. human feelings.

1.3. One or both parties in the couple are eager to gain high attention in the social circle, and often make large-scale displays of affection to win everyone's attention and gain others' attention. This is This is also one of the manifestations of my lack of confidence.

1.4. For those who like to show off, if they are surrounded by bachelors and single girls, then "showing affection" itself is a huge showoff capital, and the consequences can be imagined.

1.5. One party in the couple is not confident enough in the relationship, and intentionally or unintentionally uses the behavior of showing affection to "announce" his possession of the other party to the people in the circle, so as to Prevent certain "you know" things from happening.

2. Factors that hinder the behavior of showing affection

2.1. One party in love is not satisfied with the relationship enough, and subconsciously hopes for more Pretend that you are still single in front of others in order to get more potential love opportunities;

2.2. One party in love does not want to gain too much public attention. This mentality is " Phenomenons such as "booing" and "gossip" are relatively common and especially obvious;

2.3. Both parties in love are well aware of the hardships of being single, and try not to harass them for the sake of others;

2.4 Both parties in love are well aware of the terrible consequences of showing affection in certain public places, so they cooperate very well to keep a low profile.

3. Factors that promote displays of affection

3.1. One party in love unconsciously shows their love for each other in public situations because they feel happy and satisfied. ;

3.2. The one in love is thick-skinned and does not realize the difference between public and private situations, so his behavior is more casual;

3.3. The surroundings of the one in love A bachelor who is full of hardships, and in that state "love relationship" is what most bachelors yearn for, so this relationship turns into a capital for this person to show off in front of certain people;

3.4. One party in a relationship is eager to gain attention, so they often make big moves to gain attention.

Correct way to show affection

1. Text should make people comfortable

Text to show affection is one of the most common forms of expression. If the text cannot be beautiful, try to make it look comfortable, or at least not offensive, especially don't show privacy issues. This will only make people around you think you are frivolous. For example, it can be more showy. If you can get it out of your head when you are studying and working, there will definitely be a lot of space for storing knowledge.

2. Post pictures correctly

If the pictures are taken well, it will be a visual enjoyment for the viewers, but what do some people like to post? Two people kissing Please keep such non-mainstream stuff locked up and enjoy it slowly by yourself?

3. Reveal your attitude towards friendship while showing off

The main thing about showing affection is It is for the circle of friends. Whether friends wish you well or not also depends on your attitude towards friendship to a certain extent. After some people fall in love, they only have love in their eyes and hearts, and they have long forgotten what friendship is.

If you can balance these two feelings well, and your attitude towards your friends is as good as before after you have a lover, then they will actually be much more tolerant of your display of affection.

Attitudes towards displays of affection

In different cultural customs, times and environments, people’s acceptance of intimate behavior in public places is different. In China, in surveys conducted by some civilized citizens, residents generally expressed disapproval of intimacy in public places and regarded it as a bad habit. To be more specific, if you interact with each other in streets, parks, entertainment and sports venues, shopping malls, etc., you are likely to be opposed. However, in relatively closed and small circles, where the attributes of the crowd are more similar, this kind of behavior is more likely to be opposed. Easily accepted, such as on a college campus or in a bar.